I also thought this person was a woman on first read but on checking his comment history it turns out that apparently he is a man. And he has addressed this issue in several other threads...it's really bothering him.
One sample response from another thread: "I do have Aspergers if it helps. This may be some of the issue. Still, I dread the woman God will force me to marry. I dislike courtship and dating a lot."
Another response from this poster: "From experience. Like I said, God created marriage to punish man and to make him angry. God does not promise a hope and future if it has to involve marriage and raising children. Marriage is the worst thing in the world in my opinion. I do not like having to prepare for a future spouse. My future wife does not like me, and I don't like her."
And one more: "The whole kids issue is another reason I don't quite get romantic relationships. Why come home after a long day a work to a bunch of demanding kids and having to take them to whatever practice they have when all one wants to do is to sit down and relax? The sleeepless nights when having to care for a baby, that is not for me. I would not be able to enjoy a romantic relationship if I was going to have to have children. That would honestly kill it for me when it comes to the relationship. That one of the things about romance I find stressful."
I hope he comes to understand that it's perfectly fine to be single, or married and childfree.