Goodamn Delusional MIL! August 19, 2015 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 2,301 |
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Since WHEN do the children of a foster child qualify as grandkids?! It drives me nuts because she really doesn't give a shit about her own damn flesh-and-blood daughter.Other than her father, who cares some, I'm really the only one who cares if the Wolf lives or dies.
Re: Goodamn Delusional MIL! August 20, 2015 | Registered: 19 years ago Posts: 9,198 |
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Dorisan
However, having said that, I don't see the wrong in making a family, kids and grandkids included, out of non-DNA related people. There are people who suffered shitty circumstances in their life who deserve to have family. The non-biological parent/grandparent just needs to make sure that the status of their biological family is in order, or there is an honest reason for the estrangement and creation of a new family. Don't go and create this new family as a way to "punish" your own bio-kids, it's filthy thing to do to your DNA connections as well as the non-DNA people who you are using as a club rather than actually caring for their welfare.
Re: Goodamn Delusional MIL! August 20, 2015 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 721 |
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mrs. chinaski
Two possibilites:
1. MIL does that only to spite you.
2. MIL is an old breeder who meets other old breeders.
Fellow old breeders always showed photos of grandchyldren
and she felt left out. Now she is happy as she has something
to present to the others.
MIL obviously considers the forster chyld her own chyld
but I think that's OK!
I used to have a friend who was adopted and the
parunts always made differences between her
and their bio-chyldren. They always showed her that
she didn't belong to a family as she wasn't their
"flesh and blood". Such a behaviour is nasty.
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I look at the photos and the biological chyld looks a lot like grandfather,
those other two don't resemble to anyone as they are not related."
-> She is so fucking stupid that it hurts. People like this make me sick
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Re: Goodamn Delusional MIL! August 22, 2015 | Registered: 8 years ago Posts: 499 |
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mrs. chinaski
It must be so difficult to like strangers who are not your flesh and blood.
I look at the photos and the biological chyld looks a lot like grandfather,
those other two don't resemble to anyone as they are not related.
Re: Goodamn Delusional MIL! August 22, 2015 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 6,607 |
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bell_flower
I don't get the fascination with their own DNA. On average, in terms of DNA sequence, all humans are 99.5% similar to any other humans.
Breeders need to get over themselves, really. Their bloodline or DNA isn't all that special.
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contemplativeintrovert
The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb. I recently discovered it and it's a saying that I carry now, it takes away the pain I felt at being told I wasn't my mother's daughter.
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Dorisan
YES
I come to a quick boil when people spout "blood is thicker than water." I don't know how that saying became so bastardized, but I feel like carrying small cards that read "dumbshit, ya gotta it alll wrong," on the front. On the back is the correct interpretation:
The bonds of those who are covenanted together by blood are considered to be stronger (thicker) than the bonds of those who share a mother's water from the womb.
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Re: Goodamn Delusional MIL! August 26, 2015 |
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Dorisan
YES
Thank you! I am glad I found a site with intelligent like-minded people. Lately I've been dealing with a lot of attitude from my brother and it was implied I should just tolerate it anyway, because he's family. I have never believed in the sanctity of non-voluntary obligations, familiar obligations included. Of course, when I say that to the people in my life, I'm told again "but family is everything!" :headbrick Right. Because being happy doesn't hold a candle to the joy I feel at being treated rudely and being expected to be okay with it because it came from a relative
That's the typical Pollyanna, fairy tale mindset common in so many countries where people are told to tolerate garbage from parents and other relatives just because "they're Famileee." Irritates me to no end.
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