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Birth control.
Before birth control, having children was largely out of a person's control. Kids were seen as an unavoidable inevitability. People had better perspective and could see kids as the annoying, undisciplined shits they are. It was understood that kids were largely bothersome and parents would actually make a concerted effort to raise their brats with the manners they inherently lack.
Now it's a choice to have children, so children have become the latest accessory. Children are touted as precious angels that can do no wrong. We are all supposed to feel blessed to be in their snotty, grubby presence.
I also think the rise of narcissism in society has a lot to do with this attitude. It may still be seen as tasteless to place yourself in the middle of the universe, but it's acceptable and encouraged to do so with your child. Society (as yet, largely) won't accept narcissistic individuals, so people get their narcissistic supply through their kids. "My kid is perfect." "My kid is special." "My kid can do no wrong." "My kid is the center of the universe - of course he can ruin everyone's public experience by being a loud, shrieking pest!"
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Birth control.
Before birth control, having children was largely out of a person's control. Kids were seen as an unavoidable inevitability. People had better perspective and could see kids as the annoying, undisciplined shits they are. It was understood that kids were largely bothersome and parents would actually make a concerted effort to raise their brats with the manners they inherently lack.
Now it's a choice to have children, so children have become the latest accessory. Children are touted as precious angels that can do no wrong. We are all supposed to feel blessed to be in their snotty, grubby presence.
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I think part of it is going overboard with compensating for past trauma from excessively strict authoritarian parents.
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My grandmother was an immigrant and the first in her family to give birth in a hospital, her mother and brother died in a homebirth. She was damn proud to give birth in a clean hospital with an actual real life doctor delivering her children. Under no circumstances did she ever question a doctor, teacher, or nun. If she was alive today she would tell the stupid cows that they should get on their knees and thank doG that they can give birth in a US hospital.
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