Giving breeders the benefit of the doubt December 09, 2019 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 2,061 |
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It doesn't matter if it's the first time person A has said it, person A needs to engage their brain before engaging their mouth
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Some even need time to morn the fact that they may never become a grandparent/aunt/uncle etc, because they're entitled to their own feelings, just as we are.
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Most people have also felt that being a parent was a great experience for them, and if they love you, they want the best for you, for you to be happy, and they're sad or worried that you'll miss out on what brought them such joy.
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But I'm awfully sad how quick the CF community jumps straight to removing family, friends, or coworkers who don't understand our stance."
Re: Giving breeders the benefit of the doubt December 10, 2019 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,434 |
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But I'm awfully sad how quick the CF community jumps straight to removing family, friends, or coworkers who don't understand our stance."
*** sniff *** Won't someone think of the poor widdle busybody Breeders who cannot stop bingoing those nasty CFers for their life choices?
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Some even need time to morn the fact that they may never become a grandparent/aunt/uncle etc, because they're entitled to their own feelings, just as we are. Most people have also felt that being a parent was a great experience for them, and if they love you, they want the best for you, for you to be happy, and they're sad or worried that you'll miss out on what brought them such joy. Now, should you set boundaries for those who continue to disrespect your opinion, sure. But I'm awfully sad how quick the CF community jumps straight to removing family, friends, or coworkers who don't understand our stance."