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Duddy Lets His Son Leech off the Household
Hi I am a parent/stepparent. The issue that we are having is with my step-son. He has a job but blows the money every two weeks. We pay for all bills and necessities, he doesn't contribute to the household at all. My husband doesn't see a problem with it. We are struggling but we are not rich either. I really would just like for him to become independent, and have a sense of direction.....he has no value about where to start. We have discussed options but to me he is not interested in school, but he is only interested in doing enough to get by.
It is frustrating now to where my husband and I are different ends of this argument. The problem is I feel that this will lead us to getting a divorce, we have no other issues but this is his only child and I think he feels that he would be turning his back on his son.
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evilchildlessbitch
I don't care if somebody had hovering parents. When they become adults, they are responsible for themselves. Adult rights would ideally mean adult responsibilities but our culture seems intent on treating people like children later and later.
I'm not talking about people who enter into a room mate type arrangement with parents to make both lives easier, people providing elder care or people who have hit a bump in the road like sudden illness or unemployment who need a few months to get back on their feet. These people are still acting like adults.
I'll bet if the parents of these failures to launch blocked access to the internet and cable, imposed rules about keeping a job or job hunting until one is found, refused to let them pig out on food the parents bought, refused use of their vehicle, imposed a curfew and insisted they sign a move out date agreement a lot of this garbage would stop.
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I thought your aim was obvious. I think the ones who embody the leeches would never for a second feel bad about still living at home, but of course now the thread is half full of, "hope you weren't talking about meeeee..."Quote
Miss_Hannigan
I posted this knowing that many folks are having a hard time making ends meet and have to rely on some sort of support from relatives, be it food, shelter or direct financial assistance. It's simply the state of America's middle class and I don't think the situation will ever get better, not in my lifetime, anyway. But the 20-, 30- or even 40-something slugs who sit at home all day and party all night while not contributing any money or chore time make me sick.
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Miss_Hannigan
http://www.empoweringparents.com/failure-to-launch-why-so-many-adult-kids-still-live-with-their-parents.php#
Read the comments, it's a horror show of lazy, non-contributing brats leeching off aging parents, sometimes dragging THEIR own spawn along for the free ride. I'm so glad this will never be me.
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