"My Secret Grief. Over 35, Single and Childless" (article)
Posted by kidlesskim
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Re: "My Secret Grief. Over 35, Single and Childless" (article) August 13, 2012 |
Oh goodie - a troll! We are overdue for a dumb ass to stroll in and dump their BS where they are clearly not welcome. 
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Re: "My Secret Grief. Over 35, Single and Childless" (article) August 13, 2012 |
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Dori
I am astonished by your thoughtless and cruel comments. I can only extend kind hopes that you heal from your own sorrow(s), realizing that respect for another soul's grief is the highest love one can share. May love and compassion fill your heart.
And may sand and fire ants fill your vagina.
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michaela
"A child will make two dishes at an entertainment for friends, and when the family dines alone, the fore or hind quarter will make a reasonable dish, and seasoned with a little pepper or salt, will be very good boiled on the fourth day, especially in winter." -Jonathan Swift, A Modest Proposal
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Re: "My Secret Grief. Over 35, Single and Childless" (article) August 13, 2012 |
Clearly she's missed out on her one true mission in life. She should just slit her throat and end it all now. 
eyes2
What a fucknut. If the stupid bitch wanted to drop a whelp, she would have done it long ago. There were probably ten million other options that sounded better at each moment of her life when at any point she could have pinched out a loaf, therefore, she ended up childless.
Now the attention whore wants to lap up the sympathy by making this pathetic, whiny post.
eyes2What a fucknut. If the stupid bitch wanted to drop a whelp, she would have done it long ago. There were probably ten million other options that sounded better at each moment of her life when at any point she could have pinched out a loaf, therefore, she ended up childless.
Now the attention whore wants to lap up the sympathy by making this pathetic, whiny post.
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Re: "My Secret Grief. Over 35, Single and Childless" (article) August 13, 2012 |
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michaela
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Dori
I am astonished by your thoughtless and cruel comments. I can only extend kind hopes that you heal from your own sorrow(s), realizing that respect for another soul's grief is the highest love one can share. May love and compassion fill your heart.
And may sand and fire ants fill your vagina.
Repeated with emphasis because this a thing of such hilarious beauty.
larious 
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Shauna's like a gluten-free Jim Jones for dumb, lifeless middle-aged women. I swear, this bitch could set fire to a orphanage and they would applaud her for bringing them light. ~ Miss Hannigan
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Re: "My Secret Grief. Over 35, Single and Childless" (article) August 13, 2012 |
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Fucking Name Thief
Nothing but a bunch of Crappola
I wrote and then deleted a pretty violent screed; it violated the rule about threatening harm to anyone. Let me just give the succinct version: you better hope we never meet in real life, you pus-filled cunt. I take extreme offense at the usurping of my beloved pupster's name, which I adopted as my own, adding an honorific suffix.
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Dorisan
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Fucking Name Thief
Nothing but a bunch of Crappola
I wrote and then deleted a pretty violent screed; it violated the rule about threatening harm to anyone. Let me just give the succinct version: you better hope we never meet in real life, you pus-filled cunt. I take extreme offense at the usurping of my beloved pupster's name, which I adopted as my own, adding an honorific suffix.
Out of respect for you and your beloved pup, I changed the troll's name in my post to the appropriate MOOO-CUNT. Much more fitting IMO.
I didn't even realize it until I read your post, and I apologize for not changing the name sooner.
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Re: "My Secret Grief. Over 35, Single and Childless" (article) August 14, 2012 |
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evilchildlessbitch
I don't know that I have ever been what has been considered a "regular" poster but it has been a while since I posted. The reason I am even mentioning this is so that all of the lurking forms of Moos including Coulda, Woulda and Shoulda's can understand why I don't give a shit about their stupid grief. Yes, this grief is stupid.
The reason I haven't posted in a while is because I almost died last week after my brain swelled for an as-of-yet unknown reason. I found this out after the violent seizure I had on my living room floor which required an ambulance ride to the hospital that I don't remember. As it is, whatever it is that caused this has apparently robbed me of a tiny part of the white matter in the lobe of my brain that has to do with balance so now I have to concentrate really hard in order to not look drunk when I walk. And just to add insult to injury, I can no longer have my nightly glass of wine because it interacts badly with my new seizure medication.
Now that my rant is over, I want to add that of the many emotions I felt upon waking up mostly unable to move shortly after the nearly dying period was over one of them was not grief at having never shit a loaf. There were many things I thought that I would have regretted if I had not been able to experience. Loaf-shitting not one of them. However, if I felt this way, I would be going about the process of becoming a parent, not writing whiny articles or even better, getting upset that people criticized my long whiny articles. If you really are a person who is curled in the fetal position weeping for most of their 30's and 40's due to not loaf shitting then you have issues and you need to get help. You don't need to be hanging out on CHILDFREE message boards worrying about the opinions of those who don't feel the same. Life is a series of choices and finding out that the ride almost ended much earlier than expected causes a lot of reflection about those choices, or it has for me. If you want to loaf-shit, then hop to it or better yet, adopt one of the many who need good homes but for goodness sake, make your damn choices and live your damn life rather than writing lengthy diabribes about the grief over the loss of non-existant babies.
I absolutely can empathize because I had a similar experience, only at least I had a diagnosis of a brain aneurysm back in December of 2003, but the symptoms and treatment are about the same. However, since few know shit about the brain, you likely won't get any straight answers. Make them demonstrate to you by EEG tests you absolutely had a seizure, unless you already know for certain, because otherwise they ALWAYS give that anti-seizure medication and it alone can cause AWFUL problems, INCLUDING seizures if you ever come off of it, even IF you never had a seizure before. They always assume with brain swelling you had a seizure or "might" have one, but this isn't necessarily true and the treatment can be worse than the cure. I didn't start really improving UNTIL I pestered the fuck out them and was slowly removed from that HORRIBLE Dilantin drug anti-seizure medication, although there are others.
The balance issues absolutely DO get better, I promise. I couldn't walk without falling down for the better part of a year and now I walk a mile or day or better and ONLY lose my balance when I am REALLY tired or have been drinking, even a little. After I "woke up" after nearly a month, I STILL had no desire to shit any loaves though.
I TOO am SICK TO DEATH of all this ridiculous "mourning" over lost clumps and loaves never had when there are many other TRULY devastating losses in the world. 
fuck There are people DYING in this world and for some stupid cunt to "mourn" a late period or whine she doesn't have a loaf just makes me SICK to my stomach and the desire to knock their fucking teeth out is great.------- ------- ------- ------- ------- ------- ------- ------- ------- ------- ------- ------- ------- -------
If YOU are the "exception" to what I am saying, then why does my commentary bother you so much?
I don't hate your kids, I HATE YOU!
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Re: "My Secret Grief. Over 35, Single and Childless" (article) August 14, 2012 |
evilchildlessbitch: Sending warm, virtual hugs and well wishes your way!
I hope you feel better soon, and to second satansbitch, that I am also happy that you are still with us.
ITA that all this whinging and hand-wringing over loaves that were never meant to be is just more over-the-top BS. More attention-whoring; more, "Oh poor me! I can't have a bayybeee!!!111!!!"
It sickens me, especially when many of these females have so many positive things going on in their lives.
There are so many people in this world (too many) who have nothing. Not a pot to piss in, or a window to throw it out. These bitches need to STOP crying about what they don't have, and start being thankful for what they do have.
Nobody gets everything that they want in life. That's life. Nobody said it was fair.
I hope you feel better soon, and to second satansbitch, that I am also happy that you are still with us.
ITA that all this whinging and hand-wringing over loaves that were never meant to be is just more over-the-top BS. More attention-whoring; more, "Oh poor me! I can't have a bayybeee!!!111!!!"
It sickens me, especially when many of these females have so many positive things going on in their lives.
There are so many people in this world (too many) who have nothing. Not a pot to piss in, or a window to throw it out. These bitches need to STOP crying about what they don't have, and start being thankful for what they do have.
Nobody gets everything that they want in life. That's life. Nobody said it was fair.
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evilchildlessbitch
Now that my rant is over, I want to add that of the many emotions I felt upon waking up mostly unable to move shortly after the nearly dying period was over one of them was not grief at having never shit a loaf. There were many things I thought that I would have regretted if I had not been able to experience. Loaf-shitting not one of them. However, if I felt this way, I would be going about the process of becoming a parent, not writing whiny articles or even better, getting upset that people criticized my long whiny articles. If you really are a person who is curled in the fetal position weeping for most of their 30's and 40's due to not loaf shitting then you have issues and you need to get help. You don't need to be hanging out on CHILDFREE message boards worrying about the opinions of those who don't feel the same. Life is a series of choices and finding out that the ride almost ended much earlier than expected causes a lot of reflection about those choices, or it has for me. If you want to loaf-shit, then hop to it or better yet, adopt one of the many who need good homes but for goodness sake, make your damn choices and live your damn life rather than writing lengthy diabribes about the grief over the loss of non-existant babies.
This. Getting butthurt over comments on a board that doesn't kiss wannamoo bum is, well, childish. And lecturing us? Even more lame.
I hope the docs find out what's up, evilchildlessbitch.
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Re: "My Secret Grief. Over 35, Single and Childless" (article) August 14, 2012 |
Thanks guys for all the good wishes again.
Kidless Kim, I do have a childhood history of petit mal seizures but have not been on medication for many years nor had one for many years. I do remember the beginning of the seizure so I know I had a grand mal but the prevailing theory seems to be that the seizure was caused by the brain swelling. The medication is hopefully temporary and I have been fortunate to get into to see a very good neurologist on Monday. In addition, my second EEG showed normal brain activity. I am, of course, still waiting on a series of blood tests that apparently had to be sent to the moon to be performed but should be in by the time I see the second neurologist on Monday. There are a series of autoimmune panels, Epstein-Barre, lupus and IgG and IgMs waiting to come back in.
I will say one thing people kept asking me at the hospital over and over again was if I had loaves. I honestly never had the urge to be pregnant but 4 days in the hospital made me want to shit loaves even less. I think I would rather have brain damage than the vaginabuttholefistula and a wailing, screaming, puking human attached to my tit.
On another note, I doubt for one second the article writer's pain has been "silent." People like that writer ooze baby rabies desperation and they are always front and center about their "pain." That is what is so annoying about the article and parade o' trolls that followed is that they NEVER, EVER take responsibility for the course of their life including becoming a parent or not becoming a parent. Being around women who grieve for babies who never existed (or were even conceived or tried for) is like being stuck in a room with 5000 of that Charlotte character from SATC. They are just repulsive, even to many Moos.
Kidless Kim, I do have a childhood history of petit mal seizures but have not been on medication for many years nor had one for many years. I do remember the beginning of the seizure so I know I had a grand mal but the prevailing theory seems to be that the seizure was caused by the brain swelling. The medication is hopefully temporary and I have been fortunate to get into to see a very good neurologist on Monday. In addition, my second EEG showed normal brain activity. I am, of course, still waiting on a series of blood tests that apparently had to be sent to the moon to be performed but should be in by the time I see the second neurologist on Monday. There are a series of autoimmune panels, Epstein-Barre, lupus and IgG and IgMs waiting to come back in.
I will say one thing people kept asking me at the hospital over and over again was if I had loaves. I honestly never had the urge to be pregnant but 4 days in the hospital made me want to shit loaves even less. I think I would rather have brain damage than the vaginabuttholefistula and a wailing, screaming, puking human attached to my tit.
On another note, I doubt for one second the article writer's pain has been "silent." People like that writer ooze baby rabies desperation and they are always front and center about their "pain." That is what is so annoying about the article and parade o' trolls that followed is that they NEVER, EVER take responsibility for the course of their life including becoming a parent or not becoming a parent. Being around women who grieve for babies who never existed (or were even conceived or tried for) is like being stuck in a room with 5000 of that Charlotte character from SATC. They are just repulsive, even to many Moos.
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