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I'm very sorry to hear that, Catharsist.
You mention shame but it could also be she wanted to try and keep it as "quiet" as possible despite the fact things like this usually leak out one way or another. I mean, it was her choice to keep the baby (you mention she was an evangelical Christian but keep in mind they are more likely to get pregnant as teens than mainstream Christians, including Catholics).
Overall it is usually the teens years and the choices one makes that determine their life's path. So in this case you have one girl who got pregnant in high school, and the other girl, a WannaMoo who had 2 kids, college and a job. It's not uncommon for teen friends to split up like that - and keep in mind that once a girl does get pignant she has almost no time for friends, never mind time for herself because she is taking care of kids 24/7/365.
If both these girls are as busy with their brats as they sound, maybe it is time to let them go even though you were once close to them. Or communicate with them about an annual be-in-touch thing (and it does not have to be at Christmas.)
Good luck whatever you decide to do.
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I know what you mean. My freinds suddenly dissapeared after I started having kids. I guess they don't like the fact that I can procreate. Maybe they are jealous because i'm happy with my kids and they can't find someone to give them children.
Oh well to each his own.
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spawn
I know what you mean. My freinds suddenly dissapeared after I started having kids. I guess they don't like the fact that I can procreate. Maybe they are jealous because i'm happy with my kids and they can't find someone to give them children.
Oh well to each his own.
Scat, you! :yeah
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I know what you mean. My freinds suddenly dissapeared after I started having kids. I guess they don't like the fact that I can procreate. Maybe they are jealous because i'm happy with my kids and they can't find someone to give them children.
Oh well to each his own.
Scat, you! :yeah
Good advice.
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