Fence sitters falling off the fence October 11, 2019 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 2,060 |
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moron wanna breed
"You'll change you're mind once you've lost all your weight"
Re: Fence sitters falling off the fence October 12, 2019 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,965 |
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Re: Fence sitters falling off the fence October 14, 2019 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 7,826 |
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mumofsixbirds
If it didn't bother her and he was just joking, then why did she go to Reddit and whine about it? She must have known that people would have strong opinions about anyone threatening to sabotage birth control.
Re: Fence sitters falling off the fence October 14, 2019 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 2,060 |
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Re: Fence sitters falling off the fence October 15, 2019 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 7,826 |
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cfdavep
Fence sitting seems to be a thing for people who want attention, at least some of them. I think some fence sitters just want to be pulled off the fence by someone as they do not want the responsibility of making a clear decision and living with the consequences.
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"We’re not one of those nutters who calls kids crotch fruit or spawn or whatever godforsaken name there is"
Re: Fence sitters falling off the fence October 15, 2019 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 3,576 |
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Cambion
Then don't fucking come here. One of my favorite things about Bratfree is liberal use of our colorful vocabulary, which includes terms I've never heard anywhere else. I've always had to check myself on other CF sites because most of them had rules against name-calling, which I hated.
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Cambion
Then don't fucking come here. One of my favorite things about Bratfree is liberal use of our colorful vocabulary, which includes terms I've never heard anywhere else. I've always had to check myself on other CF sites because most of them had rules against name-calling, which I hated.
Bratfree is the only CF forum I visit.
Re: Fence sitters falling off the fence October 18, 2019 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,432 |
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Cambion
It's the only one I visit now. It was also the first one I ever joined. When I found out what childfreedom was (this was like 13 or 14 years ago, mind you), I pretty much just signed up on every single CF site I found: this one, CFEZ, Positively Childfree, Childfree LiveJournal, Tanglewood, CF Hardcore, and Happily Childfree. Most of them I left and they eventually either stopped getting traffic or disappeared entirely.
I think Bratfree was one of the first CF sites, wasn't it? I don't think it's quite as busy as it used to be (excluding troll activity), but a lot of the same members from years and years ago are still here. It's kinda corny saying this, but I kind of feel like Bratfree is a little mini online family.
Re: Fence sitters falling off the fence October 19, 2019 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 73 |
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Cambion
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cfdavep
Fence sitting seems to be a thing for people who want attention, at least some of them. I think some fence sitters just want to be pulled off the fence by someone as they do not want the responsibility of making a clear decision and living with the consequences.
From a social standpoint, it's a good place to be. They won't have to worry about people being assholes to them for being "one of those childfree people," but they're also still in breeders' good graces because they can possibly be swayed to the Moo side still. You can sort of play both sides of the field. I'd wager a good chunk of fencesitters are closet CFers, but they don't want the stigma that comes with saying you don't want kids outright, so saying they're on the fence about kids keeps people off their backs compared to them saying they aren't having kids.Quote
"We’re not one of those nutters who calls kids crotch fruit or spawn or whatever godforsaken name there is"
Then don't fucking come here. One of my favorite things about Bratfree is liberal use of our colorful vocabulary, which includes terms I've never heard anywhere else. I've always had to check myself on other CF sites because most of them had rules against name-calling, which I hated.