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I moved to a different department and didn't have any contact with her for three years, then she gets piggo and I got an invitation to her shower. I remember thinking, holy crap, she barely knows me. Never invited me to anything else before that, and nothing since although she did send me a couple of e-mails. She tried to get pregnant for 13 years and finally succeeded at age 42 or something like that. Frankly, her life sounded like a nightmare: husband didn't make as much money as she did but of course wouldn't help with anything, etc. She told me she had frozen embryos left and was going to transfer the rest of them. Ugh. I don't believe she was successful.
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She actually sent me an e-mail after we talked and told me if I wanted to have children I "should never give up" because it took her 13 years to get her Little Mirakul. WTF!
Re: Invites from breeders you hardly know April 19, 2015 | Registered: 19 years ago Posts: 9,198 |
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I've dealt with this same type of person many times. You won't get an invitation to any event that does not involve a gift for her child. You will get an invitation to every event that does involve bringing a gift for her child. It really is that simple.
The big events WITH invitation: Loaf shower, Christening [if applicable], 1st birthday, 1st Christmas [or Hanukkah, if applicable], elementary school graduation, middle school graduation, bar/bat mitzvah [if applicable], high school graduation, 18th birthday, 21st birthday, college graduation.
Re: Invites from breeders you hardly know April 19, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 2,308 |
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And Heaven forbid these cheapskates would hold a party for adults and offer you some decent food to pay you back for all the money you've pumped into their kyds.
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