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The fact that he didn't put himself in a position to be oopsied makes me think he knew something about her character...which makes me wonder why he married her and bred with her in the first place. I certainly wouldn't want to be with someone I have to tiptoe around, and keep secrets from.
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I dated a divorced man who had a secret vasectomy. He and his ex agreed that they did not want children and he had it done when she wanted to re-think that decision. A year later, she confessed that she had been trying to oops him and wanted him to see a doctor to see if he was the problem. He saw a lawyer instead.
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The fact that he didn't put himself in a position to be oopsied makes me think he knew something about her character...which makes me wonder why he married her and bred with her in the first place. I certainly wouldn't want to be with someone I have to tiptoe around, and keep secrets from.
Maybe he didn't know, but just wanted to cover his ass.
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The fact that he didn't put himself in a position to be oopsied makes me think he knew something about her character...which makes me wonder why he married her and bred with her in the first place. I certainly wouldn't want to be with someone I have to tiptoe around, and keep secrets from.
Maybe he didn't know, but just wanted to cover his ass.
If he just wanted to cover his ass, he would have said openly, "Well, we had the two children we agreed on, so I've gotten my vasectomy - you don't have to be responsible for birth control."
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The fact that he didn't put himself in a position to be oopsied makes me think he knew something about her character...which makes me wonder why he married her and bred with her in the first place. I certainly wouldn't want to be with someone I have to tiptoe around, and keep secrets from.
Maybe he didn't know, but just wanted to cover his ass.
If he just wanted to cover his ass, he would have said openly, "Well, we had the two children we agreed on, so I've gotten my vasectomy - you don't have to be responsible for birth control."
I get the feeling that she would've felt betrayed and reacted badly no matter when he told her about the op, because she was either planning to oops him anyway or was certain he'd change his mind eventually.
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The fact that he didn't put himself in a position to be oopsied makes me think he knew something about her character...which makes me wonder why he married her and bred with her in the first place. I certainly wouldn't want to be with someone I have to tiptoe around, and keep secrets from.
Maybe he didn't know, but just wanted to cover his ass.
If he just wanted to cover his ass, he would have said openly, "Well, we had the two children we agreed on, so I've gotten my vasectomy - you don't have to be responsible for birth control."
I get the feeling that she would've felt betrayed and reacted badly no matter when he told her about the op, because she was either planning to oops him anyway or was certain he'd change his mind eventually.
Which is my point - he knew something of her character. Which begs the question: why get involved with someone like that to begin with?
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Amazing gall of that woman. This is what happens when society brainwashes about how wonderful kids are. She was so secure in her treachery that she didn't even see it as a betrayal. Good thing he had the foresight to get a vasectomy, and the courage to see how shitty the relationship was once she confessed.
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Which is my point - he knew something of her character. Which begs the question: why get involved with someone like that to begin with?
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In my almost 60 years of living on Earth, at least half of women I've known believe that the male's opinion regarding fatherhood is less important than what the woman thinks. To them "he'll love it once he it gets here," is socially acceptable. When I've heard women talk about wanting another kid and their husband doesn't, the common refrain among other women is, "well, what about what YOU want?" because what the woman wants is somehow more important.
It's horribly sexist and despicable, but it's there.
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I dated a divorced man who had a secret vasectomy. He and his ex agreed that they did not want children and he had it done when she wanted to re-think that decision. A year later, she confessed that she had been trying to oops him and wanted him to see a doctor to see if he was the problem. He saw a lawyer instead.
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Yesterday evening I watched the movie "The Big Lewbowski" It is about this middle aged "dude" who gets caught up in a bunch of kidnapping foolishness and gets mis-identified as a really rich guy with the same name
Anyway he gets to know the guy's daugther and they get into some sort of relationship. At the end they hit the sack and after it is over she is in some weird physical position and admits that "it increases the chances of conception" He is like "what the hell" and then realizes that he is ok with it. The idea was that it was time to grow up and take responsibility and she had every right to use him for sperm and after her oops he became protective of her as the possible carrier of his sprog. So it seems to be everywhere, that an oops is fine and an adult male needs to shape up and be happy about it.
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Yesterday evening I watched the movie "The Big Lewbowski" It is about this middle aged "dude" who gets caught up in a bunch of kidnapping foolishness and gets mis-identified as a really rich guy with the same name
Anyway he gets to know the guy's daugther and they get into some sort of relationship. At the end they hit the sack and after it is over she is in some weird physical position and admits that "it increases the chances of conception" He is like "what the hell" and then realizes that he is ok with it. The idea was that it was time to grow up and take responsibility and she had every right to use him for sperm and after her oops he became protective of her as the possible carrier of his sprog. So it seems to be everywhere, that an oops is fine and an adult male needs to shape up and be happy about it.
I had NO idea that The Big Lewbowski had a story line like that. I've thought I should see it because people have made such a big deal about it being a cult classic and "The Dude" thing and what all, but now NO THANKS. Sounds lame.