Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2 http://babyandbump.momtastic.com/miscarriage-support/593321-dealing-miscarriage-without-partner.html [b]Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner.[/b] When I found out I was pregnant it was a huge shock as I wasn't planning on having a baby and I wasn't in a relationship with the father. When I told him about it he didn't want me to continue with the pregnancy but I had already bonded with this baby, I had already been thinking of names, looking at clothes, imagining my life with this baby. I told him that despite what he wanted, I would be continuing with the pregnancy. He tried and tried to convince me what a mistake I was making, how I had no idea how hard it was going to be to be a single parent because he couldn't help me out etc.. of course I had thought of all these things but I didn't care. Planned or not, I loved my baby. [color=#FF0000]He tried from the very beginning to talk this idiot into aborting, they weren't "in a relationship", and yet she was going to go on and hatch it [i]anyway.[/i][/color]:headbrick 2 days later I was in hospital as I suspected I was having a miscarriage. I texted him to tell him and got no response from him. 4 texts I sent him before getting anything out of him which was "You should know I hope you're ok" How would I know if he didn't tell me?? At this point I was told the baby was fine, I got to see the scan and I got to see his little heartbeat which is a moment I will remember for the rest of my life. When the nurse was first looking at the US she couldn't see a heartbeat and turned the screen for me to see. She started off the sentence "I'm sorry.." before being interupted by his tiny little heartbeat as soon as I looked at him. I like to think he was kept alive for a little longer so I could see him. Sounds silly but that thought is helping me through everything. [color=#FF0000]Oh for GOD'S sake! The clot-loaf was on it's way out the baby oven hole and if the NURSE said there wasn't a heart beat then I seriously DOUBT one magically appeared on the screen for her viewing pleasure. The guy ALREADY TOLD HER he didn't want the loaf and she isn't even his girlfriend, so WHY so shocked he doesn't even respond until she pesters the hell out of him? Talk about this lucky guy "dodging the bullet" I hope like hell he has better sense than to sleep with her again.[/color] 8-) After that, things got worse and a week later another scan confirmed I had lost the baby. When I told the father he said he knew that's not what I wanted, he hoped I was ok but that he was relieved. What kind of man tells someone who has just lost their baby that he is relieved??? [color=#FF0000]Things didn't "get worse", the clot was dead in the water and she just refused to let them suction out the rest of the gunk, choosing instead to dramatically draw out the "miscarriage" for as long as she could milk it for attention. OF COURSE he's relieved! WHAT ON EARTH dd she expect? I actually think he's being pretty nice to her, under the circumstances of the fact she is a nutcase.[/color]:shrug Even though I am so angry at this guy for the way he has treated me through all of this, part of me, for some reason, still feels like I need him to help me through this. Even though he wanted no part of the baby's life and doesn't care about what happened it was still his baby and the one I shared that with. Other people have been there to support me but it just doesn't feel the same as having the father's support. My ex boyfriend has been a great help and at one point he said he wishes it had been his baby because even though he'd have lost it he would have known better how to help me through this. I just wish I had the same level of sympathy from the baby's father. [color=#FF0000]This entire part here illustrates she is a [i]COMPLETELY[/i] placenta brained Moo wannabee.. .[/color]:moom I think this was just more a rant than anything, it's the first time I've sat down and let these feelings out but if anybody has been through similar it would be great to hear how you coped. [color=#FF0000]Oh, [i]rest assured[/i] they have. There are PAGES of similar irrational Moo wailings about the dead uncooked loaf, the baby daddy who didn't want it, and how they didn't get the attention from the sperm donors who were CLEARLY :headbricknot interested in spawning with these stupid women. GOD [i]why[/i] don't these guys just wear rubbers?[/color]http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236445#msg-236445Wed, 22 May 2013 00:47:48 -0400 Phorum 5.2.9a http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,237148#msg-237148 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,237148#msg-237148 navi8orgirl The Living RoomFri, 31 Aug 2012 05:22:58 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,237143#msg-237143 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,237143#msg-237143
IS IT REALLY THAT HARD TO SPELL "Doctor"? you can even ABBREVIATE IT TO "Dr"!!!!!

"GET THAT SHIT SCRAPED OUT!"

SERIOUSLY. :goggle]]> Snark Shark The Living RoomFri, 31 Aug 2012 05:08:22 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,237141#msg-237141 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,237141#msg-237141
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:hilarious:hilarious:hilarious]]> Snark Shark The Living RoomFri, 31 Aug 2012 04:57:16 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,237129#msg-237129 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,237129#msg-237129How can anyone write this bas in her own language?
No I am serious. I strife to write in an acceptable English (or Italian when I am writing to people in my country). Why those idiots can’t?

Also. 23. TWENTY THREE. She should know better. She is neither independent nor strong. Period.]]> t. The Living RoomFri, 31 Aug 2012 03:08:23 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,237005#msg-237005 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,237005#msg-237005 Miss_Hannigan The Living RoomThu, 30 Aug 2012 18:08:01 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,237003#msg-237003 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,237003#msg-237003
He's your fuck buddy, not your psychologist. If you want help through the hard times, call your parents or better yet, get a fucking shrink.]]> law The Living RoomThu, 30 Aug 2012 18:04:18 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236941#msg-236941 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236941#msg-236941Page two of the Cows Lowing:


My story starts when i met a guy i though was great.we had so much in common and all that.the sad thing is i got pregnant the first time we had sex.when i found out all i could think is"what just happened?:headbrick What does she THINK just happened? She fucked without birth control and got knocked up.

"i didnt want to tell him but kinda had to coz it would be unfair.i tried to call,text,inbox,fb him but for 2days it was like i was talking to myself.that when i thought he already got what he wanted(sex)and thats was that.but he called and told me he had lost him phone.so i told him and i could tell he was freaked out.i knew he had alot of things to think about so i tried to give him time to think about it Yeah, she contemplated not telling him, but thought it'd be "unfair" to keep it from him she was baking his loaf, like it was something he would have been even remotely happy to hear. So, she called repeatedly, texted incessantly, "inboxed" him, whatever that means, and posted about it to him on facebooger and got no response, but then when she FINALLY tracks him down, he claims he lost his phone?:hilarious

.i didnt know what i wanted at that point.but by the end i knew i wanted my babies.he was supportive as he could be.i told him i gave him an out and that he can help when he was able to and that was that for me and him.and i was ok with that because i understood he couldnt help at that point and we were not in a relationship so i made plans to move on with my life and have this two bundles of joy. The ONLY thing worse than a stupid girl from a one night stand calling and trying to contact you repeatedly that she's inpig with your loaf would be if she was knocked up with TWINS.:smn

On my drive home i started cramping like crazy and spotting so i called my doctore and hetold me to cme to the er.he couldnt find a heartbeat and told me they stopped growing at 6 weeks..and that i will miscarry..tears started rolling and all i could think of is to call him and let him know.he wouldnt pick up like always so i texted him that i needed him..and told him what happened but no reply .i was not shocked at this point i was used to reply.he texted me the next day asking if i was ok..:'(.i didnt tell any of my friends that i was pregnant so after the doc gave me the new i went home and locked myself in the hse. Can they even tell at six weeks gestation she's toting twins?:S

The next day we talked and he said he would be around for me if i needed him.when he said that i told god thank you for listen to my prayers.(i will have help through all this)but to no shock he didnt keep his word.he was a no show.since i told my doc i would rather have a natural miscarriage i have been waiting for four days..cryin,havnt slept ,no eating,i havent seen anyone since monday and today is friday..i hope this pain will pass soon.i need to be me again.independent and strong .i dnt see why i need him but i do he was the father and i think he cares.i am not making excuses for him but i really believe he is a nice guy that doesnt have an idea how to handle everything inhis life.but when i pray from peace in my heart i pray for him too.i pray that his life goes wellin order for me to get through this pain i have to forgive him.but what i hate is i can never forget.he is the first man i had a baby with and he treated me like i was just another mistake in his life.:'(.i dont know if this pain goes away. WHY didn't she let the doctor suction her on out and WHY is she even interested in what this guy thinks, does, or says? It is OBVIOUS he doesn't want to have any more contact with her and painfully so! She DIDN'T "have a baby"!!!! :headbrick

After all i have been through all i have learnt is..i am strong than i think and i dont think i want kids again if miscarriage is an option.at 23 i have learnt not to trust anyone but yourself. This entire run on sentence doesn't make any sense, much like the rest of her illiterate drivel.:drool

My doc said it can take up to a week for me to miscarry.i really pray i am strong enough to get through it alone. GET THAT SHIT SCRAPED OUT!:shrug]]> kidlesskim The Living RoomThu, 30 Aug 2012 13:53:43 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236925#msg-236925 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236925#msg-236925 randomcfchick The Living RoomThu, 30 Aug 2012 12:56:41 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236875#msg-236875 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236875#msg-236875
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"Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner."


" I even sent him a certificate with her name on it "

WTF??? Where'd she get it, online from Certificates-R-Us? She's COOCOO FOR COCOA PUFFS!


She probably got it from a site like this one. This page has the "sample" certificates on it available in most any decorative color.


http://justiceforallcertificates.yolasite.com/services.php

"...Justice for All is honored to offer certificates of life for babies of all types of pregnancy loss (SIDS included). Please have a look around the website for more information on how you can receive your own Soul Certificate. These are free & personalized for anyone who has lost a child, or knows someone who has lost a child. Whether you knew about your baby for one week, or held them in your arms after giving birth; no matter how far along you were when your baby became an angel, you are entitled to grieve, to love, and to live with your little one in your heart for all time. Just as any baby who is born is issued a birth certificate, here any baby who's conceived is given a Soul Certificate.

These certificates recognizing our babies' lives can be a comfort - to slide into a scrapbook, tuck inside a memory box, or hang in a frame on your wall in quiet but proud remembrance. Our babies deserve to be acknowledged for their impact they've had on us and this world, even in the short time they were here...."]]> kidlesskim The Living RoomThu, 30 Aug 2012 09:46:17 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236873#msg-236873 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236873#msg-236873 navi8orgirl The Living RoomThu, 30 Aug 2012 09:42:52 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236846#msg-236846 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236846#msg-236846.]]> yurble The Living RoomThu, 30 Aug 2012 08:12:17 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236819#msg-236819 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236819#msg-236819

*FLUSH!*


"and he ends it with "You just can't stop being so dam dramatic""

he sums it up PRETTY WELL.

" I like to think there is a special place in Gods garden for men like him to labor away "

I'm sure they'd take THAT over listening to some wanna-moo BITCH all day.

"I wasn't with the father either - in fact when i told him i as pregnant he asked if i was getting an abortion. by that point i'd already miscarried, so i corrected him and he acted all sympathetic, but i know he didn't care."

Oh, Say Can You DUH!

" when i asked his opinion on a name"

How about HEMMORAGE?

" I even sent him a certificate with her name on it "

WTF??? Where'd she get it, online from Certificates-R-Us? She's COOCOO FOR COCOA PUFFS!

"told him how I felt and that I wanted to know he would be thinking of her on her birthday"

:goggle

That's real... SPECIAL.

If the guy is smart, he'll change his phone number or even MOVE. wannamoobitch is a stalker in the making!]]> Snark Shark The Living RoomThu, 30 Aug 2012 05:43:02 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236798#msg-236798 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236798#msg-236798:wtf

Girls, seriously, have you nothing to do with your life at all?*

Those women give women a bad name.
Get over it. Nobody cares.



*Thinking about it, she probably doesn’t. And this is why she was “grieving”. Only a way to justify to herself the fact she wasn’t doing anything with her life.]]> t. The Living RoomThu, 30 Aug 2012 03:06:02 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236742#msg-236742 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236742#msg-236742
I would be willing to bet a significant number of these woman are screwing around with married men, and that's why having a relationship with them is not possible.

These woman are living in fantasy land. I'm getting so sick of our pronatalist society where every baybee is a mirakul and it's always a joyous occasion.

Sometimes, pregnancy just means two people did something extremely stupid. A miscarriage in these circumstances is a better outcome for all involved, particularly the child.]]> bell_flower The Living RoomWed, 29 Aug 2012 21:50:00 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236739#msg-236739 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236739#msg-236739
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So she played the role of Flavor of the Week to a guy who probably yelled it to high heaven in front of her that he didn't want a loaf, and she's shocked when he says he doesn't want to be involved, and that he's relieved when the clump of cells makes an exit.

This stupid wanna-moo got what she deserved. And I have tons of respect for the guy who stood by his original stance of not wanting a loaf, and not getting all jelly-spined when wanna-moo said she was inpig. But, he should have wrapped it up.

He may have rapped it, but the rubber may have failed for reasons non-deliberate or when dealing with a placenta brain, deliberate reasons. There are stories of women pulling used rubbers out of the trash, turning them inside out, and well...]]> craftyzits The Living RoomWed, 29 Aug 2012 21:34:23 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236734#msg-236734 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236734#msg-236734 satansbitch The Living RoomWed, 29 Aug 2012 20:52:42 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236720#msg-236720 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236720#msg-236720 Dingo8YourBaby The Living RoomWed, 29 Aug 2012 19:22:33 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236708#msg-236708 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236708#msg-236708 mumofsixbirds The Living RoomWed, 29 Aug 2012 18:52:06 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236707#msg-236707 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236707#msg-236707
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These idiots all think babies have some magic mojo that magically transform a lukewarm man in to a loving, baby rabies filled robot that will suddenly see the light, want them and the brat and they get to run off in to the sunset.

What actually happens in many cases is the man does run off screaming in to the sunset without her.

And I agree, any dude that does not at least slap on a condom when he knows he is doing his one-night mambo is a moron.

There is nothing quite like the feeling of knowing that one parent wanted nothing to do with you and the other resents you for it. It is fucking fantastic!!]]> badgersqueaks The Living RoomWed, 29 Aug 2012 18:51:04 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236652#msg-236652 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236652#msg-236652This one here is in serious need of psychiatric help and I am not saying that to be funny. She is a bona fide NUT CASE of the basket weaving variety :crz

I wasn't with the father either - in fact when i told him i as pregnant he asked if i was getting an abortion. by that point i'd already miscarried, so i corrected him and he acted all sympathetic, but i know he didn't care. i know he was happy to hear "it" was "gone". he didn't even believe it was his. but just 24 hours before telling him, i'd gone thru a horrific experience ALONE, losing the baby. i was still bleeding and it was concerning me. but when i'd text him about it, he ignored me. even ignored when i asked his opinion on a name (i was determined to give this child an identity so that others understood she WAS a baby, not just "cells" or a "fetus" or whatever other term they want to use). I even sent him a certificate with her name on it (and his last name and my last name) to make it a little more real to him. But after that I let him be. Fact was he couldn't be the man I needed him to be. OMFG. the guy asked her to get an abortion, but she miscarried instead and would have refused to have gotten one anyway. He has TOLD her he wasn't interested in her OR a loaf, yet then she drums up a NAME for the clot after having asked him for his opinion on a name and still was getting NO response. AFTER he ignored all of that too, she sent him a "certificate" she got from God knows where? AND he denied it was his clot from the very beginning? If I had been that guy I would have been looking over my shoulder:hs

When we lose a baby, we lose a piece of ourselves, we lose what we helped create, and therefore we feel the only person who can help us grieve is the one who should be grieving with us. yes it helps to talk about it to people who understand, helps to have support of family and friends, BUT there's only one man who should be feeling your loss in the same way you are, and he's MIA. It is SO hard, i looked for any man who could be a "replacement" but male friends just couldn't cut it, and no one was gonna love this baby like I did. they would feel sad FOR me because i feel sad, but they won't feel sad WITH me, y'know? This sounds like the thought processes of an emotionally disturbed and mentally unstable person.:shrug

Unfortunately i just had to ride it out alone. after almost a year i decided i had enough of being the only one to remember. I wanted to make sure Justice would live on with her father as well. So I wrote him a letter, told him how I felt and that I wanted to know he would be thinking of her on her birthday. I wanted nothing more, because we could have nothing more. This wasn't some kind of trap or gameplaying, it was my heart on my sleeve, saying I need to know in order for ME to move forward with my life, I had to know he cares, because I couldn't take being alone anymore. It's "birthday" :wtf It can't HAVE a "birthday" if it's never been born! She spills her guts in a letter to this guy a YEAR later, about a loaf he claimed wasn't even HIS? I'd have liked to have been a fly on the wall when he read that nonsense! By this point he likely had an actual girlfriend or even a wife. It'd freak me the fuck out if some woman in my husband's past sent him a letter like that. What is she, Glenn Close's character from "Fatal Attraction"? :S


And he came through. I think he grew up a lot in that year, he recognized that it was true grief i was going through and he told me he would remember.The guy is a genius to have told her what she wanted to hear at this point! GOD help him had he been mean about it. However, I wouldn't doubt it if his kindness didn't signal to her she still had a chance with him, since she is OBVIOUSLY a psycho.:crz

At that point that's all that mattered, and that point it was enough to give me the peace i'd been desiring that whole year long. He couldn't give me the support I needed, he wasn't the man he should have been. But i was thankful that in spirit he would be thinking of her with me. i wouldn't have found that out though if i hadn't been straight forward - no sugar coating, no roundabout way of asking - just flat out, THIS is what I need, are you going to give me that?
it makes me wonder if i'd been that straight forward when it happened would things have been different? But i know in my heart that's probably not true - he could say what he did now because time had passed and he'd also come to terms with it. No, he had completely forgotten about it until he received that bat shit crazy letter. He hadn't "come to terms" with anything other than perhaps he had made a terrible mistake in ever hooking up with that girl.:smn

I hope something can happen that will give you the peace that i received. i wanted so much for a whole year to have what i couldn't in that man, that by the time he said he would never forget it was all i needed to feel complete again. hugs for you hun, it will be a difficult road, but this is a great support site. Yeah, I will BET he won't "ever forget it" and probably will forever have the scar from getting grazed by that crazed dodged bullet..:bounce


ETA: I haven't even begun to look at the second page of these yet.:S]]> kidlesskim The Living RoomWed, 29 Aug 2012 16:26:35 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236643#msg-236643 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236643#msg-236643
What actually happens in many cases is the man does run off screaming in to the sunset without her.

And I agree, any dude that does not at least slap on a condom when he knows he is doing his one-night mambo is a moron.]]> Dingo8YourBaby The Living RoomWed, 29 Aug 2012 15:38:47 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236637#msg-236637 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236637#msg-236637
Technology sets women up for this kind of drama. From what I researched, a fetal heartbeat can be detected by the 4th or 5th week of pregnancy. By the time a woman is "pretty sure" she's pregnant, the doctor can do a scan to show her a blob and let her hear a pitter patter - both amorphous indications from which she can build a baby in her imagination. Used to be that women didn't consider a pregnancy viable until at least past the third month or until she felt the critter kicking. Now, some women start thinking of themselves as a "mother" when all they have is a clot.

It would only lead to more misogynist attitudes, but men should read those boards. From the responses those idiot cows described, men** have absolutely no idea of how these women think when it comes to getting knocked up. While the men keep it simple ("I don't want this baby, ergo I need to try and make the woman abort it"), the women confabulate the situation, become obsessed with a fantasy picture, and try to pull the men into the world they've created, even if the man shows clearly that he ain't havin' none of it. And when the worst happens and the men 'let them down' (though I don't see it that way. the guy is merely following his own processing of the situation) the women fall to pieces.

Any guy that has bareback, fertile sex with a woman to whom he has not discussed consequences is an idiot. They have no idea of the whole world some of these women can create - a world they expect the sperm donor to willingly fall into - should they conceive.



**exceptions being the men who post on this board. I think you guys are rarities.]]> Dorisan The Living RoomWed, 29 Aug 2012 15:11:37 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236624#msg-236624 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236624#msg-236624This Wanna-Moo comment TRUMPS the original poster's sob story:Violin

Your story sounds so much like mine...Text after text during my MC was the same thing your man said. I went through 12 hours of labor only to end in an emergency d&c and then back in the ER the next day with an allergic shock reaction to the anesthesia and then again 2 days later with an infection. Even tonight I finally poured my heart and soul and tears into a conversation with him and he ends it with "You just can't stop being so dam dramatic" And yet I still feel like I need him as well, but I think it's the shock of one loss and the fear of losing him completely so that I can never have that chance for that next baby again..Not ONLY did she have a miscarriage requiring a hospital visit too, but SHE was 1)Admitted through the emergency room and given an EMERGENCY D&C 2) Suffered an allergic reaction to anesthesia and went BACK to the ER 3)Then endured an infection as well as lost a half baked loaf. Yet, she wants a, "chance for that baby again" from the loins of a man eaten alive by the I DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT YOU virus.:bounce

I try to find reason in all of this, my next step is to start anti-depressants, I'm slowly losing me through all of this... I've been two days without sleep, on pain meds, not eating and he gives me this... I like to think there is a special place in Gods garden for men like him to labor away the fruits of there ill will toward us who needed them so while they watch us prosper and grow and get that happiness they denied us so much..This one here is vindictive as hell, wanting her man to toil away in God's Garden and all while she and her baby look on in delight. NOT FOUND in the bible though, this Garden of Moo revenge. :spin

Know you're not alone, though I can't offer you much in the way of answers as they seem to escape me when I need them most, if nothing else a touching story similar to your own and a hug might give you comfort in your grief She certainly ISN'T alone because there are several more pages of strikingly similar stories reaching idiotic proportions on this one blog, among thousands.:shrug]]> kidlesskim The Living RoomWed, 29 Aug 2012 14:38:14 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236618#msg-236618 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236618#msg-236618
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http://babyandbump.momtastic.com/miscarriage-support/593321-dealing-miscarriage-without-partner.html

My ex boyfriend has been a great help and at one point he said he wishes it had been his baby because even though he'd have lost it he would have known better how to help me through this. I just wish I had the same level of sympathy from the baby's father.

As Scooby would say: "ruh roh"

Ex-boyfriend had better watch out, I'm getting vibes that the moo-wanna-be might pull a "why don't we get together for dinner - you know, for old time's sake" con that will lead to a roll, leading her to obsessively checking the pee stick for the next three weeks. She's gone through all those fluffy cloud vibes and created a mental picture of herself as a sainted mother.

If it's not her ex-, it's going to be some other sap. That woman has breedin' on her mind; she's not going to stop until she gets herself in pup.

That's exactly what I think will happen, but I hope she'll go after her sympathetic ex instead of that guy. Sadly, so many of these women want to redo the pregnancy, so I'm also certain that she'll start taking prenatal vitamins and then arrange to be with the guy who knocked her up before, and try to get him in the sack again...sadly, it probably won't be all that hard to convince him to fuck her again.]]> yurble The Living RoomWed, 29 Aug 2012 14:21:33 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236617#msg-236617 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236617#msg-236617
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I'm not going to try wrapping my head around that insanity. After three glasses of wine I'm not drunk but that crap makes me want to say screw the glass and just guzzle the bottle.


That's fine, as long as you share :bounce

Yeah and for the next one - get a paper bag to keep it in so we can pass it around. How about some MD 2020 - it comes in BLUE flavor now!
Damn Skippy! Ima go get me a brick!

You can always find a kindly and sympathetic man at the liquor store. Whiny Wanna Moo was looking for lurve in all the wrong places. You want a nice warm feeling in the belly? Fuck pregnancy - go for the juiced wines! You get you a brick of the MD and hang around an alley - you'll meet PLENTY of loving men! I guarantee it!



NEVER would I make the mistake of drinking Mad Dog again, ever. At the age of 17 a friend of mine and I would routinely park outside of a liquor store dive on the bad side of town on Friday nights and within 5 minutes, we could get a Wino willing to break the law and buy us a bottle of Barcardi if we gave him $5. One night we had slim pickins' and had to settle on one who was well into a good hearty drunk. The sneaky bastard bought us a bottle of MD 20/20 instead and of course pocketed the change. Since he had taken all of our money, we drank it anyway. NEVER have I been so sick in my life, literally vomiting all up my driveway when we got back, which my dad made me get up at 6AM and scrub off the next morning. It's been over 30 years ago and I still get waves of nausea when I think about it. :dp]]> kidlesskim The Living RoomWed, 29 Aug 2012 14:18:40 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236610#msg-236610 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236610#msg-236610
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http://babyandbump.momtastic.com/miscarriage-support/593321-dealing-miscarriage-without-partner.html

My ex boyfriend has been a great help and at one point he said he wishes it had been his baby because even though he'd have lost it he would have known better how to help me through this. I just wish I had the same level of sympathy from the baby's father.

As Scooby would say: "ruh roh"

Ex-boyfriend had better watch out, I'm getting vibes that the moo-wanna-be might pull a "why don't we get together for dinner - you know, for old time's sake" con that will lead to a roll, leading her to obsessively checking the pee stick for the next three weeks. She's gone through all those fluffy cloud vibes and created a mental picture of herself as a sainted mother.

If it's not her ex-, it's going to be some other sap. That woman has breedin' on her mind; she's not going to stop until she gets herself in pup.

Oh absolutely - I thought the same thing! I also thought this of the Clump Father; Consider this statement - Even though I am so angry at this guy for the way he has treated me through all of this, part of me, for some reason, still feels like I need him to help me through this.

Seems to me that she'd make another run at this guy too, if given the chance.

You know it never ceases to amaze me how men complain about 'over emotional' women - and yet they seem to chase after these types. If you're more calm, rational, and logic based - you're a cold bitch, a Feminazi, mean, etc. But then they go right back to bitching about the Hysterical Emotional Women. The EX BF here - OK, why is he even speaking to this hot mess? For the love of crap :rolleyes2]]> Zzelda The Living RoomWed, 29 Aug 2012 13:57:31 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236607#msg-236607 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236607#msg-236607
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I'm not going to try wrapping my head around that insanity. After three glasses of wine I'm not drunk but that crap makes me want to say screw the glass and just guzzle the bottle.


That's fine, as long as you share :bounce

Yeah and for the next one - get a paper bag to keep it in so we can pass it around. How about some MD 2020 - it comes in BLUE flavor now!
Damn Skippy! Ima go get me a brick!

You can always find a kindly and sympathetic man at the liquor store. Whiny Wanna Moo was looking for lurve in all the wrong places. You want a nice warm feeling in the belly? Fuck pregnancy - go for the juiced wines! You get you a brick of the MD and hang around an alley - you'll meet PLENTY of loving men! I guarantee it!]]> Zzelda The Living RoomWed, 29 Aug 2012 13:46:39 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236606#msg-236606 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236606#msg-236606
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http://babyandbump.momtastic.com/miscarriage-support/593321-dealing-miscarriage-without-partner.html

My ex boyfriend has been a great help and at one point he said he wishes it had been his baby because even though he'd have lost it he would have known better how to help me through this. I just wish I had the same level of sympathy from the baby's father.

As Scooby would say: "ruh roh"

Ex-boyfriend had better watch out, I'm getting vibes that the moo-wanna-be might pull a "why don't we get together for dinner - you know, for old time's sake" con that will lead to a roll, leading her to obsessively checking the pee stick for the next three weeks. She's gone through all those fluffy cloud vibes and created a mental picture of herself as a sainted mother.

If it's not her ex-, it's going to be some other sap. That woman has breedin' on her mind; she's not going to stop until she gets herself in pup.]]> Dorisan The Living RoomWed, 29 Aug 2012 13:44:49 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236590#msg-236590 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236590#msg-236590
And he should drop to his knees and kiss the ground that she had a miscarriage. Saved him a lifetime of support payments, drama and baggage. Maybe he'll consider wrapping it up or getting fixed.]]> cfmoneybags The Living RoomWed, 29 Aug 2012 12:35:34 -0400 http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236536#msg-236536 Re: Single Wanna Moos on "Dealing with a miscarriage without a partner" :rolleyes2http://www.refugees.bratfree.com/read.php?2,236445,236536#msg-236536
Both guy and clumpy are in better places. This chick is nucking futs.]]> navi8orgirl The Living RoomWed, 29 Aug 2012 09:09:21 -0400