What not to ask a pregnant woman May 18, 2011 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,432 |
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So here's a tip for those who find themselves eager for details in the face of baby news: Imagine how you'd feel if someone asked you how often you have sex, or how your own family planning is working out.
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So someone asks a poorly worded question and you flip out? Get over yourself.
Meanwhile I'm sure you blab non-stop ABOUT your pregnancy without being prompted, or changing diapers or the 10 million other things related to motherhood and meanwhile your co-workers are forced to listen to this whether they like it or not.
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So, you tell me you're pregnant. I'm trying to think of something to say. Cuz the truth is I could care less....I'm just maki8bng conversartion.
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Even though it's a painful topic, these are normal people who want and like kids who are simply making conversation by asking the question which only has one correct answer: of course we're trying, of course we want to have [more] kids.
I've told people who don't want kids to their face that they're fucking weird.
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I've told people who don't want kids to their face that they're fucking weird.
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I will never congratulate someone for getting knocked up.
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Best response ever: "I see. Well, good luck with that!"
Works whether the person wants the pregnancy or not, whether they'll have the baby or get an abortion, and whether they'll raise it themselves or give it up for adoption.
AND you don't have to congratulate them if you don't want to.
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JayJay
Best response ever: "I see. Well, good luck with that!"
Works whether the person wants the pregnancy or not, whether they'll have the baby or get an abortion, and whether they'll raise it themselves or give it up for adoption.
AND you don't have to congratulate them if you don't want to.
I like this a LOT!
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Best response ever: "I see. Well, good luck with that!"
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Not saying congratulations is not necessarily "pissing on someone's parade".
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What not to ask a pregnant woman:
"Have you considered the impact your child will have on your carbon footprint? Would you consider an abortion to save the planet?"
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To quote a line from Patch Adams: "Let's visit the maternity ward, you know those women put out". By announcing to the all those in ear shot that there's a "bun in the oven" then that woman has already said she has a sex life. So why feel the question "where you trying?" is rude? If you don't want to be asked what you think are dumb ass questions then keep your dumb ass mouth shut.
Besides, I have to wonder if this is one of those females on a publicly accessible forum talking about her BFNs and how often and in what positions her and the sperm donor are doing the reproductive deed.
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