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StudioFiftyFour
This "I can't have something that I really, really, really want so life is unfair!" attitude is beyond the pale when you consider the abject pain and suffering that exists in the world. Knowing that you've got people with disabilities, or going through dialysis or chemotherapy... how can any sane person openly talk about their 'pain' in the same light?
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Infertilie Myrtle
My partner left me because I can't have children. I've struggled to let anybody close since.
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Cambion
Why in the fuck do so many infertile women (and it's always the women, not the men) define themselves by what they cannot do rather than what they can? Life's not all about whether or not you can reproduce, and to sit and focus on that one single aspect for your entire life is pathetic.
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Cambion
"As someone who is struggling with infertility, lately I judge everyone who I think is/will be an unfit parent and constantly question why them instead of me. Not proud of it."
And who is to say that you'll be a fit parent, wanna-Moo? Just because you're infertile means that you deserve a kid more than some other breeder whose eggs/sperm do work?
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Cambion
"I wish I had friends who struggled with infertility. I'm so sick of people saying 'it will happen.' They just don't get it."
Infertility to this cunt is the worst thing to ever happen or that ever will happen, yet she wants to wish it on the people she allegedly cares about just so they understand her butthurts. Wow, what a good friend. Would you ever say, "I wish my friend would get cancer so they'd see why I feel so crappy from having it?"
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mrs. chinaski
"It’s only with hindsight I can see that I spent the years from my late 30s to my early 40s obsessing about having a baby at any cost. I look at photographs of me during this period and I can see an intense sadness in my eyes, a yearning, a hunger that tainted everything around me.
Did I waste those years? We put off buying our house, we never went on holiday and I was forever embarking on the latest ‘fertility-boosting’ fad diet or investing in costly therapies and remedies."
-> I am CF woman so I can't relate but I can see how this can destroy a marriage or even a life.
The baybeh wish gradually turns into obsession.
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nightfire
I think to play devil's advocate here, I think one of the major reasons many of these ladies go through trying to 'make one of their own' is the time, expense and how much the adoption agencies put them through the wringer before they can even adopt a child, and they might not even be accepted. Plus there is always the risk of the bio parent(s) changing their mind during the adoption process (which sometimes can take years) and in the past the adoption agencies often preferred placing babies with matching race families. Lastly there is also the high chance the babies have RAD/abuse/negligence and/or drugs-during-the-pregnancy issues from the at times shit bio parent, which can make an adopted baby quite a bit of a challenge.
Thus why it seems many go through the doctor route, even though there are existing babies out there to adopt. And as we know, the way society often treats people with no children as if they are worthless, which doesn't allow them to say 'I am still somebody, even without a child' but go into considerable expense, medical treatments, and the heavily emotional toll until they have one.
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