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The really sad thing is that this doesn't have to happen: two friends of mine are creative types (a graphic designer and a musician) with a house full of beautiful minimalist furniture, nice artwork and cool stuff like vintage toy robots, graphic novels, old stereo test demonstration LPs and manga comics. When they had twin boys none of this changed- instead of whacking up some Disney wallpaper they got some nice Ikea and Habitat stuff for their bedrooms and lots of creative toys and more cool robots. The boys got into drawing (and they were very good at it from an early age), reading, building complex giant robots from Lego, and are now learning to play instruments! They've been inspired by all this cool creative stuff around them and have developed a few new interests of their own.
They're actually very nice (and well-behaved) children, interesting to talk to and a real joy to be around, and the parents are still interesting and fun people too- if anything they have more in common with their children than most parents and they all have a lot of fun and get on well.
I wish more parents were like this- when some other friends had two daughters they started off quite funny and lively but now they're a bit older they insist on buying them endless piles of glittery pink princessy crap, they made them up a pink bedroom with pink fairy wallpaper, and now the girls mainly like to play with make-up and pretty dresses, and it's all a bit dull frankly. Also their house looks like it has been taken over by the children and that's never a good look.
I know parents have to make their children their priority but I think many of them take it too far and forget who they are in the process, so all that's left of their identity is "MOO" or "DUH". It's not good for them or for the children really.
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Those friends of yours are likely true Parents... the one in the OP is just another breeder.
Re: Another example of the kidded-down, dumbed-down parent life September 16, 2014 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 2,430 |
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I bet part of it is that, with all the post-baybee changes, she'd never be able to do nude modelling again/doesn't have a body that she's proud of being seen naked, so that's why the touchiness and butthurt radiates out.
Not that you have to be a perfect body to be a nude model by any means -- art classes like interesting folds and stuff I'm sure -- but if she used to be proud of her naked body and now isn't, then that could make a big difference in her attitude about it.
It's just like all the sanctimonious cows who start clutching their pearls when they see magazines with swimsuit/lingerie models on the cover, or when girls at the beach are hotter than them and wear bikinis instead of frumpy one-pieces with the skirt.
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