LOL, "Dr. Drew" mentions Bratfree.wink

Oh hai Dr. Drew. We don't advocate post natal abortions and child abuse. Our site isn't "bizarre bizarre" that would be freaky porn such coprophilia and bestiality sites. You are so closed minded and oh so sensitive. Grow some tough skin! There is myriad of reasons why many bratfree members don't want kyds. In some of our cases, childfreedom is the logical and loving choice.

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Dr. Drew is a fucking psychiatrist. One would think he'd fucking have at least an elementary understanding of CFdom. I don't buy for a minute that he hasn't encountered a CF person who in fact DOES NOT embody the breeder-established, projection-driven stereotype.


God dammit, that pisses me right the fuck off.

Pinsky is NOT a psychiatrist. I checked his bio, and he is an internist and addiction medicine specialist based on his training and board certifications.

I met the bastard at a meeting, and he is a self-righteous prick. A psychiatrist usually would not be as judgmental as that son of a bitch.

Oops, my bad. I must've assumed as much, at some point (Loveline), given that he's always got someone on the couch, telling him how they feel about Mother.

Oh this pissed me off for hours! No mention of the "watch people die" site he visited, nope apparently that is completely normal. Its just us Childfree people who are the sick deviant's choosing to undermine family values by GASP! Having SEX without procreation (the horror!) and VOLUNTEERING (you SATAN worshiping HEATHENS!), traveling (youre going to HELL! HELL I say) and just staying to ourselves (HOW DARE YOU!). Nope watching people die for the hell of it is what most fambily oriented people do these days. Not having kids though now THAT is disgusting and disturbing.
What a joke that "doctor" is.

Dear Dr. Poo,

The reason this story angers many of us is because we are sick and tired of child abusers and murderers getting away with it, and bleeding hearts like you supporting them.

This story strikes a chord with me, because I was nearly the victim of a PNA when I was a child. My mooo tried to drown me in the tub when I was five years old. I survived, but I will never forget it.

If you were to have interviewed her on your show, would you have simply explained it away with some bogus diagnosis? Would you have been her supporter? Would you have bought her story about looking away for a second? People like you have to start thinking twice. You are the one who is advocating AND glorifying child abuse and murder, dear Doctor. You are capitalizing on people's misery. You are the one who is saying it's okay for people to do this.

We are simply pointing out the obvious. I sincerely hope you are reading this thread, and understand that you have discredited yourself immensely by bringing this board to everyone's attention. All they have to do is read our threads to understand that we are against violence of all kinds.

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They had some friend of the killer's on the phone who was defending him. It turned into a duh-fest with him and Pinsky, saying "as a father", etc. how they can't imagine it, therefore, it must not be so. There has to be "something"... to explain this. But "as a father" I can't comprehend. So, that is where this is going now. There is a woman on the panel who seems to believe he is guilty and appears frustrated with this stupid daddie coddling to make this guy seem less than a monster.

It is not we at BF who relate to Harris or what he did, as Pinsky referenced on national tv, it is HE who relates to this pig, "as a father". How about we look at Harris "as a human", knowing that some humans can be capable of anything. He is not above human for being a parent. The same damn rules apply.

When it comes to an opinion from the childfree on this, I can only believe the parents resent that we can be objective, that we can recognize and accept some kind of truth without our own egos being damaged because someone else did something heinous.

It's just odd that people use this self-centered illogic. Say I love my husband and would do anything for him. Someone else kills their husband. Therefore they must be innocent/crazy/distracted/excused because I could not imagine killing my husband.

damn you read my mind..

I'm also not a lawyer do remember some communication law from college and yes this is begging for this type of treatment.......


.... edit to add..... my above response was to a previous poster...... I'm on a smartphone and I messed up the quote feature

I don't know who this Dr Douche is, he's thankfully not on UK screens as far as I know (but then I don't watch much telly). The guy can't be terribly bright despite his MD though, ifhe seriously thinks anybody on here advocates child murder, by a parent or anybody else.

The reaction to a lot of these hot car deaths and shit that these parents make out as "accidents" is what pisses me off. Abusive parents who are deliberately cruel to their kids don't get a free pass, but these devious fuckers get the "Suffered Enough" card. These are abusive parents who deserve to go the other same,way as the ones who are done for deliberate cruelty and it boils my piss that society won't hold them to account because somehow, the loss of the child they were probably trying to dispose of in the first place is punishment enough?

Even as a teenager babysitting my siblings I knew kids should never be left alone in cars, the house, the shed, or anything else. I would never leave my dog in a hot car. But go ahead, Dr Fuckface, make out that it's us that are the bad ones, and carry on making excuses or glossing over the fact that this duh and all the others murdered their kids, either through deliberate act or neglect, and caused their children to die in a horrendous way.

I'd also like to agree with the sentiment that if you are a parent and you off your kid, you are NOT CF and you never will be. You are a cowardly murdering son of a bitch who should be rotting in jail. Child murderers and abusers are not in any way welcome here or part of this community.

Life is full of shades of grey, Dr Fuckface. Yes, you can not want children of your own, or want to spend much time interacting with children, but still be appalled and horrified by cruelty and abuse towards children.

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Those in entertainment industry always say that there is no such thing as bad publicity. I hope dr's Drew show gave us some free advertisement. While we will get an influx of trolls, we may also get some good CF people.

That was my first thought!wink

I think he committed slander and enticed people to become prejudiced against our site AND childfree people in general by misrepresenting us as child haters or condoning of murder. WE DO NOT CONDONE MURDER of anyone, including children. TYVM. Perhaps if some of these parents who really didn't want kids didn't have them, then we wouldn't have so many thousands of kids a year murdered by their OWN parents! We don't HAVE kids people, therefore we can't murder our kids and we certainly don't think it's okay for parents to kill their kids either! In fact, some of us actually advocate harsher penalties for parents who murder their own kids. I wish these people would actually read any commentary I have EVER made on the subject in my five years posting on here and find ONE instance where I condoned, encouraged, or advocated anything at all resembling what they are accusing us of saying. :headbrick

I don't want an alligator,tiger, or bear living in my home for me to be responsible for EITHER, but I ABSOLUTELY don't want any of those animals harmed or killed. HELLOOOOOO. Not desiring to be a parent doesn't equal anything other than we don't want kids, period.:smn

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In fact, some of us actually advocate harsher penalties for parents who murder their own kids.

Exactly. I think something I've noticed is interesting. Whenever there is a news report posted about a child who died in a hot car, it is more common in posted comments about the incident that childfree are very upset about how much the child must have suffered. Too many parents want to talk about how the baby killing parents' pain and suffering. They also get really angry when anyone "judges" the baby killers. It is my opinion that stress and harried lifestyles are NOT excuses to forget your kids in cars. A parent does not have the privilege of being scatterbrained in that way.

Dear Dr. Drew,

I hope you are reading this. I used to respect you, and I used to like your show... And since I used to respect you, I will tell you the truth. You have sincerely ruined your own credibility. We people with no kids don't condone murder like you parents do, because get this.. Childfree don't generally murder kids, their parents do. So... I would recommend watching yourself and your childed comrades, because who knows when one of you will "snap" and leave your child to die in a hot car.

You, by using a scapegoat, an effigy to burn, that ISNT the murder who killed the child in question, have given parents a free pass to do as they please and once again (like too many other things), dump the products of their actions on us, the people who simply aren't interested in raising children of our own. We, the childfree members of bratfree.com, are not amused.

If you don't "get" us, by all means, LEARN about us. I have a sincere problem respecting you after you simply threw people that had NOTHING TO DO WITH ANY CHILD, under the proverbial bus for the murder of a child we had (as a collective whole) nothing to do with. A PARENT murdered that child, someone from an entirely different village from US. If you wish to play the psychology game... Let's play.

As a person who specializes in psychology, I'm sure you are familiar with the Freudian concept of projection? In case you didn't know, projection is the action in which "humans defend themselves against unpleasant impulses by denying their existence in themselves, while attributing them to others" (Wikipedia). Could it be possible that you are wrestling with the want to kill your children and desperately sought us out as a scapegoat to make yourself feel better?

No.. I wouldn't even want to THINK of you doing something so HORRIBLE. Right, Dr. Drew? Surely you don't have this impulse? Although this is cause for alarm.. As it seems to be a malady commonly sited in those who have children (and not often in our.. ilk.) . Perhaps you should introspect when you get some time away from your darlings. But sure, you may wish to use us to make yourself feel better for the time being. It's okay, go ahead and do that.

But you may have noticed, that your actions were miscalculated. I haven't seen too many trolls since your little.. Episode.. So either we have been outed as ironically decent people or no one out there watches that farce you call a show. Either way, I suggest you stop denying yourself and work through whatever problems you may have before making the attempt to seem logical again.

Sincerely,
your friend and Ill-advised scapegoat,
Catharsist

Edit: for grammar.

I learned a lot about drug and alcohol treatment by watching Celebrity rehab. But I lost a lot of respect for Dr. Drew as being the medical director when I saw some things that took place on the show. For example, letting the celebrities being treated be around some people who were trying to get them to use drugs again. Staff doing sloppy things like recap a needle (could lead to being stuck with an infectious disease). Having too many people like friends and relatives on the unit. Even as a family physician how can he not know of these poor practices? But then again, I know that when it comes in infection control, physicians are often the worst offenders.

Thom, do you notice that about physicians too?

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Thom, do you notice that about physicians too?

The older ones. The fresh ones coming out of residency in the last 10 are much better about it.

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I got your "out of context" and "no bad publicity" riiiight here:

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I'm out of it for a little while, and everyone gets delusions of grandeur...:biggrin2

I wish RatsNotBrats was here to see this.

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I wish RatsNotBrats was here to see this.

I might have missed the update, but was the mystery of that poster's disappearance ever resolved? They made some awesome posts; still think of them.

"Dr." Drew, you are more than smart enough to figure out what it means to be CF. You are more than smart enough to know that we live in a pronatalist world where CF people are barely understood, let alone accepted. You are more than smart enough to figure out that we are, collectively, against children suffering and dying. You are smart enough to figure out that one of the top reasons many childfree people are childree is because they DON'T want a child to suffer. THEY DON'T WANT A CHILD TO SUFFER. What the heck are you doing?

With the high position you are in as a popular, self-proclaimed mental health expert, you could have done something good. But you chose to use your abilities to create more negativity in this world. You chose to bring down any positive work you've previously done and the entire mental health profession with your trash tv nonsense. Shameful.

Until/unless you get it together, stay the heck away from even mentioning the childfree. Please seek some actual quality professional help to figure out why the hell your mind is in such a disturbing state. Getting off on starting shit and demonizing marginalized groups for attention is NOT healthy in the least bit. At this time, you have lost all respect from me. Again, get it together.

P.S. PARENTS are the ones who actually put their children in harm's way as a result of creating them in the first place. Hint: It's not possible for my non-existent child to bake in a car like a pizza in a microwave. And no amount of hypothetical sick jokes would make that a reality. Either point the blame finger in the right direction or STFU with your creepy mindfuck nonsense. Thanks a ton.

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One tidbit Dr. Screw overlooked: this site is for childfree people, not psycho parents who want to unbirth their existing babies!

If any other future killers are reading this, please fuck off. We don't advocate abuse or murder of children, though you'd think it by the way some people react.

TV doctors are generally garbage, but Doc-turd Drew is the worst. Go back to presiding over Celebrity Death-hab or Teen Mom reunions, where you do everything in your power to make the young moos cry. We may be crude at times, but we're not the ones exploiting peoples' pain for money and ratings.

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They had some friend of the killer's on the phone who was defending him. It turned into a duh-fest with him and Pinsky, saying "as a father", etc. how they can't imagine it, therefore, it must not be so. There has to be "something"... to explain this. But "as a father" I can't comprehend. So, that is where this is going now. There is a woman on the panel who seems to believe he is guilty and appears frustrated with this stupid daddie coddling to make this guy seem less than a monster.

It is not we at BF who relate to Harris or what he did, as Pinsky referenced on national tv, it is HE who relates to this pig, "as a father". How about we look at Harris "as a human", knowing that some humans can be capable of anything. He is not above human for being a parent. The same damn rules apply.

When it comes to an opinion from the childfree on this, I can only believe the parents resent that we can be objective, that we can recognize and accept some kind of truth without our own egos being damaged because someone else did something heinous.

It's just odd that people use this self-centered illogic. Say I love my husband and would do anything for him. Someone else kills their husband. Therefore they must be innocent/crazy/distracted/excused because I could not imagine killing my husband.

In recent years, the mentality that parents(mothers especially) can do no wrong has spread, so they get a free pass on just about everything or worse yet, since they are parents, nothing can be their fault, they are victims, so fingers get pointed elsewhere. This time it's childfree people.