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I've known men and women who have been told they are special and unique and are still demanding everyone's attention like children in their 30's and 40's.
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retro lizard
I forgot should mention, I know of someone who needy, insecure, pouts like a petulant six year old, when they don't get their way, makes a sympathy fishing martyr out of themselves, is occasionally selfish, inconsiderate, & ungrateful due to excessive sacrifices they made earlier in life, is chinchy due to immature spending habits, won't handle something important until its a problem, even at the expense of everyone else, says stupid, short sighted things because they have no life & are subsequently out of touch with reality to some extent, adheres to famblee is everything bullshit, even if it encourages dysfunction & had a negative influence on their past problems, is entitlement poisoned, makes thinly veiled quips & jokes that expose their entitlement poisoning, is a slob that expects everyone to clean up after them, has done & does flat out unsanitary things that can cause illness to everyone, refuses to get out & interact with people or get in touch with old friends, rather than expecting relatives to allow them to tag along with outings, like a nagging younger sibling, has done petty, passive aggressive things to try to prove a point, is a hypocrite, is lazy to the point of asking someone to get something for them, when its a mere feet or yards away, takes advantage of enablers, starts completely ignoring someone who is calling them out on their bullshit or trying to get them to address something, when the person is standing nearby talking directly to them, is occasionally condescending when they are either talking out of their ass or making a hypocritical self righteous indignation, makes flimsy excuses for their rude behavior, won't take responsibility for things & blame deflects, uses physical problems as an excuse to not help themselves, despite being able bodied enough to do so, afraid of judgement to the point of detriment to them & others, presents situations in an oversimplified way to make them appear as a bullied innocent victim, when they were not.......I could go on.
Its difficult for me to have very much sympathy for someone who refused to grow the fuck up. This type of shit may be temporarily excusable with someone in their late teens & early 20's, who is just recently heading out on their own, especially if they were sheltered, or someone who was severely sheltered well into adulthood & requires special attention, but not someone who knows better, but refuses to behave like an adult.
Re: The Adult Results of Shit Parenting April 12, 2017 | Registered: 7 years ago Posts: 17 |
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retro lizard
I forgot should mention, I know of someone who needy, insecure, pouts like a petulant six year old, when they don't get their way, makes a sympathy fishing martyr out of themselves, is occasionally selfish, inconsiderate, & ungrateful due to excessive sacrifices they made earlier in life, is chinchy due to immature spending habits, won't handle something important until its a problem, even at the expense of everyone else, says stupid, short sighted things because they have no life & are subsequently out of touch with reality to some extent, adheres to famblee is everything bullshit, even if it encourages dysfunction & had a negative influence on their past problems, is entitlement poisoned, makes thinly veiled quips & jokes that expose their entitlement poisoning, is a slob that expects everyone to clean up after them, has done & does flat out unsanitary things that can cause illness to everyone, refuses to get out & interact with people or get in touch with old friends, rather than expecting relatives to allow them to tag along with outings, like a nagging younger sibling, has done petty, passive aggressive things to try to prove a point, is a hypocrite, is lazy to the point of asking someone to get something for them, when its a mere feet or yards away, takes advantage of enablers, starts completely ignoring someone who is calling them out on their bullshit or trying to get them to address something, when the person is standing nearby talking directly to them, is occasionally condescending when they are either talking out of their ass or making a hypocritical self righteous indignation, makes flimsy excuses for their rude behavior, won't take responsibility for things & blame deflects, uses physical problems as an excuse to not help themselves, despite being able bodied enough to do so, afraid of judgement to the point of detriment to them & others, presents situations in an oversimplified way to make them appear as a bullied innocent victim, when they were not.......I could go on.
Re: The Adult Results of Shit Parenting April 12, 2017 | Registered: 19 years ago Posts: 9,197 |
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I told the higher supervisor, one person had no inductive or deductive reasoning. There literally was no way to teach her anything(that she should've already known on her own anyway) as she retained nothing. It resulted me writing/typing long to-do step by step notes each and every time, because she just wouldn't comply w/ all the necessary tasks.
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No writing skills at all, absolutely no proofreading of their own work. Honestly, one couldn't type a single sentence on a document w/o a typo.
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cf uter
I told the higher supervisor, one person had no inductive or deductive reasoning. There literally was no way to teach her anything(that she should've already known on her own anyway) as she retained nothing. It resulted me writing/typing long to-do step by step notes each and every time, because she just wouldn't comply w/ all the necessary tasks.
Do we have the same employee? There have been many instances where I will have "assisted her," which usually consists of my organizing material while she looks on. I tell her, put it on the intranet so we can all find it later.
Flash forward a couple of weeks later, and one of our customers will ask her a question about this very same issue. So what does this person do? Writes out a long, confusing wall-of-text email.
People like her hate structure because no structure = she can keep doing what she's been doing for years: farting around, not having to think about her job; giving anyone who asks a different answer depending on the day. She retains NOTHING.Quote
No writing skills at all, absolutely no proofreading of their own work. Honestly, one couldn't type a single sentence on a document w/o a typo.
I shit you not, this same person mentioned above, who has finally figured out something is up because I'm "monitoring" her like white on rice, actually wrote me and my boss this email the other day:
I just wanted you to know that I think my communication have improved insignificantly in the past couple of moths."
Re: The Adult Results of Shit Parenting April 13, 2017 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,432 |
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I just wanted you to know that I think my communication have improved insignificantly in the past couple of moths."
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