Dear Abby: Daddy screams when we don't cuddle with him

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DEAR ABBY: My mom's boyfriend wants to spend time with my 16-year-old sister and take her places all the time. He wants to cuddle with both of us whenever we sit on the couch and gets really upset when we don't want to. He's my biological father, but I have known him only for a year because he left my mom when she was pregnant with me. Now he wants to play "dad" when I already have had a dad all my life. (Mom was married for 11 years to another man.) I'm 14. He yells and swears all the time and takes things away from us if we don't do what he wants. He isn't physically abusive yet, but the cuddling freaks me out and I don't think it's right. I told my school counselor. She said to get over it, that it wasn't a big deal. I think he is grooming my sister for sex since he told us he likes young girls and was used to them before Mom. Mom has problems with depression and reality and won't listen to us. Where can I go? - Helpless in the Midwest

DEAR HELPLESS: Because your father's overtures make you uncomfortable, and he "punishes" you if you don't accept them - it IS a "big deal." You should call Childhelp and describe what's happening. The toll-free number is 800-422-4453. The person who answers the phone can refer you to help. Please don't wait. Your safety and that of your sister could depend on it.]

So Duh - who has told his daughters he likes young girls and was used to them - suddenly reappears in his children's lives after not being there for about 13 years. Sounds a LOT to me like he only got back with the Moo because he found out she's got two little virgins he can violate and she probably will be so glad Bio-Duhddy came back at all that she will totally ignore any advances he makes on them.

Moo, I'm sure, thinks she has PPD. Also, she has problems with reality? Again, sounds to me like a case of, "I'll let you do whatever you want to my/our kids as long as you don't leave me...again."

For all I know, though, maybe this girl is overreacting and taking Duh's actions way out of context because he has replaced the Duh she's known her whole life. I don't know, but I think a man who wants to cuddle with his teen daughters (well, ANY parents who wants to cuddle with their teenaged children) and gets angry, yells, swears, and takes things away from them when they don't cuddle is kinda fucked up. I also find it odd that the school counselor even dismissed them. Perhaps incestuous things are normal in their part of the country.

I have a feeling that if these two girls rat out Duh and he goes byebye, Moo will take it out on them for forcing Duh to leave her again. Just seems to me like another instance of the almighty cock taking precedent over Moo's kids.

Ranty CF goodness (updated 3.23.2012)
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The school counselor sucks.

This is beyond creepy. If they were infants or toddlers, it probably wouldn't be so creepy, but teenagers? I would be calling CPS if I were that girl.

I still cuddle with my parents, well, with my mother. With my father it is mostly hugs, sometime. Not all touches are sexual.

But yes, this is not the case here. This man went away and come back in a suspicious amount of time and he is making the kid unconfortable, wich is a very big red flag.
I agree that the school consuelor sucks.

Also... the mother is more than despicable.

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This is sick. If the duh inentions actually were good he (a) wouldn't insist on cuddles (b)wouldn't punish them for failing to cuddle (c) wouldn't be creeping the girls out.

I'm a grown ass woman and I'm happy to cuddle with my dad occassionaly while watching tv or whatnot. Difference is, my dad does not want to stick his dick in me, doesn't force me to cuddle, and has actually been there my whole life while I was growing up.

This guy is clearly a perv and the Moo stereotypically has blinders on. He's an even worse abuser because of the psychological manipulation. I hope this girl uses that phone number she was given because the school counselor failed big time. The three main adults in this kid's life at this point she's supposed to be able to turn to for help; the cow, duddy, and counselor, are complete losers. Perhaps CPS or the police could make a difference, we can always hope.

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I don't hate your kids, I HATE YOU!

Creepy, creepy, creepy!

I watched "Pretty Baby" the other night- and am reminded of it NOW.

What a sick fuck. That girl needs to make a call to CPS, now. And that school counsellor sucks. Cunt should be fired.
I really hope everything turns out okay for her. Stories like this make my blood boil. People like this twisted fuck need to be thrown in a cell with Bubba and forced to be his bitch for the rest of their miserable lives.

Another immoral, brain-dead moo lets her kids suffer so her wallet can stay put. The greatest love ever, my ass

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People like this twisted fuck need to be thrown in a cell with Bubba and forced to be his bitch for the rest of their miserable lives.

THIS!!!

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electricfire
People like this twisted fuck need to be thrown in a cell with Bubba and forced to be his bitch for the rest of their miserable lives.

THIS!!!

And as for the cow, she should have her kids taken away, her uterus removed to ensure she doesn't get knocked up again, and she should be shamed by being forced to march through town with a sign pinned to her explaining why she's a shitty mother. I know they used to do that to certain criminals back in the days of old.

Ok, let's just say for shits and giggles that his comments and actions were taken out of context and he really has no unseemly intentions. He is STILL trying to force a close, father-daughter relationship with the girls which is completely unrealistic, considering he was out of the picture during their formative years. It's still unhealthy and inappropriate.

Cambion, moo is TOTALLY USELESS and one of these head up her ass females. This is the type that will serve up her kids to this pedo. She already has said as much 'moo doesn't want to listen'.
Unfortunately, this kid needs to be taken out IMMEDIATELY!!! ALL of them.
For once, CPS needs to get involved.
God I hate these fucking moos.

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