Moo wants to know why everybody hates her brat. He's just hyperactive!

I can't post a link, so just google "everyone hates my son." It should be the first link that comes up. Read the comments, if you dare.

"My son is twelve years old. He is particulary active - perhaps you might say hyperactive -and has some problems concentrating. The teachers at his school really seem to hate him though. IThey are constantly making him stand outside in the hall, or are giving him detention. I'm having him tested for ADHD, but this is not enough for them. They want to move him to another school, but I think this is just to make their own lives better. Anyone else facing these problems?"

I think there's a lot more to this story than Moo is letting on. But that's just a hunch.

Dollars to donuts this kid is an absolute holy terror. Middle school teachers put up with a TON of bad behavior from adolescents, and for this little kancer kurer to be hated by his teachers is no small feat.

http://www.babycrowd.com/forums/adhd/Everyone_hates_my_son_/

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Thanks thom_c.

Here are a few gems from the comments.

“I have the same problem.My family are the ones who don't like my son.I know how much it hurts, When you know you have done every thing you can.What people don't know is that you live with your child every day and his ADHD.”

Uh, ever try disciplining the little hellion?

“Hi ya I have the same problem my 9 yr old daughter is the same the school put her outside constantly but where is there right to an education, medication is all the schools want like you said to make thier lives easier, my daughter hasnt many friends which is hard as we have just moved here from the uk and all the kids near us either dont like her or there IGNORANT parents who know nothing of ADHD wont let there children play with her she gets excitable but not to over the top and is very polite and well mannered but acts before thinking and although i could quite happy kill her at times, the schools should have more understanding and sympathy but with them it comes down to whatever is easier for them, but keep ya chin up and keep on fighting for him your child has every right to stay at that school and they should provide help to do that”

Oh, of course. Fuck parenting your own kid, it's the village that has to do it.

“They sure do try? My son was ADHD since age 3, he threw chairs at the other kids in pre-school. I even took my son out and tried to home school him, I got him in a differnet school this year and at least there trying to help] My son is almost 15 and i having a very hard time getting the schools to understand that he has a promblem.”

Wonder if little Defecto is as illiterate as his moo.

“Honey you put your foot down for your son, you go and talk to anyone that might give you advise, more knowledge, and support. Find out the laws for such things to that sort. I am sorry but hyperactive children are not the problem in the schools, it is the neglect that the hyper active children gt from the school district to study and understand them and find new ways to teach them.....that does not sound right to me girlfriend, and I will keep you and your son in my prayer....oh by the way...they ARE doing this for their own wellfare, not your son's.”

No, it's the lack of discipline that's the problem here. Say no to your spayshal sugarplum for once. And they're actually doing it for the welfare of the other children.

“There are many teachers who are burnt out and can only tolerate little girls who sit still and are quiet and hang on there every word. They should get out of teaching if they can't handle individual differences. Putting him in the hall is not a solution. Have you tried medication. It helps the kids conform to more of what the teachers want, can help him comcentrate, and stop getting yelled at.”
(sigh)

“teachers dont like children who have any kind of problems in their classrooms, even though they say they treat each child individual and fairly. ive experienced this first hand. my daughter is almost 14 and has been out of school for a year now. and im having real problems getting her another one. ive tried 10 different schools now and they all say it would be a drain on their resources and unfair on other kids. ever since she went to school its been just the same, being put out, sent home early not allowed to join in school trips, not getting invitited to birthday parties. her last school treated her disgracefuly and im takin legal advice. the only thing i can tell you to do is to speak to the childrens law centre and get a solicitor on the case to help you”

Jesus Christ. That says a lot about this brat, doesn't it? How much you wanna bet she's a holy terror.

I have a friend whose got ADHD. Actual ADHD diagnosed by a doctor, not by her moo. I didn't know she had it until she mentioned it to me. I'm not sure if she was taking any medication, but she taught herself how to focus.

Every comment is a moo who's got an ADHD kid diagnosed around the age of 3. WTF? Kids are fucking spazzy....I live below a family with a normal 2 year old who runs and plays all day. I guess these moos would consider him as having ADHD too.

Anyway, there's no doubt that there's more to the story than the moo is letting on. While not all teachers like all students, most probably wouldn't go to these lengths of getting him out of the school if there wasn't some big underlying issue.

Of course, Moo is probably using the supposed ADHD diagnosis (I think most of these are bullshit anyway) to excuse her kid's behaviour.

I decided to procreate and the result is defective. It is the village's responsability to integrate and treat that chyyld like all others. Homeskouling, honey. Ever heard of it?

Why is it that just about every Moo in the comments does not understand
how to use the proper form of 'their, there, they're'?
And they are blaming the SCHOOLS for the problems that little bratly is experiencing?

My old roommate, who I could post a thread about if she didn't STILL piss me off so badly, would aske the question, "Why does everyone hate my child?" Does she still want me to give her the entire list??? I would bet every last penny I have this kyd came straight from hell.

satansbitch- I want to hear about your old roommate!

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satansbitch- I want to hear about your old roommate!

I'll post a thread about Psychobaby, as I still call her, when I can put my thoughts together and not be pissed off to the point of souning insane. This took place six years ago but I'm still not competely rational about it and I still want to beat Psychobaby bloody. This is the one and only grudge I have ever held in my entire life.

I look forward to when ya do write about it!
It sounds like a fucking nightmare!
Sorry ya had to go through it.
Roommates from hell seem to be getting more prolific as of late.
Especially ones with fucking brats.

"everyone hates my son."

if EVERYONE hates your lil' bastard, there's A GOOD REASON.

" but I think this is just to make their own lives better."

And what's wrong with THAT? should THEY have crappy lives just cuz moo didn't get an abortion?

you can be SURe none of thses MOOS would want to teach some other kyd- they can't even deal with their OWN!

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Every comment is a moo who's got an ADHD kid diagnosed around the age of 3. WTF? Kids are fucking spazzy....I live below a family with a normal 2 year old who runs and plays all day. I guess these moos would consider him as having ADHD too.

Anyway, there's no doubt that there's more to the story than the moo is letting on. While not all teachers like all students, most probably wouldn't go to these lengths of getting him out of the school if there wasn't some big underlying issue.

Exactly! Most kids are hyperactive little spazzes by definition. It's their parents' job to provide them with outlets for their spazzyness and teach them how to hold themselves in check. I don't think that you can diagnose an ADHD thing until the kid is about 8-10.

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Three year olds are crazy, ADHD or not.

I put up with this shit every day in my school. Parrunts who WON'T discipline their child or give them any kind of home training. When these moos get called in they want to know what WE DID to provoke their lil snowflake. It's rare for a teacher to hate a child but every so ofter one comes along to raise the ire of even the most patient educator.

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Three year olds are crazy, ADHD or not.

uh huh!!!!

If it runs around SCREAMING because it thinks it's FUN, it's got PROBLEMS of SOME KIND.

I wonder if these moos have ever thought about what could become of their spayshal ADHD babbies when they're all grown up? They can make all the excuses they want, but when they're adults nobody's going to stand for their shit.

I call BS.

This is what happens when you grew up without small children around. Which is a relatively new condition, since for most history you would have a load of younger relatives around, or just a load of children.

Young kids, age from 2 to 4, can be very active without being ADHD. There is a very wide range of options. Some kids are quieter than other. Now, if you never had any experience, you might think that the toddler is completely crazy, and it is not. It is just a toddler.
Throwing chairs around is fairly normal at 3, 4 years of age. Children so young don't know how to express anger. it is not wrong per se, really. It becomes wrong if the parents allow the behaviour to continue instead that stopping it.

Now, lets put ourselves in the mind of the Average Breeder -AB- (I know, terrible experience, but still...)
You are AB. Your Pwechus Snowflayke, Bratling, aged 3, had just throw a chair at his friend's, Tardlette.
Now, you are HORRIFIED. Of course YOURS Pwchus Sparkling Bug couldn't have done such a thing!
And of course, being as you are a Waste of Perfectly Good Not-Renewable Resources, you don't even think about telling Bratling to stop the fuck NOW.
Yer kidding, all the books about Randomly-Coloured Kids you read (Can't remember if it is Indingo, Crystal of Truly-Unicorn-Shitted Rainbow this week) tell you in no uncertain terms that telling Bratling not to do something will decrease his Spark's Quotient by 33% (comulable). So... so your Pwechus Sparkling Crotchshit must have something. Something with a lot of D and H in random order.

And so it happens that what could have been a perfectly normal human being with a little discipline ends up as a hellion.
Because the behaviour is normal. It is not pathologic. It is just a part of learning how to dealt with anger in a positive way.

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“I was talking about children that have not been properly house-trained. Left to their own impulses and indulged by doting or careless parents almost all children are yahoos. Loud, selfish, cruel, unaffectionate, jealous, perpetually striving for attention, empty-headed, for ever prating or if words fail them simply bawling, their voices grown huge from daily practice: the very worst company in the world. But what I dislike even more than the natural child is the affected child, the hulking oaf of seven or eight that skips heavily about with her hands dangling in front of her -- a little squirrel or bunny-rabbit -- and prattling away in a baby's voice.”


― Patrick O'Brian, The Truelove


lib'-er-ty: the freedom given to you to make the wrong decision, based on the reasoned belief that you will normally make the right one.

"My son was ADHD since age 3, he threw chairs at the other kids in pre-school. I even took my son out and tried to home school him"


so the kid threw chairs at other kids, did he? he could have seriously injured another kid, but i'm sure moo turned it around and made it everryone else's fault. nobody understands her special snowflake! then moo tried to home school him, but obviously that didn't work. hmmm... i wonder why? i'm guessing he threw chairs, had screaming fits and wouldn't sit still, so moo marched him back down to the public school and dumped him there.

now she can be a martyr moo but not have to get her hands dirty.