Re: Ex-boyfriend contacting me through friend and he's a breeder now! March 29, 2018 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,603 |
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JohnDrake
Not sure what it is with some of these guys. My wife's first boyfriend from high school(she graduated in 1986) contacted her through Facebook sometime back. He had since been married twice and had just gotten out of a 5 year relationship and just wanted to talk. She told him that they could only be friends because she was married. He responded saying he should have married during the time they were together, which bothered me.
She told me about how she met him while working at McDonald's and how she thought he was nice but he only had one thing on his mind and considered her a challenge because she wouldn't put out. After one of the two proms they attended, he tried to force himself on her and she had to punch him to get him to stop. What finally ended it between them was he got another girl pregnant and even though he "took responsibility"(how much responsibility can a teen working at McDonalds take for a baby), she broke it off with him.
He tracked her down a few years later while they were in college and they tried to get back together. He wanted to still date around and she wanted more and of course, he wanted her to put out and she wouldn't. It finally came to an end one night when he hit on her best friend and exposed himself to her. She told him she never wanted to see him again. A couple of years later, he called her parents' home and she wasn't there, and he didn't call her back. That happened again a couple of years later and she told him to leave her alone, and she hadn't heard from him in years until Facebook.
It ended up with him being messaged that she had moved on and was happily married and didn't want to mess that up, as he was obviously looking for more. After that, he unfriended her and hopes this is the last she hears from him.
Re: Ex-boyfriend contacting me through friend and he's a breeder now! March 29, 2018 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,434 |
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JohnDrake
She told him that they could only be friends because she was married.
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JohnDrake
...he tried to force himself on her and she had to punch him to get him to stop...
Re: Ex-boyfriend contacting me through friend and he's a breeder now! April 01, 2018 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,603 |
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JohnDrake
She told him that they could only be friends because she was married.
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JohnDrake
...he tried to force himself on her and she had to punch him to get him to stop...
By the time I read that and everything subsequent, I was thinking no fucking way to any sort of interaction. Friendship is for people who act like friends. There's nothing to be gained from being friendly with an asshole.
Re: Ex-boyfriend contacting me through friend and he's a breeder now! April 01, 2018 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 1,603 |
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mumofsixbirds
Holy crap, JohnDrake! The nerve of him! I'm so glad your wife decided to cut contact from him altogether. I am doing the same thing with my ex, because I don't want any drama in my life. I'm too busy trying to get my schooling done and work on my marriage, and I have no time for him or his antics.
I did, however, find my old BFF from High School on Fakebook. It turns out that she's been trying to find me for several years, but couldn't. It's probably because I didn't start my Fakebook account until after I was married, and I use my married name. She's also CF and loves her furbabies. She's a cat person! We are getting together on Sunday to chat about old times and catch up. She's a really awesome person and I can't wait to see her. We haven't seen each other in over twenty five years.
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