Have more chyldrens - that way they can bully each other. February 19, 2015 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
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One criticism of the research comes from a surprising source. Ross Ellis, a real-estate agent who founded the non-profit advocacy group Stomp Out Bullying, said the friction is being overblown.
"This is sibling rivalry that started in ancient days and will continue in future days," she said. "Bullying is just the hot buzzword today."
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Re: Have more chyldrens - that way they can bully each other. February 25, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 7,825 |
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twocents
I think the glossing over of sibling bullying is, SURPRISE!!!, to justify moo and duhs multi sprogging.
screw the younger kid if the oldest is a typical piece of shit. they just wanna breed.
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Re: Have more chyldrens - that way they can bully each other. February 26, 2015 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
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catharsist
Bullying is a form of social correction, unfortunately children are little savages who don't know any actual truths of the world so their input is hardly useful. Usually it's the one kid who "doesn't fit the mold" who it fucked with. And those are often the brightest, free thinking people. Bullying children should be smacked around a little, but bullying teens, that's different. That shit can lead to suicide a host of other issues.
Re: Have more chyldrens - that way they can bully each other. February 27, 2015 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 441 |
Re: Have more chyldrens - that way they can bully each other. March 03, 2015 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 379 |
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Techie
I found it to be fun to bully the bully. In many cases, they act all tough but they do crack and when they do, it is fun.
Re: Have more chyldrens - that way they can bully each other. March 03, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 486 |
Re: Have more chyldrens - that way they can bully each other. March 04, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 2,975 |
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starvingauthor
Bearing in mind that I'm not a psychologist I have noticed a few things about kids that bully siblings. From what I have seen there is almost always blatant favoritism by one or both of the parents. As a result it seems that either the favored child bullies the other because they know they can get away with it or the other bullies the golden child out of anger over being ignored. Either way it certainly seems to be the parent's fault. Not that the Moos and Duhs would admit to that.
Re: Have more chyldrens - that way they can bully each other. March 04, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 3,978 |
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starvingauthor
Bearing in mind that I'm not a psychologist I have noticed a few things about kids that bully siblings. From what I have seen there is almost always blatant favoritism by one or both of the parents. As a result it seems that either the favored child bullies the other because they know they can get away with it or the other bullies the golden child out of anger over being ignored. Either way it certainly seems to be the parent's fault. Not that the Moos and Duhs would admit to that.
Sometimes the bully is just a bully or a sociopath, they do it to other people too. The poor sibling of a natural sociopath has no chance, there isn't much of a way to fight back because their thinking is so evil and twisted. Parents usually ignore and/or defend the psycho because who wants to admit they bred and are raising a psycho.
Sometimes parents will play sibs against each other and it can trigger rivalry that results in bullying. Most of the time it seems there is one kid who is really good at it so that one wins because the other sib(s) get so beaten down. Good parenting there.
I wonder how many "accidental" child deaths are murders not by the parents but by a sibling enabled and protected by the parents.
Re: Have more chyldrens - that way they can bully each other. March 04, 2015 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,708 |
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She's also the special snowflake type that must not only be unique and different , but give people incredible amounts of crap for doing anything she thinks is "conformist" like listening to popular music. I don't think I conveyed it well, but it is coupled with extensive nosey/judgey questions (i.e. "do you work to live or live to work...like do you really think its fulfilling to be a tax attorney?") and exhausting to deal with constantly. My mom encourages this - she allows her to lay into me for "giving up real dreams to join the grind" and other judgmental bullshit interrogation, but jumps to her defense should I turn the question back on her. For years I thought I was being too sensitive, but its apparently obvious to everyone - my friends, Mr. Bratty (my mom sits there while she takes "joking" jab after jab at him, the second Mr. Bratty jokes back at her expense its all mama bear), my stepmom, my dad, Mr. Bratty's parents, my assistant at work, my old school teachers, my mom's manicurist, our veterinarian...
Re: Have more chyldrens - that way they can bully each other. March 04, 2015 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,708 |
I recall the vast majority of children I grew up around were absolute assholes. The decent ones were few and far between. Reason number 50000000 I knew I'd never sprog. As a child I couldn't bear the thought of potentially bringing another asshole into the world!Quote
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Bullying is a form of social correction, unfortunately children are little savages who don't know any actual truths of the world so their input is hardly useful.
Re: Have more chyldrens - that way they can bully each other. March 04, 2015 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,708 |
I was bullied at home and school. For the lucky days when I wasn't the target I would do whatever possible to blend into the background and stay far away from the bullies. When I was younger I would try to defend others who were being bullied but that only added a target to my back, so I stopped. And the idiot adults who said to just ignore the bullying were 100% wrong, those brats would jump on any/every chance they had to bully others any time an adult wasn't supervising.Quote
saturnian catalina
The part I find really strange is the mention that kids who bully at school are bullied at home. I was bullied a lot in school, and teachers always made that kind of excuse for the bullies--I guess I don't understand why someone who was subjected to bullying would do it to other people, since presumably they should know how much it sucks. (I never bullied people because, having dealt with a ton of it myself, I didn't want to put anyone else through it.)
Re: Have more chyldrens - that way they can bully each other. March 05, 2015 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |
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I was bullied at home and school. For the lucky days when I wasn't the target I would do whatever possible to blend into the background and stay far away from the bullies. When I was younger I would try to defend others who were being bullied but that only added a target to my back, so I stopped. And the idiot adults who said to just ignore the bullying were 100% wrong, those brats would jump on any/every chance they had to bully others any time an adult wasn't supervising.Quote
saturnian catalina
The part I find really strange is the mention that kids who bully at school are bullied at home. I was bullied a lot in school, and teachers always made that kind of excuse for the bullies--I guess I don't understand why someone who was subjected to bullying would do it to other people, since presumably they should know how much it sucks. (I never bullied people because, having dealt with a ton of it myself, I didn't want to put anyone else through it.)
Re: Have more chyldrens - that way they can bully each other. March 05, 2015 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 585 |
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This is a popular theory of JonBenet Ramsey's murder. Her brother was reported to have some serious psychological problems before she was killed. He was probably jealous of all the attention she was getting being a kiddie pageant winner and I have the thought that he might have been molesting her, too. He kills his sister, whether on accident or on purpose, and the parents cover it up.
Re: Have more chyldrens - that way they can bully each other. March 12, 2015 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 379 |
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starvingauthor
Bearing in mind that I'm not a psychologist I have noticed a few things about kids that bully siblings. From what I have seen there is almost always blatant favoritism by one or both of the parents. As a result it seems that either the favored child bullies the other because they know they can get away with it or the other bullies the golden child out of anger over being ignored. Either way it certainly seems to be the parent's fault. Not that the Moos and Duhs would admit to that.
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Techie
Back in junior high, there was this unattractive girl who a bully used to pick on. I eventually told the bully to knock it off and they did, for the most part but bully did continue to hide her stuff every now and then. Well, I'd watch the bully and see what they did and would later return the stuff to that girl.
About 15 years later, I was out of high school and out of college, I had a problem with my eye. I went from one doctor to another to another to no avail. I eventually went to a high end clinic to get it looked at by the very best of the eye doctors. As I was sitting in the room not suspecting a thing, a doctor walks into a room. She looked familiar but I did not exactly remember who she was. Well, she remembered me. It was that one girl who I looked out for in junior high. She was now a top notch eye doctor. She personally followed thru with my treatment and my eye has been healthy ever since.
Take that you bully fucks! Look, I stuck up for a "geek" who later saved my eye sight. What exactly do you bully fucks get out of bulling other kids? Instant gratification? I am a living proof that what goes around, comes around.
Re: Have more chyldrens - that way they can bully each other. March 14, 2015 | Registered: 16 years ago Posts: 3,454 |