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I bet the asshole plays the criminal and probably insisted on repeated takes of the rape scene to get it just right.
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I hate it when victims forgive and embrace their attackers or WORSE, when do that Christian love nonsense with someone who MURDERED a family member. If they feel some great need to forgive and forget for their own conscience, so be it, but MUST they publicize and glorify it? I can say with absolute certainty I would NOT forgive a rapist
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myrna minkoff
stephen baldwin? oh right...the baldwin who isn't alec. eyes2
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In the meantime, it seems the Baldwin movie was released on DVD this month.
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Loving the Bad Man is a compelling story about faith, love and redemption.
This feature-length movie explores how God is present in all of us, and shows His glorious power even in the face of racism and such heinous acts as rape and murder. This film reveals the endurance of the human condition, and how we are all part of God's great universe no matter how good or bad we are.
This story focuses primarily on Julie Thompson (Christine Kelly), a young conservative Christian woman, who is truly tested by God and gives birth to a child conceived in rape. This decision leads her on a journey that forces her to explore and redefine her relationships with God, her family, friends and even her rapist Mike Connor (Arturo Fernandez), as she struggles to forgive the man who violated her by boldly visiting him in prison and forging an unlikely bond.
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... all too often, given another 20 years to reform in, the more mild types of bullying DO tend to get completely forgotten by the bullies (as opposed to things only psychopaths would be able to "forget," such as Mitt Romney's cutting off the hair of a young, screaming schoolmate).
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Q. Revenge of the Geek?: I enrolled my two boys into an exclusive private school in our new hometown. At a school event I bumped into an attractive woman whom I didn't recognize. She came by and asked if I remember her. It turns out that she was someone I bullied in high school. After that day I noticed other moms slowly avoiding me. I think she must have told them about how I used to bully her. Eventually my boys started coming home, crying and upset that other kids wouldn't play with them. My younger son was not allowed to join a game of hockey during recess because another boy told him, "My mom says your mom is a b***h." They are now openly being ridiculed and ostracized at school by their peers. I asked to meet my former classmate and apologized for bullying her as I was young and stupid, although I don't much remember what I did. She smiled at me in a creepy way and said she went through therapy for what I put her through. I haven't told my husband about this woman because I'm a little ashamed at how I used to treat her. Putting my boys into another school is not a feasible option, but I just don't know what to do.
A: So this woman's revenge on your long ago mistreatment of her is to lead her children in a campaign to ostracize and bully your children. Boy, oh, boy does she need more therapy. You're understandably ashamed of what you did and want to keep it quiet, but for the sake of your sons you need to tell your husband about it, and how your misdeeds are being revisited on your innocent boys. Then the two of you need to get in touch with the school administration and get this issue addressed. They should take immediate steps to stop the bullying of your sons.
But what may never stop is your own shunning. You have entered a Hollywood-ready high school revenge story. Twenty years after your reign as a mean girl, you're going to find yourself black-balled at the school bake sales and rejected as class mother. Even if you get the other kids to back off your boys, you've got a tough road ahead since now all the other mothers know just how miserably you treated their friend. Let's hope some parents will decide not to relive the worst of high school, understand people change, and refuse to be drawn into this drama. Leading a campaign to have your children mistreated may eventually backfire on this other mother and she may find herself as the unpopular girl all over again. Let's hope with some intervention, your sons' situation dramatically improves in the fall. You say there is no other feasible option but this school, but if all of you find yourselves isolated and unhappy there, there are always other choices.
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In the meantime, it seems the Baldwin movie was released on DVD this month.
Must be why Baldwin is shilling it. The actual news story is recent.
I googled the title, looking for reviews. First thing that came up was a trailer on youtube (not going to add to the view count by watching it :lips ) and a synopsis.Quote
Loving the Bad Man is a compelling story about faith, love and redemption.
This feature-length movie explores how God is present in all of us, and shows His glorious power even in the face of racism and such heinous acts as rape and murder. This film reveals the endurance of the human condition, and how we are all part of God's great universe no matter how good or bad we are.
This story focuses primarily on Julie Thompson (Christine Kelly), a young conservative Christian woman, who is truly tested by God and gives birth to a child conceived in rape. This decision leads her on a journey that forces her to explore and redefine her relationships with God, her family, friends and even her rapist Mike Connor (Arturo Fernandez), as she struggles to forgive the man who violated her by boldly visiting him in prison and forging an unlikely bond.
Ummm .... ewww. "...forging an unlikely bond." I'm getting a '50 Shades of Grey' vibe. I wonder if the release to DVD, coinciding with the popularity of '50..' is a subtle marketing measure, hence Lenona's stats (above) on who liked the movie.
ETA: checked Amazon reviews.
"Came across a picture of the movie about 4 hours ago and it interested me to the fullest to the point that it's the first i've actually paid for to see online. It teaches us the greatest lesson in life which is to love the ones that hurt us the most. Thanks to Jesus and then to the one of the idea of making this movie. It changed my life in a way... TOTALLY RECOMMENDED."
"This movie is a true representation of what Christianity should not only look like but be like .
So much work to be done agree or not this is what it is all about."
Has anyone here ever known a person with those kind of views? I couldn't forbear looking at them like they had two heads if I was ever subjected to that kind of nonsense. It's almost like something that would go along with the characteristics of a sociopath: "well, yes, I hurt you, but you're supposed to forgive me. That's what Xst teaches."
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I do. I know MANY people who claim they forgive people for often times heinous wrong doings. I will forgive someone IF I truly believe they are sorry for what they did to me AND they don't repeat the behavior. However, I have never been faced with something like a rape or murder personally, so I can't say for certain, but I really doubt forgiveness would be part of it. Also, many people have said to me over the years how revenge, not forgiving, and stored anger is bad for ME. I'd like to say that isn't true in my case because I enjoy getting people back, I THRIVE on planning out the revenge and laying in wait until the prefect moment to exact it even if it takes years, and I take great delight in exacting revenge, when it's deserved. I can't explain the elation and feeling of satisfaction I derive from it,but it borders on giddiness.
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myrna minkoff
stephen baldwin? oh right...the baldwin who isn't alec. eyes2
Yeah. Alec was most famous, and Billy was not far behind. Stephen cruised on their coattails but really did not amount to much.
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I always thought Baldwin was nuts, but he really tipped the scales when he got Miley Cyrus's initials tattooed on his arm.
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I'd never forgive. Not in me. As for revenge? I'm a firm believer in karma...but DAMN I want to be there when they get smacked with it!
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I always thought Baldwin was nuts, but he really tipped the scales when he got Miley Cyrus's initials tattooed on his arm.
Wait, what? He has a tattoo of Miley Cyrus' initials? Why? She is almost as irritating as Justin Beiber. Also, she has the biggest teeth I have ever seen outside of a bridle. She is like a human version of Mr. Ed.
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I always thought Baldwin was nuts, but he really tipped the scales when he got Miley Cyrus's initials tattooed on his arm.
Wait, what? He has a tattoo of Miley Cyrus' initials? Why? She is almost as irritating as Justin Beiber. Also, she has the biggest teeth I have ever seen outside of a bridle. She is like a human version of Mr. Ed.
I was wrong, he got Hanna Montana's initials, which is even fucking worse.
http://gawker.com/5097844/42+year+old-stephen-baldwin-reveals-tattoo-of-teenaged-miley-cyrus
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" It teaches us the greatest lesson in life which is to love the ones that hurt us the most."
THAT'S ONE OF THE STUPIDEST THINGS I'VE EVER HEARD. eyes2
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I always thought Baldwin was nuts, but he really tipped the scales when he got Miley Cyrus's initials tattooed on his arm.
Wait, what? He has a tattoo of Miley Cyrus' initials? Why? She is almost as irritating as Justin Beiber. Also, she has the biggest teeth I have ever seen outside of a bridle. She is like a human version of Mr. Ed.
I was wrong, he got Hanna Montana's initials, which is even fucking worse.
http://gawker.com/5097844/42+year+old-stephen-baldwin-reveals-tattoo-of-teenaged-miley-cyrus
Oh dear. Hannah Montana? Did he lose a bar bet?