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Melanie Notkin [the author] is the national bestselling author of Savvy Auntie: The Ultimate Guide for Cool Aunts, Great-Aunts, Godmothers and All Women Who Love Kids
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The wannabreeders are crying.
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Melanie Notkin [the author] is the national bestselling author of Savvy Auntie: The Ultimate Guide for Cool Aunts, Great-Aunts, Godmothers and All Women Who Love Kids
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The wannabreeders are crying.
May be the saddest little childless I've seen in quite some time actually.
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Joanna, a single 38-year-old attorney who left the partner track to move into the less demanding (and lower paying) role of legal marketing in order to attract men who did not find her profession competitive with theirs, is frustrated.
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The wannabreeders are crying.
May be the saddest little childless I've seen in quite some time actually.
What pathetic people.
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Joanna, a single 38-year-old attorney who left the partner track to move into the less demanding (and lower paying) role of legal marketing in order to attract men who did not find her profession competitive with theirs, is frustrated.
She expects me to feel bad for her? Women like her are the reason this country is still so fucking sexist.
She GAVE UP HER CAREER PATH because a bunch of dickness, misogynistic troglodytes felt threatened by a supposedly smart woman? She didn't even do it for a jerk she was actually with. She did it to GET a jerk. What the fuck.
This is why it's 2013 and people still get away with treating women like chattel. Because dumbasses like this ASK to be treated like chattel. She's so desperate to shit loaves that she voluntarily demoted herself to attract the attention of some drooling Og Dik Worx.
This is the thing that always gets me about the breeder mentality. They don't even think of themselves as people -- or others, for that matter.
She is basically BEGGING to be devalued and objectified as a woman by validating these sexist morons and giving up her dreams so she can be with one, and she wants me to pity her?
Fuck not given.
Thanks for making it worse for the rest of us, you stupid wanna-moo.
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It also reinforces the stereotype that the childfree are hedonistic, rolling in cash and spending all their free time vacationing in exotic locations. What is the percentage of CF couples who can actually afford to live like that? Projecting this image of the CF is dangerous because it inspires jealousy and teaches the moral majority that it’s OK to abuse us. The cover photo is really a portrait of the “average†(and there’s really nothing “average†about us) CF couple as seen through the eyes of the general population who is largely ignorant about the childfree lifestyle, and therefore I find this image offensive. How about featuring photos of real-life childfree couples instead of posing some models on a beach?
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They used to just call them DINKS. Nothing new here.
I don't consider being childfree a lifestyle, really, or a movement. It's just a normal state of being for some of us. I only want to be treated equally and not to have a big deal made of it. Making the idea of being childfree popular or trendy is a nightmare, many will call themselves CF or just want to be because it is cool. Then they will find out they really are not cf. It's already happening with parents wanting (and being allowed) to be part of childfree groups.
The articles always pigeonhole us and the stereotype has nothing to do with me or many of the childfree people I know.
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They used to just call them DINKS. Nothing new here.
I don't consider being childfree a lifestyle, really, or a movement. It's just a normal state of being for some of us. I only want to be treated equally and not to have a big deal made of it. Making the idea of being childfree popular or trendy is a nightmare, many will call themselves CF or just want to be because it is cool. Then they will find out they really are not cf. It's already happening with parents wanting (and being allowed) to be part of childfree groups.
The articles always pigeonhole us and the stereotype has nothing to do with me or many of the childfree people I know.
I agree with a lot of this, but I think that in some ways, it is or can be a movement, because of the part I bolded right there.
Childfree people are routinely discriminated against both by the government and in their personal health care. This has very real consequences in their lives. And for that reason, I think there is reason to call at least some factions of the CF a "movement." There's real issues that need to be addressed.
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They used to just call them DINKS. Nothing new here.
I don't consider being childfree a lifestyle, really, or a movement. It's just a normal state of being for some of us. I only want to be treated equally and not to have a big deal made of it. Making the idea of being childfree popular or trendy is a nightmare, many will call themselves CF or just want to be because it is cool. Then they will find out they really are not cf. It's already happening with parents wanting (and being allowed) to be part of childfree groups.
The articles always pigeonhole us and the stereotype has nothing to do with me or many of the childfree people I know.
I agree with a lot of this, but I think that in some ways, it is or can be a movement, because of the part I bolded right there.
Childfree people are routinely discriminated against both by the government and in their personal health care. This has very real consequences in their lives. And for that reason, I think there is reason to call at least some factions of the CF a "movement." There's real issues that need to be addressed.
That's the movement I see developing. We're a movement like LGBT is a movement - not because we want to convert people to our ideas (as said, for most of us it was just something we knew), but because we are discriminated against and that will only change if we band together and demand change. Also, maybe people who are now going against their natural inclinations will see that there's another way if more people hear of us.
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She GAVE UP HER CAREER PATH because a bunch of dickness, misogynistic troglodytes felt threatened by a supposedly smart woman? She didn't even do it for a jerk she was actually with. She did it to GET a jerk. What the fuck.
This is why it's 2013 and people still get away with treating women like chattel. Because dumbasses like this ASK to be treated like chattel. She's so desperate to shit loaves that she voluntarily demoted herself to attract the attention of some drooling Og Dik Worx.
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These interviewees that are spouting off their love of children just to save face to the moo community are doing everyone a great disservice. There is nothing that these tabloid childfree interviewees are doing except to feed the false stereotypes that do not fit real CF people. This most likely isn't their intent (I hope not), but it just leads to moos thinking the bingos might eventually work on us (you'll change your mind/you just don't know the luuurve a chyld brings/its different when it's your own).
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She GAVE UP HER CAREER PATH because a bunch of dickness, misogynistic troglodytes felt threatened by a supposedly smart woman? She didn't even do it for a jerk she was actually with. She did it to GET a jerk. What the fuck.
This is why it's 2013 and people still get away with treating women like chattel. Because dumbasses like this ASK to be treated like chattel. She's so desperate to shit loaves that she voluntarily demoted herself to attract the attention of some drooling Og Dik Worx.
The only kind of man she will find now is one who confirms the sexism she has internalized. Your choices and actions project an image which attracts some people and repels others. If you want to attract the kind of men who see you as equal, you don't act as if you are less than equal. By preemptively declaring her willingness to settle, she's assured that she will have to.
It's women like this who continue to accept these sexist arrangements that make it more difficult for the rest of us to be seen seriously in the workforce. One moment it's all "rawr, I am a woman, hear me roar" and the next "I need a mayyyun" and then whining on a moo forum about how daddy never changes the kid's diaper and won't let her take a night off. If you enable sexism, it's your own damn fault when you suffer the effects of it. You don't get my sympathy because you're perpetuating the issue.
I have no patience or pity for women like this, and it's one of the reasons that there are so few women that I like. I meet very few sexist men in my daily life (I'm sure they are out there, but not where I am) but a lot of sexist women. I have no idea why they think that is necessary to get a man, or why they have to have a man.
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I have no patience for it either -- this whining and pity-begging when women demote themselves like that. It's why I refer to myself as "a modified first wave feminist."
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