Boy, someone is really projecting about all those dern child free with their lack of responsibility. Jealous much?
And unless she is referring to minors I've got news for her. A college student has responsibilities. A young adult has responsibilities. And even the child free take vacations that involve responsibility of all kinds. Welcome to being an adult. As an adult we can choose to forego certain experiences, such as being a parent and it doesn't make us any less responsible.
Ah, the childfree and all those parties parents are convinced we are always going to. Some of us childfree hardly ever go to parties, some are introverts and plenty of parents also party and some do it right in front of their kids.
Just once can someone NOT mention nursing homes and their brats taking care of the child-free? Bitch, that is what my retirement is for. And of course, children to her are always feewturr world leaders, cancer curers or nursing home aides. Would any parent's ultimate ambition really be for their kid to become a CNA?
And no, do not dare compare parenting with deserving as the same consideration as people with disabilities deserve. They didn't willingly birth the disabilities.
Discrimination? Bitch, please. I spend at least 10 of my fertile years fighting the assumption from employers that I would get a job, marry and become pregnant. They didn't want to hire me because of all the rabid breeders.
Overconsumption...really? Because the people I've known with the biggest houses, the most crap, and garages full of shit are pretty much all parents. Oh, they were going to use the shit in the garage that has been sitting in there for 18 mos., untouched? Both my neighbors and myself were parking in our garage within a week or less of moving in and none of us have kids. Another neighbor across the street - no kids and a clean garage with plenty of room for a car. Contrast that with my other two parent neighbors who have lived in their places for over 1 year each and have yet to park a car in their garage. We the childfree aren't the ones buying gifts for brats year round. We don't need to completely replace our clothes and shoes every year or more than that because we aren't growing. We don't have brats whining to us about cell phones and the $500 a month cell phone plan. We don't have to drive an Urban Assault Vehicle that so many parents feel entitled to drive. Other than my tiny kitchen that lacks a pantry and adequate cabinet space, my place is devoid of clutter.
Also, eating out for the childfree tends to be more of a treat and isn't necessary for our sanity. Our food budgets are smaller.
Claiming parents deserve to have it all because it is the decent thing to do. No bitch, just like any other mere mortal if there is an expense you need to save for it rather than encouraging favoritism because of your lifestyle choices. The choices are money, time or kids. Choose two only, unless you've won the lottery. And when you're younger you may not have any of the three. No one, including the childfree, can have it all.
Some of us want to solve the unwanted kids problem by making abortion socially acceptable so that women who do not want babies aren't shamed into a choice they will regret. We would love for every child on earth to be wanted and loved. Despite what the movies and popular culture love to preach about (impossibly handsome) knights (with no shortcomings or personality defects) in shining armor who want to bail out breeders and move them into his mansion are STORIES. The reality is a mother who doesn't want a child is much more likely to end badly for both the mother and child. And plenty of kids fully know they are unwanted, their parents tell them this or put them up for adoption.
I think this moo is in the group of women who bought the fairy tale and was just clever enough to wake up one day and realize it is a life of drudgery and is now bitter. She probably didn't have an inkling that she would have endless housework every single day. Obviously she is jealous of child free millennials and seems threatened that so many are making the choice to be child free. It was tough to be forced to be a part-time parent as a 7 year old but at least it opened my eyes at a young age to the reality that parenting wasn't for me.