Recto-Vaginal Fistulas After Childbirth (Moos Lament and Low)

Darling02 Lows
I had a rectal vaginal fistula from childbirth in Sept 2011. I just had surgery - overlapping sphincterplasty, removal of anal fissure and hemmhroid, and repair of sphincter muscle - on Jan 10th 2012. Two days after surgery my entire incision opened up so I have a open wound along the entire length of my perineum and the hole on the rectum side re-opened and now stool is coming through and coming out of my wound!!! Oh GOD, HELL to the no! .

Kendra Sympathizes with Fellow Cow
- Just saw your post now. I had to wait 3 months after birth for tissues to heal and my surgeon that even after all this time everything was still inflamed when he went in. He also said this is probably why I got the infection after surgery which caused my incision to open up. As anxious as I was to have the surgery (I had all gas and residual stool coming out of vagina) I would have waited longer if I knew that this could have happened. What I am dealing with now is FAR worse than what I was dealing with before. I didn't think it was possible but it is. "Before"? She's had one BEFORE and got knocked up again?

It is so terrible and disgusting to have a wound that oozes all day and to have to use a shower head to get all the stool out that gets stuck in my wound. Thank god my husband is wonderful and helpful but I still would love to talk to someone who has gone through this as you can't I should say SO it's "disgusting"!!!! If I had to hose shit out of my cooter on a daily basis I wouldn't want to live. Her husband is being, "wonderful?" Well maybe that's because he's HOPING LIKE HELL the shit coming out his wife's pussy is only temporary.

Janna Shares Her Ripped Hole and Husband Woes
The area was reopened and I was told that I had an abscess/ fistula the size of a golf ball. The area was to be left open for 7 months before it could be repaired.. I had a new baby a husband who could not relate to me and great big hole in my rear end. I went through pain for some time before things settled down and then had no control over B/M. My husband turned to another because he could not deal with it all and our baby girl had terrible reflux which needed medical assistance. The surgeon told me that there was extensive damage to my sphincter muscle and that he had very littlie muscle to work with. In the process of performing the repair he had severed some nerves which have left me totally numb down my entire right side from vagina to beyond the rectum. 6 years later I have no control over flatulence and soft bowl motions. Husband dumped her, partial internal paralysis, shit and gas leaking into her twat, no control over her bowels, farts uncontrollably, all this pain and suffering going on for SIX YEARS and is permanent, and for what: A Loaf. It was "all worth it!" though, I am quite certain.

dwl66 Describes Her Self Imposed Suffering
I certainly have felt dirty at times. As far as unwanted, that label is reserved for my husband whom feels this way because of all the years of emotional junk that has come along with this problem and me not wanting to have sex because of feeling dirty, maimed, freakish, etc., etc. God, after NINE YEARS of this he's still there?

Again, anyway, after finding someone to take me on, she cultured some discharge I continue to have even though I have a colostomy because of the rectal-vaginal fistula. The culture came back with E-coli!!!! She is not sure how we are going to proceed because we don't even know why this is happening. It is being theorized that the fistula is still there. OH GOD! As if the hole in her pussy isn't enough, she has a COLOSTOMY BAG TOO?

MAYG Adds Her Disgusting Woes
I suffered a 3rd degree tear when delivering my child in Apr. Thought I was recovering well from the surgery till i started passing stool and gas from my vagina. Went for surgery to repair this just 3 weeks back and am still passing gas and some liquid stool. Each time I go to the toilet, a thousand and one questions run thru my head and am so worried that I will never receover from this. So even after surgery, she still.has putrid diarrhea draining from her hole.She NEEDS to worry it is permanent because apparently it isn't always correctable.


The Most Unbelievable Moo Story of all-Planning the NEXT Loaf
I had a RVF after giving birth to my first child - the OB cut way too much (doctors I have seen since say it looks like he stuck one end of the scissors in my rectum, the other in my vagina, and cut) and never sewed up the inside. I had a hole big enough to stick 2 fingers through connecting my rectum and vagina. Large pieces of poop the size of walnuts came out of my vagina for 3 months till I had surgery to repair the fistula. I am still scared or trusting OBs, but am ready to try for another baby so I am looking for one. My next baby will be C-section - the surgeon who repaired me said that in his experience the tissues after the repair cannot stretch as well, and if they tear during another childbirth the 2nd RVF repair has a lower success rate as the tissue quality is poorer.:smn

My aunt is a midwife (and very pro-natural childbirth) and told me that there are 2 ways to approach the next baby - I can have a C-section full of pain and loss at not having a natural childbirth or I can just have a C-section. I opt for the 2nd scenario. I just hope I will not have any problems getting pregnant and carrying to term as a result of the experience (not just because of the RVF - I had cervical tearing and a DNC because the OB who delivered my baby didn't wait for the placenta to deliver naturally - he reached in and scraped it out in pieces with his hands - he left a great deal in there so I also had a DNC a month after my daughter was born)

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If YOU are the "exception" to what I am saying, then why does my commentary bother you so much?
I don't hate your kids, I HATE YOU!

Oh mah gawd.

I watched a documentary the other night called,"A Walk to Beautiful" about the fistula epidemic in Ethiopia and the charity hospital created for it and it was very very sad. It's their culture though and their remote location and lack of medical care that gets them in this situation, but THESE cunts here don't have an excuse other than they want to sluice for their own selfish reasons. The worst is when the fistula can't be repaired because of extensive damage, which is what sounds like the woman with the colostomy bag has suffered, and all that can be done is to LITERALLY implant a plastic plug in the hole!

One of those poor young girls on that documentary who couldn't be fixed had one installed in her bladder and urethra and she has to pull out the plug periodically during the day so urine can drain and then plug it back up. :smn

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If YOU are the "exception" to what I am saying, then why does my commentary bother you so much?
I don't hate your kids, I HATE YOU!

So glad I am Essured. UGH. I do not want a vaginabutthole.

::brbl
Holy fuck. No wonder I am CF.

If I wasn't CF before reading that I am now. Every once in a while my husband wonders about me getting inpig and this thread is enough to shut him up for good.

OH. HELL. NO.

Thank heavens I have Essure, and my vagina and ass in the two separate places where they belong.

I might vomit.

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lar19
Thank heavens I have Essure, and my vagina and ass in the two separate places where they belong.

::spits gravy::

CF message boards (always the more hard-core variety) are one of the few places I've ever come across conversation that can start out revolting or maddening, only to have someone interject a comment that has you laughing

I want to kill myself at the very thought of something like that ever happening to me. Why do these masochists continue to insult women? Its called birth control you fucken cunt.

How revolting, those women should not have bothered to get pregnant.

Recto-Vaginal Fistula sounds like a great name for a band.

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michaela

"A child will make two dishes at an entertainment for friends, and when the family dines alone, the fore or hind quarter will make a reasonable dish, and seasoned with a little pepper or salt, will be very good boiled on the fourth day, especially in winter." -Jonathan Swift, A Modest Proposal

Jesus, these horror stories are posted all over the World Wide Web, so I can only imagine this has been a common problem since Eve sluiced Cain. I guess it's one of those "secrets" Moos keep from Moo wannabees much like the stretched hole problems, cavernous cooters, forever pissing on themselves, labia flapping in the wind like fucking bird wings, distended bellies, taffy titties, and deep purple stretch marks that don't ever go away.

24 y/o Single Moo-Shitting and Farting Out Her Twat for SEVEN YEARS
"I am a 24-year old single mother of a 7-year old. Yes, I had my son at the age of 16. Due to childbirth, I now have a recto-vaginal fistula, in which I pass air and fecal matter through my vagina. I have had two failed surgeries (advancement flap repair) by the same surgeon. I cannot live with this anymore. I have heard terrible horror stories about colostomy's and how they end up not reverting due to such complications with the fistula... Am I alone? I need answers, guidance, suggestions, help! My best suggestion is too late for this one: DON'T LOAF SHIT

Is it normal that i poo out my vagina?
this is really embarrassing but i really need an answer. i am extremely paranoid and i am too emarrased to go to the doctor. when i pee, brown lumpy liquid comes out of my vagina. is this right? This idiot here doesn't even realize she likely has a fistula.

I Am Not Shitting out my Twat(yet) Only Farting
I had my second child Dec 1, 2010 and still healing from my fourth degree tear. I have been diagnosed with a recto vaginal fistula. I'm not passing stools from my vagina, only air, but it seems like it is not getting any better. My OB will be referring me to a GI specialist in June if it has not healed on its own. Just wondering if any of you out there have dealt with this and how long it took it to heal?:smn

Moo Wants Another Loaf
It has been almost five years since I had my child. I was only 18 at that time. Very embarrased, I went back to my doctor about six months after having my child to tell him about passing gas and stool through my vagina.. Five years later, I am still living with the symptoms, and I am too embarrased to go back to another doctor. I have learned for the most part to control the passage of gas; except for the occasional getting up and it just slipping out Stool does not just leak out, but after I go to the bathroom and then wipe, there is stool coming out of the vagina. My husband and I are trying to have another baby (we have been trying for about 6 months and can't- I wonder if it has anything to do with the RVF).

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If YOU are the "exception" to what I am saying, then why does my commentary bother you so much?
I don't hate your kids, I HATE YOU!

Oh God. Just... Oh God. And these women WONDER WHY their husbands don't want anything to do with them anymore?

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miss mmr
Oh God. Just... Oh God. And these women WONDER WHY their husbands don't want anything to do with them anymore?

Well, since we've already gone "there," you ever wonder if he's accidentally stuck it in the wrong hole (provided he was brave enough to try)?

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michaela

"A child will make two dishes at an entertainment for friends, and when the family dines alone, the fore or hind quarter will make a reasonable dish, and seasoned with a little pepper or salt, will be very good boiled on the fourth day, especially in winter." -Jonathan Swift, A Modest Proposal

I had no business opening this post. None at all. Thinking about how much I'd hate my life if I had a shit-leaking vaginabutthole makes me cry

Waah waah waah. I'm sure these cretins still think it was all worth it. All they have left is a future in scat porn, shooting out pussy walnuts.

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"[GFG's pregnancy is] kind of like at the stables where that one dumb, ugly-ass mare broke out of her corral one day and got herself screwed by the equally fugly colt that was due to be gelded the same afternoon."- Shiny

Also, I could have gone the rest of my life never hearing the word sphincterplasty.

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"[GFG's pregnancy is] kind of like at the stables where that one dumb, ugly-ass mare broke out of her corral one day and got herself screwed by the equally fugly colt that was due to be gelded the same afternoon."- Shiny

This Moo's Life has Literally Been RUINED


hi, my name is michelle, im 41 years old and have 2 kids. i have a problem that i just cant live with anymore. its kind of gross so i hope no one is offended by this. its also hard to write about and embarrasing. when i had my son 13 years ago,i developed a tear between the rectum and vagina,,i found this out one night while i was watching tv and felt something coming out of my vagina. i went to bathroom,,and discovered it was feces. i of course called the emergency room. I'd have done a LOT MORE than "called" the emergency room! This is WAY beyond "embarrassing" too.:headbrick

i talked to a doctor who later explained to me that i had a recto vagina fistula. i had no insurance so i just learned to live with the problem, which was occasional leaking of feces into vagina and coming out. but i learned to live with it. that was 13 years ago. Okay, sad as her story is, the FIRST problem is she sluiced without securing insurance NOR did she have any adequate funds to be shitting a loaf anyway. Had she just waited until she could afford a loaf this ALL could have been avoided. This was her second loaf too, so she knew how much it would cost AND she was 28 years old and should have known better than to sluice irresponsibly.

well 4 years ago i got a good job with insurance etc...finally just a year ago i decided to try and fix this problem. i went to a doctor here in town and he said yes he could fix it. the surgery was that following monday..i went in,,excited that i could be normal again. after the surgery i was off work of course,,and 3 days later i was going to bathroom and knew the surgery didnt work..only now the full feces was coming out the vagina,,not just leaking,,i went in to doctor. he checked me and said everything had ripped out. he had cut the tear bigger to sew it up..so i was left with a big gaping hole. and then said i need to see a specialist,,,I haven't finished reading her story yet, but am mentally predicting she could no longer work, lost her job AND the insurance, and now is full blown shitting on herself all the fucking time.

well i couldnt go back to work ,,the smell,,the bowell movements from vagina etc...so of course,,,no more insurance,,,i now live constantly cleaning myself,,bathing,,sometimes ill go to store or somewhere and have accidents. i cant have sex with my husband,,cant go camping,,,go to pool,,,nothing anymore That's about what I figured happened. These Moos do NOT think ahead to anything past the baby showers, festivities, temporary attention, and that "new baby" smell.:headbrick

. ive applied for medicaid through the state,,,and denied...i need help to get this fixed,,i cant live this way anymore. ive contacted lawyers to see if the doctor di malpractice,,but they say its been to long,,,that the doctor 13 years ago was the one who started the problem. i would appreciate any help available,,,thankyou for listening,,and i hope no one got sick from hearing this,, ANY idiot knows the time of the statute of limitations on a malpractice suit is no where NEAR 13 years. Also, the doctor didn't "start" the problem, SHE did by fucking without birth control. Of course Medicaid denied it, it's pre existing and while horribly debilitating, apparently it isn't life threatening. However, it would be life threatening for me because I'd fucking slit my own throat with a dull and rusty butter knife if I had nothing else within reach LONG before 13 years elapsed.:smn

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If YOU are the "exception" to what I am saying, then why does my commentary bother you so much?
I don't hate your kids, I HATE YOU!

These stories should really be included in EVERY high school sex ed class.

If I were passing fecal matter out my vagina, there's no way in hell I would "deal with it" because I was "too embarrassed" to go to the doctor. I would be on the phone making an appointment with a specialist faster than you can say sphincterplasty and vaginabutthole.

Oh HOLY hell this is the stuff of NIGHTMARES.
WHY WHY WHY would anyone PURPOSELY inflict this on themselves???
Garrrrrrrrrrrrghhhh!!

So they basically have zero control, shit just comes out of their vaginas? (How appropriate, much like their mouths.)

This is one of those things I'm missing out on? I think I'll pass. Happily.