Not invited to whelping party, but I should send a gift and beg moo for forgiveness

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yummynotmummy
He mentioned that if they had more kids then the teens would have to share a room and they wouldn't like it. Writing on the wall.

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cfuter
He'll likely have to pay for college to the point he can afford. Divorced ppl usually do nowadays. As a college student, you're better off w/ a divorced parent than married parents because the courts don't make regular everyday married parents pay, but most do a working divorced parent and it is part of the Divorce order agreement.

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hana
Moo is hosting the One of Our Own and has become a massive pregzilla. She was a decent person pre inpig, and got along well with her. We met through a hobby club. After she announced the pregnasty, the group went to dinner (dinner scheduled prior to pregnasty announcement) in a popular restaurant on a Friday night. The restaurant was packed and she started yelling that the restaurant was trying to kill the piggo because she didn't get another glass of water the second she emptied it. She also threw a tantrum because all the female diners ordered beer with their dinner. One of the people at the table mentioned being tired since she's doing the job of three people, her job is understaffed and a coworker had a medical emergency 2 weeks before their annual convention. So friend is organizing a 20,000 person convention by herself in addition to her regular job and coworker's job. Of course moo says friend can't be tired because only piggos can be tired, after all she's creating life.

Invites to the royal whelping went out today, and I'm not invited. No big deal since I would decline anyways.

Other friends in hobby club are saying I should send a gift to the party with them and apologize to moo for offending her. Apparently moo is furious with me since I'm not worshiping her. I see no need to apologize or send a gift. I'll be polite to moo and duh at club functions, but I made it clear to a member of the executive board that babystalking is a form of harassment and I will make an on the record harassment complaint if moo babystalks me.

I'm openly childfree and antinatalist, so moo should not be surprised. Duh respects my beliefs, and I suspect he regrets this parasite and his 2 brats from his first marriage.

Whelping party is a week from today, and I won't send a gift. We'll see what happens.

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freya

Back in the mid 2000's I knew someone who had divorced and signed an arrangement to pay child support until the kid graduated college if the kid decided to go to college. At that point, it wasn't as common. And boy, he was bitter about it. Sounds like it is becoming more common to be paying out support until the kid hits 22.

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addiea raine

I wouldn't be so sure of duh not kicking the first set to the curb. Nagzilla will make his life a living Hell while reminding him he has a baby with her and therefore is his true son since they are together now. She will nag him until he spends less and less time with his other kids until they realize he's never coming for them when he says he is. If they visit she will treat them as slaves and if they get anywhere near the "Holy Loaf" they will be shrieked at and told how worthless they are. She will go on tell anyone who will listen how hard it is being a step-mother to kids who are so jealous of their baby brother they actually tried to hurt him.

Bitches like this have found a home on the I.D. Channel.

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freya
Sounds like moo is always pangry (pregnant then permanently angry afterwards). I feel for her kids and everyone who has to be near her because her misery seems desperate for company.