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http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/adoptee-search-birth-mother-ends-rejection-article-1.1284242
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I understand it must suck knowing your biological parents didn't want you, but why do some people fight to the point of hiring private investigators to meet people who tried so hard to never be found by their kids? I don't get it.
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Cambion
I understand it must suck knowing your biological parents didn't want you, but why do some people fight to the point of hiring private investigators to meet people who tried so hard to never be found by their kids? I don't get it.
I personally never thought that. I’m grateful for my adoption, and I’ve never wanted to meet egg donor, even though I was told that’s an option. However, despite not sharing those feelings, im going to speculate on why others have those feelings. I think ungrateful adoptees are narcissistic, in the same way that breeders are who refuse to adopt because”it’s diferent when it’s your own.” Ungrateful adoptees probably want to see their egg donors because they can only love someone that is “part of them.” They don’t realize that they are only part of each other biologically, not emotionally.
Re: Adult Loaves "mourn" their adoption? October 15, 2018 | Registered: 8 years ago Posts: 499 |
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This is very curious and makes lots of sense when thinking about the fact that it is exactly the mentality a parent who is narcissistic has. Does a child adopted out become a narcissist because of nature or nuture?
The narcissistic child also probably thinks there is no way their bio parent(s) can meet them and not think they are the greatest thing on the earth. Instant love and grave apologies for not raising the bio child. And that only happens in the movies.
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