Mom publicly shames she-brat for lying about age on facebook

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paragon schnitzophonic
Good. Nip that shit in the bud instead of being yet another mother on the news and on Investigation Discovery with a missing/dead child because she wasn't vigilant on what her child was doing on the Internet. And letting the child know who is in charge and that her mother is not her friend.

Plus, it gets to a point where humiliation is the only punishment that will get through to a teenager. Taking away privileges doesn't do much, spanking only works for young children. But when you intentionally humiliate your kid, they're going to fall in line because they don't want that to happen again.

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thom_c
Cat's outta the bag already. Those photos are all over the black internet by now.
ped0 bear is very pleased.
Wonder if moo knows that.

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miscellaneous
Good for the mom. Finally someone that has the balls to teach children proper age appropriate behavior. 13 year olds should not be prancing around in bras and panties and sharing them on the net with grown ass men. If parents allow this behavior will we will have more Amanda Todds and sexual abuse victims. People need tough love. The touchy feelly shit doesn't work that's why kids grow up bitchy, bratty, and self-entitled, learned helplessness leaches.

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StudioFiftyFour

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miscellaneous
Good for the mom. Finally someone that has the balls to teach children proper age appropriate behavior. 13 year olds should not be prancing around in bras and panties and sharing them on the net with grown ass men. If parents allow this behavior will we will have more Amanda Todds and sexual abuse victims. People need tough love. The touchy feelly shit doesn't work that's why kids grow up bitchy, bratty, and self-entitled, learned helplessness leaches.

She definitely shouldn't be on any social networking site doing any of the stuff she was doing.

However, I'm going to pose this for the board...

This girl isn't the only young teen to do this. MANY have done it. The vast majority probably haven't gotten caught doing it. This doesn't make it right, but it's reality.

Putting this case aside and speaking in pure generalities--Is it possible that this is simply an outgrowth of what their parents have subliminally promoted for years? This is the same generation whose parents have pushed the envelope on just about every formerly childfree boundary which previously existed. They kept their kids out late at night. They took their kids to R rated movies when they had no business being there. They sat them at a bar top when they weren't 21. They constantly strove to be their kids' "buddy" instead of their parent.

And now the claim is, "You can't do that online! You're not old enough to know any better!" Uhhhhhhh, what? You can't have it both ways. You can't push for your kid to violate every adult social norm for the first ump-teen years and then all of a sudden attempt to use the "but you're just a kid!" routine to put the genie back in the bottle. It doesn't work that way. You should have told your kid along the way that they can't stay out late, because school is important. They can't go to R-Rated movies at 12 because that's the rule. They can't drink shirley temples at the bar top because it's a place for adult gathering, not children.

Don't act stunned when your 13 year old is acting like an adult prostitute if you've never set any boundaries as a parent.

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paragon schnitzophonic

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StudioFiftyFour

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miscellaneous
Good for the mom. Finally someone that has the balls to teach children proper age appropriate behavior. 13 year olds should not be prancing around in bras and panties and sharing them on the net with grown ass men. If parents allow this behavior will we will have more Amanda Todds and sexual abuse victims. People need tough love. The touchy feelly shit doesn't work that's why kids grow up bitchy, bratty, and self-entitled, learned helplessness leaches.

She definitely shouldn't be on any social networking site doing any of the stuff she was doing.

However, I'm going to pose this for the board...

This girl isn't the only young teen to do this. MANY have done it. The vast majority probably haven't gotten caught doing it. This doesn't make it right, but it's reality.

Putting this case aside and speaking in pure generalities--Is it possible that this is simply an outgrowth of what their parents have subliminally promoted for years? This is the same generation whose parents have pushed the envelope on just about every formerly childfree boundary which previously existed. They kept their kids out late at night. They took their kids to R rated movies when they had no business being there. They sat them at a bar top when they weren't 21. They constantly strove to be their kids' "buddy" instead of their parent.

And now the claim is, "You can't do that online! You're not old enough to know any better!" Uhhhhhhh, what? You can't have it both ways. You can't push for your kid to violate every adult social norm for the first ump-teen years and then all of a sudden attempt to use the "but you're just a kid!" routine to put the genie back in the bottle. It doesn't work that way. You should have told your kid along the way that they can't stay out late, because school is important. They can't go to R-Rated movies at 12 because that's the rule. They can't drink shirley temples at the bar top because it's a place for adult gathering, not children.

Don't act stunned when your 13 year old is acting like an adult prostitute if you've never set any boundaries as a parent.

That's actually a good point and worth discussing. Breeders take their children to 24hr. IHOPs at 2AM and to midnight premieres of movies, but then set a 10PM curfew when those children become teenagers. They buy their elementary-aged daughters bikinis, but then say, "You're not leaving the house looking like that, young lady!" when they're in high school. Breeders are too busy making sure that they don't have to sacrifice any portion of their lives once they have children and to be considered the "cool" parent that their kids will brag about when other kids are complaining about the boundaries their parents set that they don't notice that they've been passing on a subliminal message to their kids: I don't give a fuck about you. These kids thus grow up without the security that their parents love them.

The kids who don't whore themselves out on social media are the ones who had set boundaries as children and properly authoritative parents. They're given enough freedom to not feel constricted, but know where the line is and that their parents will not be afraid to punish and have a healthy fear of it. But they have the understanding that their parents love them and care about what happens to them and how they turn out.

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ladybug2203
Anyone else notice how the mom mentioned that the girl is 13 years old and doesn't wipe her butt good?

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StudioFiftyFour
This girl isn't the only young teen to do this. MANY have done it. The vast majority probably haven't gotten caught doing it. This doesn't make it right, but it's reality.

Putting this case aside and speaking in pure generalities--Is it possible that this is simply an outgrowth of what their parents have subliminally promoted for years? This is the same generation whose parents have pushed the envelope on just about every formerly childfree boundary which previously existed. They kept their kids out late at night. They took their kids to R rated movies when they had no business being there. They sat them at a bar top when they weren't 21. They constantly strove to be their kids' "buddy" instead of their parent.

And now the claim is, "You can't do that online! You're not old enough to know any better!" Uhhhhhhh, what? You can't have it both ways. You can't push for your kid to violate every adult social norm for the first ump-teen years and then all of a sudden attempt to use the "but you're just a kid!" routine to put the genie back in the bottle. It doesn't work that way. You should have told your kid along the way that they can't stay out late, because school is important. They can't go to R-Rated movies at 12 because that's the rule. They can't drink shirley temples at the bar top because it's a place for adult gathering, not children.

Don't act stunned when your 13 year old is acting like an adult prostitute if you've never set any boundaries as a parent.

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StudioFiftyFour
They can't go to R-Rated movies at 12 because that's the rule.