The "I got bin go-ed" thread

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blackpearl
I am planning to visit my family in Romania at the end of this summer and some people there got to know about it from my mom. Two of them (whom i have't spoken to in almost 2 years) contacted me on messenger to catch up with me and ask me to meet them when i come. We didn't even exchange few lines and they asked me "when are you having kids?". I ignored the question and talked about smth. different. But one of them still insisted:

her: when are you having kids?
me: i need to contact my bank and take care of some formalities blah blah
her: ok, yeah, it has to be done
me: it gives me headaches when i think of it, last time i had troubles with the clerk
her: you still have't answer my previous question
me: you know banks can be a pain in the ass sometimes
her: why are you avoiding the subject
(at this point i refuse to answer anymore)
her: hellllloooo? i was asking you smth....

I signed out of messenger because she was so damn annoying. I haven't spoken to her in such a long time, why the heck is so damn important to know my reproductive plans. Geez.

"For someone who hasn't seen me in years, you are very focused on my cunt."

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blackpearl
I am planning to visit my family in Romania at the end of this summer and some people there got to know about it from my mom. Two of them (whom i have't spoken to in almost 2 years) contacted me on messenger to catch up with me and ask me to meet them when i come. We didn't even exchange few lines and they asked me "when are you having kids?". I ignored the question and talked about smth. different. But one of them still insisted:

her: when are you having kids?
me: i need to contact my bank and take care of some formalities blah blah
her: ok, yeah, it has to be done
me: it gives me headaches when i think of it, last time i had troubles with the clerk
her: you still have't answer my previous question
me: you know banks can be a pain in the ass sometimes
her: why are you avoiding the subject
(at this point i refuse to answer anymore)
her: hellllloooo? i was asking you smth....

I signed out of messenger because she was so damn annoying. I haven't spoken to her in such a long time, why the heck is so damn important to know my reproductive plans. Geez.

"For someone who hasn't seen me in years, you are very focused on my cunt."

I feel like there's no fucking way I won't take every opportunity to use this one.

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happilyjustus
I got the dumbfounded look this weekend.

We were at a gathering & we were chatting about home decor. Out of no where, I was asked how many kid I have. I just replied, "We don't have kids" & her jaw dropped. She was speechless & got into a "holier than thou" stance. I'm thinking, blink woman, blink.

Since it appeared that I would have to make the next move, I added that we do have 3 cats. Apparently, based on her silence, it wasn't an acceptable response & she walked away LOL. larious

Hmm, I might have to walk one of the kitties in the stroller I usually only use for transport by her house one day. :1wv

"Obviously, having kids causes a person to become socially rude"

I've noticed that, too. It's almost like you just told a childed person that you practice canibalism or something equally icky.eyes2

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blackpearl
A woman at DH's work upon finding it is our wedding anniversary: "You are so happy! I wish you kids!". Yeah, bitch, thanks for the curse. eyes2

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elaphe_guttata
I can push it around in a stroller

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milenascarlet
I have to say you have a lot of restraint.
I wouldn't be able to sit and listen to that bullshit. Even if there were people I wanted to hang out with, there's no way I'd sit through that brainless motherhood sanctification.
I'd declare open fire right there. "Sorry, I can't stay any longer. Let's reschedule. But don't invite me if she's also invited."
I guess I need to learn patience.

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starlady
Why is it that all these breeders who 'bingo' us seem to have the same script? They have the whole bingo list down. Not a thing new ... just the same old spew we've heard over and over and over. It's not changingour minds lurking moos. A true CF will never fall for the bingos. Go spew somewhere else.

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yummynotmummy
Friend with loaf proceeds to babble shite about how her life had no meaning before, she's forever changed, she's a different person, a better person, how she sees how immature and selfish she was pre children how wonderful moohood is and she's going to have another next year, and was putting on ostentatious displays of affection and fussing over the kyd. I could see IVF lady starting to get a bit upset and she went out for a cigarette. Moo friend turns to me and our CF lesbian friend and gives us that patronising look and says "I just can't understand why any woman wouldn't want this, it's what we were born to do" and said she felt sorry for people who weren't brave enough to do the most rewarding thing in the world. Then bingoes spewed forth about who will take care of us when we're old, how our lives will be narrow and self focused, and how we'll never know real love.

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whats the point of spreading ideas and knowledge when there are only dumb people ion this world, as you predict? the problem with you pseudo-intellectuals is that you believe breeding is some primitive activity and you are above that. the problem is that smart people dont want to breed whereas 'dumb' people do. theres no meaning in our lives if we dont live for the future and make it a better place for our offspring. at least we will be remebered for that

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life stops when you die, and you dont pass on your genes or memories to your offspring. sure, your friends and family may remember, but not the generation after that. unless you've made a major accomplishment in life, which is a different story.

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The one without kid will someday die alone, and the corpse won't be found until someone reported horrible stench from next door. Well, life well lived!

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Kids are awesome. I wish I'd became a dad sooner. You nay sayers have no idea what you're missing out on...

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we traded Paris for Germany there chief. There's more to raising kids then just diapers and puke. Watching my son being born was life changing. I've never felt so proud of any accomplishments I achieved until the first time I held my kid... but I can tell you're young. Give it time your interest will change and things just won't seem that important and you'll desire new experiences.

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If nobody wants to have kids the population of the earth will decrease. countries with more old people than young people will DIE OUT in the next 50 years. if you plan to not have kids you will end the whole family tree of thousands of years. think about it twice.

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Shame that your parents didn't have this list before they decided to have you.

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Please do explain to me how did you crawl out of your mom`s Pussy a grown men that didn`t do any of those things, pleas explain!! And not everybody that has kids go through this, I have two, and I can have my weekends of sleep cose I make their day busy enough for them to be exhausted enough not to wake up at 6am, and they were properly potty trained since 1,5 years old, it depends on you to put limits!!

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the problem with you pseudo-intellectuals is that you believe breeding is some primitive activity and you are above that.

How is breeding NOT a primitive activity? It's acting on the most primitive, instinct-based of human needs!

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life stops when you die, and you dont pass on your genes or memories to your offspring. sure, your friends and family may remember, but not the generation after that. unless you've made a major accomplishment in life, which is a different story.

And, a few generations later, not even your family will remember.

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The one without kid will someday die alone, and the corpse won't be found until someone reported horrible stench from next door. Well, life well lived!

All the (probably incorrect) assumptions aside, why the fuck would you care about what happens to your corpse?

The next two come form the same guy

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Kids are awesome. I wish I'd became a dad sooner. You nay sayers have no idea what you're missing out on...

We do, that's why we don't want them.

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we traded Paris for Germany there chief. There's more to raising kids then just diapers and puke. Watching my son being born was life changing. I've never felt so proud of any accomplishments I achieved until the first time I held my kid... but I can tell you're young. Give it time your interest will change and things just won't seem that important and you'll desire new experiences.

There IS more to raising kids than* diapers and puke. Not good things, I'm afraid, at least not in our opinion.
Also, having a child is only an accomplishment if breeding is all you're capable of.

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If nobody wants to have kids the population of the earth will decrease. countries with more old people than young people will DIE OUT in the next 50 years. if you plan to not have kids you will end the whole family tree of thousands of years. think about it twice.

Because there's a shortage of people (breeders, in particular).

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Shame that your parents didn't have this list before they decided to have you.

Parental wisdom, kindness and maturity, everyone.

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Please do explain to me how did you crawl out of your mom`s Pussy a grown men that didn`t do any of those things, pleas explain!!

And your point is...?

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And not everybody that has kids go through this, I have two, and I can have my weekends of sleep cose I make their day busy enough for them to be exhausted enough not to wake up at 6am, and they were properly potty trained since 1,5 years old, it depends on you to put limits!!

So? You are still obligated to deal with them until they're 18.