Yeah, because people don't have enough to pay for... I wouldn't want to take care of an autistic person, either, but...
Please tell us what happens when you tell her that you got snipped. I, for one, would tell her that if she can't take care of her most special, most precious autistic child all by herself, and expects someone else to do it for her, why, exactly, she is she so interested in grand-babies?
My MIL would always say how she was looking forward to grandchildren. I knew she was saying it, even when she didn't mention it directly. It got to be that I knew when she was
thinking about it. And the answer was "No, we're not having kids. Look at your other kid." And it would piss her off. So I kept doing it. Because she had absolutely no say in what I did reproductive-wise, and I wouldn't pretend she did.
If you think babies are magic, GREAT! You would be an AWESOME foster parent! Right now, there's millions of kids crammed in crappy, abusive situations, that need some love and understanding! You're such a wonderful per- ....What? It's... not the same? I don't get it; how do you mean? You... Oh... Oh my... Well, you're a fucking monster then. Bye.