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My boyfriend cheats, physically and emotionally abuses me, does drugs, and drinks n drives with kids in the car. Will he change when our baby is born?

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My boyfriend cheats, physically and emotionally abuses me, does drugs, and drinks n drives with kids in the car. Will he change when our baby is born?
July 16, 2018

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http://babyandbump.momtastic.com/pregnancy-first-trimester/1073537-abusive-boyfriend-so-torn-sad.html

Re: My boyfriend cheats, physically and emotionally abuses me, does drugs, and drinks n drives with kids in the car. Will he change when our baby is born?
July 17, 2018

Registered: 13 years ago
Posts: 7,756

Answer to question; hell no.

Will moo to be leave; hell no.

Will the child pay the price; hell yes.

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Re: My boyfriend cheats, physically and emotionally abuses me, does drugs, and drinks n drives with kids in the car. Will he change when our baby is born?
July 17, 2018

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Posts: 259

It's a 6 year old post. Zeus-willing, the clump fell out.

Re: My boyfriend cheats, physically and emotionally abuses me, does drugs, and drinks n drives with kids in the car. Will he change when our baby is born?
July 17, 2018

Registered: 9 years ago
Posts: 3,708

I was thinking, how old are these kids - the girlfriend and abuser? She is utterly clueless. Then I see where she already has an 18 year old daughter, you've got to be kidding me.

Re: My boyfriend cheats, physically and emotionally abuses me, does drugs, and drinks n drives with kids in the car. Will he change when our baby is born?
July 17, 2018

Registered: 13 years ago
Posts: 7,825

If she even has to ask...you know she's an idiot.

Re: My boyfriend cheats, physically and emotionally abuses me, does drugs, and drinks n drives with kids in the car. Will he change when our baby is born?
July 17, 2018

Registered: 13 years ago
Posts: 12,432

This particular story may be old, but it seems like variations of it pop up time and time again. A pregnant woman will ask for advice concerning an absolute loser of a boyfriend, and when people suggest ending it plus abortion/adoption, she'll defensively claim he has good qualities - even though it is based entirely on her description that people are giving the advice. I wonder why they even bother to ask when they don't really want advice; they can't possibly expect people to validate their views.

And of course they are always pregnant, it seems. Because of course they can't be stupid without dragging someone else into it.

Re: My boyfriend cheats, physically and emotionally abuses me, does drugs, and drinks n drives with kids in the car. Will he change when our baby is born?
July 17, 2018

Registered: 12 years ago
Posts: 1,471

I was in an emotionally abusive relationship that I still have ptsd from.

So on facebook i joined a support group for people who are in and got out of emotionally abusive relationships. Go figure most of them are moos who thought he'd change when loaf came along.

Argh the stupid hurts

Re: My boyfriend cheats, physically and emotionally abuses me, does drugs, and drinks n drives with kids in the car. Will he change when our baby is born?
July 18, 2018

Registered: 13 years ago
Posts: 3,003

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This particular story may be old, but it seems like variations of it pop up time and time again. A pregnant woman will ask for advice concerning an absolute loser of a boyfriend, and when people suggest ending it plus abortion/adoption, she'll defensively claim he has good qualities - even though it is based entirely on her description that people are giving the advice. I wonder why they even bother to ask when they don't really want advice; they can't possibly expect people to validate their views.

And of course they are always pregnant, it seems. Because of course they can't be stupid without dragging someone else into it.

It seems to me that most people asking for advice do so to vent (be heard) about their issues, but do not actually want to do anything even slightly difficult to change their situation.

Re: My boyfriend cheats, physically and emotionally abuses me, does drugs, and drinks n drives with kids in the car. Will he change when our baby is born?
July 18, 2018

Registered: 19 years ago
Posts: 9,196

This ninny has been with the guy for FOUR YEARS. And she had a previous miscarriage and she didn't get out?

And he's been abusive the whole time?

You definitely can't fix stupid.

Re: My boyfriend cheats, physically and emotionally abuses me, does drugs, and drinks n drives with kids in the car. Will he change when our baby is born?
July 18, 2018

Registered: 9 years ago
Posts: 3,708

Wondering what would have happened if instead of encouraging her to leave the advice giver would have told her to stay since she seems to enjoy the drama and obviously the man must have some good qualities not included in her story else why would she stay. Perhaps encourage her to also cheat since she is okay with him doing so and it is clear he isn't going to stop.

Re: My boyfriend cheats, physically and emotionally abuses me, does drugs, and drinks n drives with kids in the car. Will he change when our baby is born?
July 19, 2018

Registered: 8 years ago
Posts: 232

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