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potentially interesting articles
January 12, 2018
The first one is just another example of a pregnant woman who just knows her life is rougher than yours:

You brought this on yourself, you know


The second is a longish article about women admitting they regret having kids. I didn't read the whole thing (got about halfway through), but it seems like a fairly dispassionate presentation of the information. The author still refers to CF people as "childless by choice," but does note the 2010 study that found that CF people are happier than breeders.

Was having kids a mistake? Yes, yes it was.
Re: potentially interesting articles
January 14, 2018
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kittehpeoples
The first one is just another example of a pregnant woman who just knows her life is rougher than yours:

You brought this on yourself, you know
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We are exhausted from an illness we didn't choose. We don't have the energy to whine about anything as it was all we can do to make it through the day. During free time we sleep and just try to make it to the store to have groceries or other basic stuff. This pregnant woman is making tons of assumptions about an entire train full of people. How does she know the health of everyone on the train? Appearances can be deceiving and pregnancy is a choice.

From,
sick and in pain and not pregnant
Re: potentially interesting articles
January 15, 2018
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When discussing motherhood, however, Amy deviates from the maternal script: if she could make that choice over again, she says, she wouldn’t. She never wanted children (“I was very independent,” she says)—her husband did. “It would have been a deal-breaker.” Parenthood put an untenable strain on the marriage; her husband wasn’t as involved as she wanted; they separated. Life is difficult, Amy reports: “Our child has two homes and I’m still doing 90 per cent of it on my own.”

It seems like the kid was a deal-breaker after all. It's hard to cure stupidity. At least she stopped with one - most of the people in that article have multiple children. How dumb do you have to be to not really enjoy something and then give it a second, or a third, try?
Re: potentially interesting articles
January 15, 2018
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When discussing motherhood, however, Amy deviates from the maternal script: if she could make that choice over again, she says, she wouldn’t. She never wanted children (“I was very independent,” she says)—her husband did. “It would have been a deal-breaker.” Parenthood put an untenable strain on the marriage; her husband wasn’t as involved as she wanted; they separated. Life is difficult, Amy reports: “Our child has two homes and I’m still doing 90 per cent of it on my own.”

It seems like the kid was a deal-breaker after all. It's hard to cure stupidity. At least she stopped with one - most of the people in that article have multiple children. How dumb do you have to be to not really enjoy something and then give it a second, or a third, try?

Maybe it is the Stockholm Syndrome brain taking over and rotting out the head? I have no other ideas for people who whine about having a kid and then have more.
Re: potentially interesting articles
January 16, 2018
From one of the regretful ones:

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When discussing motherhood, however, Amy deviates from the maternal script: if she could make that choice over again, she says, she wouldn’t. She never wanted children (“I was very independent,” she says)—her husband did. “It would have been a deal-breaker.” Parenthood put an untenable strain on the marriage; her husband wasn’t as involved as she wanted; they separated. Life is difficult, Amy reports: “Our child has two homes and I’m still doing 90 per cent of it on my own.”

Typical WannaBreed Og male: give me an heir, but don't expect me to do any work.

And "it would have been a deal breaker?" Why wasn't his wanting children a deal breaker FOR HER?

Bed. Made. Lie.
Re: potentially interesting articles
January 16, 2018
I never understood this "I never wanted kids, but my spouse did" excuse. Why would someone stay with someone when there is a deal breaker issue on the table and then claim that they are so "independent?"

It is probably the fact that she sold out her independence when she realized the guy had a solid high paying career and suddenly she realized her best bet was to talk herself into the idea that it can't be that bad. Yet she is so "independent"
Re: potentially interesting articles
January 16, 2018
It seems to me that having kids was a deal breaker too. Ogs need to pick a lane and stay in it.
Re: potentially interesting articles
January 17, 2018
I never understand how people can talk themselves in to things like that. For me the thought of pregnancy produces a wave of disgust, especially since reading about fetal cells infecting the brain. Gives me the same kind of shivers that thinking about parasites does. I'm fortunate in that I never had a contraceptive failure prior to sterilization, but I imagine if I had I'd be the one running, not walking, to get an abortion, and freaking out until every last bit was removed. Considering breastfeeding produces a similar but less severe reaction.

I suppose not everyone who doesn't have children finds the thought of pregnancy so inherently disgusting, but if you don't want the end result, how can any physical suffering - especially one which leaves permanent changes - be justified? I don't know anyone who opts to be stricken by disease, for instance. If you don't want a kid, willingly going through pregnancy seems as alien to me as a person voluntarily infecting themselves with malaria. Such a person sounds certifiable.
Re: potentially interesting articles
January 17, 2018
I despise these articles by pregnant women who are so offended at not being given bus or subway seats. I know someone with MS. You'd never know by looking at him that he's as sick as he is, but he suffers from severe fatigue and balance issues. He needs that seat. For all she knows, other passengers are pregnant too---maybe in the early and not visible stages where you have nausea or low blood pressure.
Re: potentially interesting articles
January 19, 2018
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kittehpeoples
The first one is just another example of a pregnant woman who just knows her life is rougher than yours:

You brought this on yourself, you know

People with disabilities don't seek out those disabilities for attention or mindlessly fuck bareback and "accidentally" get one up the duff.

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