And whose fault is that?

Saw a post on a forum (private, can't link to it) where a moo was crying about being so depressed and missing her son so much...he doesn't talk to her since she told him how much she disapproves of him having a series of live-in girlfriends, the most recent of whom has children but has never been married (she didn't use the word "slut," but it was certainly implied). And it just breaks her heart that they don't talk anymore.

Um...maybe let him live his life, and love him unconditionally like parents say they love their kids, and don't be a judgmental cunt? Maybe give up the antiquated notion that sex outside of marriage is evil?

I despise it when people whine about being miserable when it's so clearly something they have absolute control over, yet choose to keep the status quo. You could have your son back, lady. Go do it. Don't want to? Then quit whining.

Actually, It appears that she misses the son she WISHES he was.

While I'm not a prude, I probably wouldnt agree w/ all that collectively if that was my offspring, but I would know that I can't control an adult who doesnt live with me, and I shouldn't try.

perhaps but how many live in gf's has he had? if there are a whole string of them then, imo, he's the problem in that department.

two cents ¢¢

CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children.

The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.

At least he hasn't brought other people into the world that he is hurting, ignoring or being a bad influence upon. I shudder to think what else she doesn't approve of. If only he would live the life she designed for him and not have a mind of his own then everything would be good.

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Saw a post on a forum (private, can't link to it) where a moo was crying about being so depressed and missing her son so much...he doesn't talk to her since she told him how much she disapproves of him having a series of live-in girlfriends, the most recent of whom has children but has never been married (she didn't use the word "slut," but it was certainly implied). And it just breaks her heart that they don't talk anymore.

Um...maybe let him live his life, and love him unconditionally like parents say they love their kids, and don't be a judgmental cunt? Maybe give up the antiquated notion that sex outside of marriage is evil?

Because sex outside marriage is only evil when women do it, or don't you know that?

Mama is unhappy because he's not following the lifescript of getting married, and dutifully producing grandbabies for her. Oh, the horror!