Home
>
The Living Room
>
Topic
Moos always saying no to sex
Posted by ladybug2203
|
Moos always saying no to sex July 24, 2017 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 1,471 |
http://thestir.cafemom.com/love/181040/no_to_sex_touched_out
Look I am in no way saying a womans body is the property of her husband and or that she has no right to say "no" to sex, but this whole saintly moo thing being too good to be intimate with your partnet ever is just ridiculous and I cant help but feel sorry for their husbands. Its like "ok bring home the bacon, shut up and get out of my way for I am MOO"
I can't help but feel like the wallets here are being used for the almighty life script.
So what about parenthood is appealing again?
Look I am in no way saying a womans body is the property of her husband and or that she has no right to say "no" to sex, but this whole saintly moo thing being too good to be intimate with your partnet ever is just ridiculous and I cant help but feel sorry for their husbands. Its like "ok bring home the bacon, shut up and get out of my way for I am MOO"
I can't help but feel like the wallets here are being used for the almighty life script.
So what about parenthood is appealing again?
|
Re: Moos always saying no to sex July 25, 2017 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 3,842 |
know she isn't liked but dr L has always had a take on that.
two cents ¢¢
CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!
people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong
Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children.
The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.
Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.
People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke
Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.
two cents ¢¢
CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!
people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong
Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children.
The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.
Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.
People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke
Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.
|
Re: Moos always saying no to sex July 25, 2017 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 7,756 |
And the paragraph the moo's will skip:
_______________________________________________
“There are three things all wise men fear: the sea in storm, a night with no moon, and the anger of a gentle man.”
Quote
cafemoo
You can't feel desire and arousal if you don't have the time, energy, or privacy for it. But not letting your spouse touch you at all, ever, is not the solution -- not if you want to keep your connection with him. "The longer you go without intimacy with your partner, the harder it becomes for you to find each other again," says Rezaee.
_______________________________________________
“There are three things all wise men fear: the sea in storm, a night with no moon, and the anger of a gentle man.”
|
Re: Moos always saying no to sex July 29, 2017 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 5,621 |
Right you are, thom.
They just want to remove that aspect of themselves, and the thing is that will also remove that aspect of their marriage. That's not healthy. Yes, no one is obligated to "put out" just because their partner's feeling randy, no one should be a sulky bitchy a-hole just because your partner's not in the mood...but you can't just expect your husband to paste on a smile and enjoy involuntary celibacy.
And when combined with the loss of identity that many women seem to allow to happen to themselves once they become parents...well, that's the end of the relationship. No sex, no real connection or identity together as partners and lovers...why stay?
I guess moms like these keep you in business, ladybug2203.
They just want to remove that aspect of themselves, and the thing is that will also remove that aspect of their marriage. That's not healthy. Yes, no one is obligated to "put out" just because their partner's feeling randy, no one should be a sulky bitchy a-hole just because your partner's not in the mood...but you can't just expect your husband to paste on a smile and enjoy involuntary celibacy.
And when combined with the loss of identity that many women seem to allow to happen to themselves once they become parents...well, that's the end of the relationship. No sex, no real connection or identity together as partners and lovers...why stay?
I guess moms like these keep you in business, ladybug2203.
|
Re: Moos always saying no to sex July 29, 2017 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 1,471 |
Quote
randomcfchick
Right you are, thom.
They just want to remove that aspect of themselves, and the thing is that will also remove that aspect of their marriage. That's not healthy. Yes, no one is obligated to "put out" just because their partner's feeling randy, no one should be a sulky bitchy a-hole just because your partner's not in the mood...but you can't just expect your husband to paste on a smile and enjoy involuntary celibacy.
And when combined with the loss of identity that many women seem to allow to happen to themselves once they become parents...well, that's the end of the relationship. No sex, no real connection or identity together as partners and lovers...why stay?
I guess moms like these keep you in business, ladybug2203.
Haha yep! But then again these guys usually have the madonna whore complex, you see unapologetically sexual "sluts" like myself enjoy sex too much therefore we cant possibly be wife material, only virgins or those who had very few partners are "wife material," but then they come crying to the "sluts" like myself "boohoo my pure virginal wifematerial wife wont fuck me anymore" gee ya think pal? U marry a prude and expect a vixen after the marriage certificate is signed?
Oh well, it makes me laugh and keeps me in business. Since I recently turned 30, i got some guys with mommy fantasies coming out of the woodwork, Eugh lol.
In all fairness its not always the moo, the madonna/whore complex is a double edged sword, once their "madonna" wife becomes a mom the man no longer sees her as a sexual being and therefore wont fuck her even if she wants to, so he'll go to whores instead.
Or some of them are just dawgs who like to play the field and had no business getting married to begin with due to their non monogamous nature.
|
Re: Moos always saying no to sex July 31, 2017 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 5,621 |
Hit the nail on the head, ladybug2203. Or should I say nails: madonna/whore complex (from both genders), people who have no business making a monogamous commitment, and general toxicity toward female sexuality.All of those issues together create a cluster-fuck that often pits both halves of a hetero couple against each other, and it keeps our culture fucked up. It also keeps counselors, divorce lawyers, and escorts in business, though.
Oh, and if you throw in any sort of control issues on either side, the sexual cluster-fuck is magnified tenfold. People who want to police or micromanage their partner's sexuality (such as "I don't want to have sex, but if you dare visit Rosy Palm then you're sick and wrong") or who expect their partner to accept endless unilateral celibacy with a smile and no end in sight...yeah, it's messed up.
All of the above is said with the same caveat that no one's expected to put out on command, and that dry spells happen, etc. No one's a machine, but communication and effort are golden.
Oh, and if you throw in any sort of control issues on either side, the sexual cluster-fuck is magnified tenfold. People who want to police or micromanage their partner's sexuality (such as "I don't want to have sex, but if you dare visit Rosy Palm then you're sick and wrong") or who expect their partner to accept endless unilateral celibacy with a smile and no end in sight...yeah, it's messed up.
All of the above is said with the same caveat that no one's expected to put out on command, and that dry spells happen, etc. No one's a machine, but communication and effort are golden.
|
Re: Moos always saying no to sex July 31, 2017 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 7,825 |
|
Re: Moos always saying no to sex July 31, 2017 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 5,621 |
|
Re: Moos always saying no to sex August 01, 2017 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 3,576 |
Quote
randomcfchick
Hit the nail on the head, ladybug2203. Or should I say nails: madonna/whore complex (from both genders), people who have no business making a monogamous commitment, and general toxicity toward female sexuality.All of those issues together create a cluster-fuck that often pits both halves of a hetero couple against each other, and it keeps our culture fucked up. It also keeps counselors, divorce lawyers, and escorts in business, though.
Oh, and if you throw in any sort of control issues on either side, the sexual cluster-fuck is magnified tenfold. People who want to police or micromanage their partner's sexuality (such as "I don't want to have sex, but if you dare visit Rosy Palm then you're sick and wrong") or who expect their partner to accept endless unilateral celibacy with a smile and no end in sight...yeah, it's messed up.
All of the above is said with the same caveat that no one's expected to put out on command, and that dry spells happen, etc. No one's a machine, but communication and effort are golden.
We've discussed on this board how Moos get shafted with the bulk of the cunt work. If Duhs would do some cuntwork, he may get some.
+++++++++++++
Passive Aggressive
Master Of Anti-brat
Excuses!
|
Re: Moos always saying no to sex August 01, 2017 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 5,621 |
Quote
craftyzits
Quote
randomcfchick
Hit the nail on the head, ladybug2203. Or should I say nails: madonna/whore complex (from both genders), people who have no business making a monogamous commitment, and general toxicity toward female sexuality.All of those issues together create a cluster-fuck that often pits both halves of a hetero couple against each other, and it keeps our culture fucked up. It also keeps counselors, divorce lawyers, and escorts in business, though.
Oh, and if you throw in any sort of control issues on either side, the sexual cluster-fuck is magnified tenfold. People who want to police or micromanage their partner's sexuality (such as "I don't want to have sex, but if you dare visit Rosy Palm then you're sick and wrong") or who expect their partner to accept endless unilateral celibacy with a smile and no end in sight...yeah, it's messed up.
All of the above is said with the same caveat that no one's expected to put out on command, and that dry spells happen, etc. No one's a machine, but communication and effort are golden.
We've discussed on this board how Moos get shafted with the bulk of the cunt work. If Duhs would do some cuntwork, he may get some.
This is true. Taking zero initiative or outright avoiding child care tasks is very, very unsexy.
|
Re: Moos always saying no to sex August 01, 2017 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 346 |
I can somewhat relate in the sense that I also avoid intimacy when I've had way more social contact than I can handle. It's not that I don't want it or that I'm no longer attracted to my partner, I just find that it overstimulates me and makes me extremely anxious. If I had my personal space constantly invaded (especially by a kid), I would never want to be touched again either.
This is reason #23483098909 why I'm childfree.
I don't have low self-esteem. That's a mistake. I have low esteem for everyone else.
-Daria
This is reason #23483098909 why I'm childfree.
I don't have low self-esteem. That's a mistake. I have low esteem for everyone else.
-Daria
|
Re: Moos always saying no to sex August 01, 2017 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,708 |
Quote
awesominatrix
I can somewhat relate in the sense that I also avoid intimacy when I've had way more social contact than I can handle. It's not that I don't want it or that I'm no longer attracted to my partner, I just find that it overstimulates me and makes me extremely anxious. If I had my personal space constantly invaded (especially by a kid), I would never want to be touched again either.
This is reason #23483098909 why I'm childfree.
I'm exactly like this too. The mere idea of a kid invading my personal space all the time makes me want to hide.
|
Re: Moos always saying no to sex August 01, 2017 | Registered: 8 years ago Posts: 232 |
But, but, but, I thought that children made you high on oxytocin (the love hormone) all the time so you enjoy constant bonding! Say it isn't so!
Cuddling with a pet also releases oxytocin, but without the awful side-effect of putting one off of romantic encounters. A nap with my kitties followed by sexual congress with my boyfriend is my idea of a perfect Sunday afternoon.
Cuddling with a pet also releases oxytocin, but without the awful side-effect of putting one off of romantic encounters. A nap with my kitties followed by sexual congress with my boyfriend is my idea of a perfect Sunday afternoon.
|
Re: Moos always saying no to sex August 01, 2017 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 7,825 |
When my parrot hugs and kisses me, I definitely feel the bonding. I would rather be hugged and kissed by him, than some germ vector brat.
I also like to hold hands and cuddle with Mr. M6 in bed while we watch TV and eat nighttime snacks.
I live in a house full of lurrrrrvve, I guess.
I forgot to mention that when we were dating, Mr. M6 told me he would never want me to sluice loaves with him because he's selfish and he wants all my love and affection. I guess he didn't figure on the parrot getting a good chunk of it, haha.
I also like to hold hands and cuddle with Mr. M6 in bed while we watch TV and eat nighttime snacks.
I live in a house full of lurrrrrvve, I guess.
I forgot to mention that when we were dating, Mr. M6 told me he would never want me to sluice loaves with him because he's selfish and he wants all my love and affection. I guess he didn't figure on the parrot getting a good chunk of it, haha.
|
Re: Moos always saying no to sex August 02, 2017 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 7,756 |
|
Re: Moos always saying no to sex August 04, 2017 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 5,621 |
Sorry, only registered users may post in this forum.