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I got married at 33 and probably dated more than 25 men before my husband enough times for them to tell me they for sure wanted children even after I had openly said I didn't want any. Not only that, I ended several long term relationships with jerks who thought they could change my mind. I also never dated anybody with kids. Even my husband was open to having kids if I wanted them, although it didn't take much to flip him to the CF side.
If all these men don't want kids then they shouldn't be breeding. Men are 50% of the problem so if all these men don't want kids they need to stop making them.
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Techie
I think there is a very large number of men who don't want to breed - at all. At the same time, there is a very large number of men who are nut-less and will not stand up to breeder pressure. Basically, they are chicken shit.
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I think there is a very large number of men who don't want to breed - at all. At the same time, there is a very large number of men who are nut-less and will not stand up to breeder pressure. Basically, they are chicken shit.
It gives a new meaning to the expression "nut-free". larious
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I have dated (well, messed with) a grand total of ONE guy who explicitly didn't want kids, and he's still single. Sometimes I wonder if I should have dated him seriously. I think we all play the "What if..." game in our heads.
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@ Techie: yesssss, the good old story about Jimo, who didn't want a chyld...
When I first found this board due to TCFL server failure, I read that thread.
I liked the people's posts so I created an account here :-)
I am of the same opinion - I am also suspicious of guys obsessed with breeding.
From what I have observed, they create a family so that they have dependants
who cannot escape from them. They love playing the "patriarch" - bossing around
and terrorizing the dependants. Mental and physical abuse are their standard tools.
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Most guys I know fall into the ambivalent category, including my own SO. I think he doesn't really think about kids rather than actively doesn't want them. He knows I'm CF (has done from the begining) and is of the "if you're happy then I'm happy" mentality.
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Most guys I know fall into the ambivalent category, including my own SO. I think he doesn't really think about kids rather than actively doesn't want them. He knows I'm CF (has done from the begining) and is of the "if you're happy then I'm happy" mentality.
I agree. I wish that more women were like that. But most that I have encountered were wanna breeders all the way. I did come across a true CF woman recently and to be honest, I am still in shock. It feels like a really good dream that one does not want to awaken from, I feel like I found a unicorn or something.
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I hated dolls that were supposed to resemble real babies.
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Techie
It has been my observation that majority of men who do want to breed are either short, fat, low income, socially challenged or any and all combined. I am not saying that it is always the case, but it has been my observation that when guys have nothing else going for them, they want to breed and they push for it like crazy. Guys like George Clooney are usually not in extreme hurry to do so.
Let me tell y'all a story. I used to know this one guy, he was in his late 20's. Desperately wanted to breed. He met this one gal and before they were even married, those two went to a doctor just to see if she was fit as breeding material, if she was not, he was not marrying her. Those 2 got married, kid came out all normal but was premature and required attention. He blamed his wife for all the problems and made her life a living hell through continuous verbal abuse. He also developed a huge drinking problem. Those 2 divorced, the now duh later remarried to a CF woman and somehow only pays less than $200/month in child support.
I am VERY suspicious of men who are desperate to breed. I think they are control mongers and are abusers in the making looking for a foundation to base their abuse on. They get off on destroying women's lives. I think even if a woman wants a kid, steering clear of men who are so set on breeding is a very good idea.
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Miss_Hannigan
I have dated (well, messed with) a grand total of ONE guy who explicitly didn't want kids, and he's still single. Sometimes I wonder if I should have dated him seriously. I think we all play the "What if..." game in our heads.
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When I was in my 20s, I believed the lifescript was inevitable and since I didn't want kids, I was pretty much out of luck so I decided never to marry. I'm sure I'm not the only man who thought that way. I met someone who wasn't sure and then later she decided she didn't want kids and we've been happily married 14 years.
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I have dated (well, messed with) a grand total of ONE guy who explicitly didn't want kids, and he's still single. Sometimes I wonder if I should have dated him seriously. I think we all play the "What if..." game in our heads.
CF men may not always be easy to find, but same goes for CF women. Maybe one thing holds true: true CF people are a tiny minority. I happen to know more CF men than women and I would say that more CF men are single than in a relationship. I know a few "CF" men who are with single moos d but I have to use "quotes" to describe those. Some of those guys have the idea that they never did and do not want their own kids, but they have been brainwashed by our pro-natal society that they "will not find a woman who does not want kids". They are throwing in a white towel as far as I am concerned. They chose women that would not want to breed anymore. But they forgot the baggage attached. :cigar
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Miss_Hannigan
I have dated (well, messed with) a grand total of ONE guy who explicitly didn't want kids, and he's still single. Sometimes I wonder if I should have dated him seriously. I think we all play the "What if..." game in our heads.
CF men may not always be easy to find, but same goes for CF women. Maybe one thing holds true: true CF people are a tiny minority. I happen to know more CF men than women and I would say that more CF men are single than in a relationship. I know a few "CF" men who are with single moos d but I have to use "quotes" to describe those. Some of those guys have the idea that they never did and do not want their own kids, but they have been brainwashed by our pro-natal society that they "will not find a woman who does not want kids". They are throwing in a white towel as far as I am concerned. They chose women that would not want to breed anymore. But they forgot the baggage attached. :cigar
If they don't want kids they don't need to be with a single mom. Nobody has to be part of a couple.
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Techie
It has been my observation that majority of men who do want to breed are either short, fat, low income, socially challenged or any and all combined. I am not saying that it is always the case, but it has been my observation that when guys have nothing else going for them, they want to breed and they push for it like crazy.