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I'm beginning to wonder if the unapologetic narcissism that Millennials get pinned with isn't going to turn out to be the independent 'I don't give a fuck what you think' streak that begets creative transformation and enlightenment.
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As a young millennial, I've noticed that many people my age are, if not childfree, at least not defaulting to sprogging as much as previous generations. I think it has to do with a desire for choice. We want choices for everything, from jam flavors, to clothing, to relationships. Almost all ability to choose is forfeit if you have kids. Suddenly you can't choose what to eat, what to wear, who to hang out with, how to act, when to get up, how to live.
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eh, I think having a reason is they way to ensure that you really are childfree. If the only thing that make you childfree is that you "don't feel like having kids" this is the exact reason why we get bingo ed with "oh, you'll change your mind". Because maybe one day you will have kids because one day you did feel like having kids.Quote
blondie
I think if you need reasons you might not be cf. I worry that millennials who may not really be cf could put brats off for a host of good reasons but they all go in the toilet when the bio clock is about spent and desperation sets in, and then ivf......
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I'm beginning to wonder if the unapologetic narcissism that Millennials get pinned with isn't going to turn out to be the independent 'I don't give a fuck what you think' streak that begets creative transformation and enlightenment.
I was born in '85 and I can tell you, reading this was like no shit, Sherlock. Like someone photocopied what was in my brain and those of a quite a few people I know. It's about time someone advocated for my age group and stopped calling us selfish cold-hearted bitches and Peter Pans and all sorts of derogatory things just because a significant number of us want nothing to do with raising the next generation. I look a lot younger than my age so I usually get away with murder avoiding all the nosy "when are you getting married already?!" questions from relatives I see once a year at Thanksgiving or Christmas--I still get asked when I'm graduating from college when I finished my master's before I turned 25. Meanwhile, some of my old high school and college classmates were--you guessed it--sprogging. I can tell you a lot of people in my generation are taking a stand for what they believe in and not what society has robotically done in the past just because "it's what you do". I have no qualms about answering with a "It's not for me", the end, when someone asks me if I want kids. I'm not exactly maternal-looking (think Death from Sandman) so I don't really get that question often except on the rare occasion I'msuffocatedsurrounded by a breederiffic crowd. The irony is, with all my hormonal issues I probably couldn't conceive if I was strapped down to a bed and turkey-basted to death by some right-wing extremist (and still, I'm paranoid to a fault when it comes to BC and condoms). If I lived in Medieval times I'd probably be that "freakish barren woman" burned for a witch. Anyway, back to this era, I feel that essays like this are the first step in sparking a new type of equality--giving all people the respect they deserve regardless of parental status.
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fucking baby-boomers. .
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I agree w/ so many of you here of all ages on this topic. I truly think millennials are avoiding kyds because they seem to avoid all adult decisions. I don't want to offend any of you here and obviously everyone is not the same, but that is what I see. Avoiding relationships, even dating of any sort, real full time jobs or even part time jobs, moving out of parents house, getting a car or insurance, apartments, anything and everything other than the latest iPhone. I too think there will be a sudden shift and then a bunch of IVF treatments and it will be better than ever and they can push it off till 50, that is my predictions.
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I think many millennials came into to the working world when economy was in really bad shape. They were not able to find decent income so many things were put on hold. The millennials that did luck out with income and were able to buy homes, they bred about as quickly as the generation before them. If in doubt, take a look at Fakebook - they are all over the place. Given the financial opportunity, millennials are not much different than anyone else. There maybe slightly more of them who are CF, but, like you said, that may all just be very temporary. Give them the funds and a decent place to live and there will be bay-bees all over the place. Birth rate is not really down. Marriages would not really be down either if people actually had the means to get married and start a life.
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That's the same thing i notice. I'm 29 and have few friends my age and even younger who already got stable jobs and have their own apartments/houses and at least 2 of them are planning a second kid.
Most of the people think i'm avoinding kids because of my financial situation, the rest think i'm infertile.
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