Bratty younger sister is pissed with her sensible boyfriend May 24, 2018 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 1,471 |
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bell_flower
I hope this guy is smart enough to run. If he's not, he should be wrapping it up, each and every time.
She sounds like the type to get knocked upon purposeby accident to hurry things along. If he does continue with school, she'll bitch constantly how haaaaaaaaaaaaaard it is to take care of a loaf while he's gone all the time. They'll end up divorced because he outgrows her. Being 22/23 and having no aspirations of life other than marriage is pretty stupid anyway. It's 2018, not 1918.
But they never run when they should. Some guys are just too trusting and then they wonder why they're 30 and their lives are ruined.
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I dont know how long theyre dating but asking someone to wait over 12 yrs to tie the knot is a little long, even for the reasons he's citing. Now, waiting to reproduce....that's a different story. But if she's pretty irresponsible, he'll figure it out sooner or later, before he's 35
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No. He's just not that into her. Saying you don't want to be exclusive or put a label on the relationship means you don't love her. That's crystal clear. He's into fitness and ambitious for his education and she refuses to exercise and forgets to go to class. I'm willing to bet she doesn't even really want children, but rather an excuse to not work. Waiting to have kids is a LOT different than waiting to get married. If he loved her no way would he tell her he plans to marry her in more than a decade. As an aspiring physician he knows fertility declines after 30 and moreso after 35. He's planning on him being 35 when he has kids, but I can assure you he's planning on having them with a younger women. IOW not your sister.
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I'm willing to bet she doesn't even really want children, but rather an excuse to not work. Waiting to have kids is a LOT different than waiting to get married. If he loved her no way would he tell her he plans to marry her in more than a decade.
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