My single duh'd colleague cannot have women (or anyone) over his house because his adult daughter wont let him October 25, 2018 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 1,471 |
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ladybug2203
Hes just a friend. Hes not my boyfriend and never will be.
I keep him at arms length and my expectations super low, i just cant help but pat my tubal scar and say "Thatll never be me"
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Re: My single duh'd colleague cannot have women (or anyone) over his house because his adult daughter wont let him October 28, 2018 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 2,701 |
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ladybug2203
It is the same guy. Like i said hes a friend/colleague, but i did not want to annoy the members here by bringing up my profession again.
We have had sex before but i no longer do it on a personal level with him, only professional if we get a client request.......
Re: My single duh'd colleague cannot have women (or anyone) over his house because his adult daughter wont let him October 28, 2018 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 1,471 |
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ladybug2203
It is the same guy. Like i said hes a friend/colleague, but i did not want to annoy the members here by bringing up my profession again.
We have had sex before but i no longer do it on a personal level with him, only professional if we get a client request.......
You just did....again.
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Re: My single duh'd colleague cannot have women (or anyone) over his house because his adult daughter wont let him October 28, 2018 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 1,471 |
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bell_flower
"He said he had an ex gf over the house 2 yrs ago she moved out to her aunts house and wouldnt speak to him for 6 months, it crushed him because shes his only family. He admits that hes spoiled her because her mother wasnt around (alcoholic) and shes deaf (but she acts more like an autard honestly). And he says hes held off on dating because of her (hes just a friend im not looking to date him for obvious reasons, but i think this whole situation is insane)."
Something here is very wrong. I revisited the old thread and read this one, and I'm going to go out on a limb and say that I think this guy could be having a sexual relationship with his daughter. It's not out of the realm of possibility and it does happen.
It's not unusual for people with sexual compulsions/addictions to see their kids as fair game.
Re: My single duh'd colleague cannot have women (or anyone) over his house because his adult daughter wont let him October 29, 2018 | Registered: 5 years ago Posts: 132 |
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bell_flower
Something here is very wrong. I revisited the old thread and read this one, and I'm going to go out on a limb and say that I think this guy could be having a sexual relationship with his daughter. It's not out of the realm of possibility and it does happen.
It's not unusual for people with sexual compulsions/addictions to see their kids as fair game.
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bell_flower
Something here is very wrong. I revisited the old thread and read this one, and I'm going to go out on a limb and say that I think this guy could be having a sexual relationship with his daughter. It's not out of the realm of possibility and it does happen.
It's not unusual for people with sexual compulsions/addictions to see their kids as fair game.
If the daughter is 24, decent looking, and choosing to live and leech of her biological Dad and harass him for fun instead of an finding an easily attainable boyfriend with more money....she probably has some Daddy issues. Could be trying to pay him back for something she think he did wrong to her while she was growing up
I thought the same thing
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ladybug2203
He then asked me the kicker why i dont want kids and i said "because i dont want to be a prisoner in my own home" he shut up real fast.
Nice comeback!
I agree with you, she sounds damaged beyond "she's deaf." You're right to keep him at arm's length....
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ladybug2203
He then asked me the kicker why i dont want kids and i said "because i dont want to be a prisoner in my own home" he shut up real fast.
Nice comeback!
I agree with you, she sounds damaged beyond "she's deaf." You're right to keep him at arm's length....
Re: My single duh'd colleague cannot have women (or anyone) over his house because his adult daughter wont let him November 09, 2018 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 2,364 |
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ladybug2203
Thanks. I should say i dont wanna be a prisoner in my own home....again (as many on here know i have a very low functioning autistic sister with violent tendencies). Im still traumatized by it . While his daughter is not physically violent (that i am aware of), i fully know what its like to be a prisoner in your own home.
Last time he was complaining about his prediciment(i.e. he wants to date again but has held off because of his daughter) i told him "before you date or see anyone, you should be 110% at peace for letting the chips fall where they may with your daughter and not resent the poor woman you end up seeing if your daughter moves out" he then threw in the "you're not a parent you dont understand" i said " since im not a parent and dont understand, then i guess its safe to assume you will no longer be complaining about your prediciment to me.