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randomcfchick
The guy's general tone is very pragmatic and realistic. I like that he emphasizes that you can decline to date anyone, for any reason. Is it "fair"? Probably not, but that's life. People get to have preferences about their dating/love life. And that can include things like childed status. Once you have kids, you're changing your prospects. The end.
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reeniebessagain
It took me a LONG time to realize that I am NOT a social service organization in either my dating life(now pretty much over due to too many times burned, etc) and my life in general!
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randomcfchick
The guy's general tone is very pragmatic and realistic. I like that he emphasizes that you can decline to date anyone, for any reason. Is it "fair"? Probably not, but that's life. People get to have preferences about their dating/love life. And that can include things like childed status. Once you have kids, you're changing your prospects. The end.
Amen.
I've expressed this sentiment many times. People can do whatever the hell they want with their personal lives, and for whatever reason. It is perfectly okay to discriminate against a potential romantic interest due to them being too heavy, too thin, too black, too white, too poor, too rich... whatever. And that includes the baggage that they bring along--drinking, drugs, debt.... and kids.
No one is owed a friendship, or a date, or a hug, or sex, or anything else.
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twocents
too-old, very well put.
did you happen to tell this woman why you left? any reaction to that?
also some of the reasons we don't buy a lot of this autard coddling: too many are just manipulative bastards and know precisely what they are doing.
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too_old_for_kids
Thanks, everyone, for the helpful feedback and support. She was the first woman with a kid I've ever dated. Based on the experience she was probably the last.
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randomcfchick
The guy's general tone is very pragmatic and realistic. I like that he emphasizes that you can decline to date anyone, for any reason. Is it "fair"? Probably not, but that's life. People get to have preferences about their dating/love life. And that can include things like childed status. Once you have kids, you're changing your prospects. The end.
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Peace
Stu54, is this you doing the advising?
(sorry, I couldn't resist)
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too_old_for_kids
Thanks, everyone, for the helpful feedback and support. She was the first woman with a kid I've ever dated. Based on the experience she was probably the last.
In my life experience I've found that plenty of single parents have little/no interest in dating other single parents. They usually want to date someone without kids.
Deduce from that whatever you will.
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nokidsandhappy
Too old, it was a very wise decision to dump this obvious head-case, as she's grooming another Adam Lanza/Sky Walker. I'm not kidding, an autard who knows that their rule the roost, and has no boundaries is a recipe for disaster, and he hasn't even hit raging hormonal puberty yet. Moo is creating a monster, and it's only a matter of time before it explodes. Trust me, you don't want to be around when that shitshow clusterfuck goes down, and certainly don't want to be within reach of this tard's grip. Even if there's a rare chance that he doesn't go on a murderous spree, he's obviously very damaged goods - and Moo is got some very bizarre practices, that rings the alarm bells. Yep, get well away from that future autard-chernobyl.