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The donated sperm had come from Northwest Cryobank, which offers donors anonymity, but Teuscher said the apparent relative she found on 23andMe listed themselves as open to messaging.
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"Devastating. I mean ... I was shocked, I was crying for days, I could barely eat," Teuscher said. "I felt embarrassed almost. Here I thought I was doing this thing I thought was in the best interest of my daughter ... And then it just came back on me in just such a harsh way that made me feel like I did something terrible, like I was a criminal."
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"My daughter is an actual living, breathing, feeling human being who did not sign that contract," Teuscher said.
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But Teuscher said with the loss of her vials, the promise of more children could be ended for her.
"They literally took my babies. My future babies," she said.
Re: Woman sent C&D after trying to track down sperm donor online February 05, 2019 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 3,842 |
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And then it just came back on me in just such a harsh way that made me feel like I did something terrible, like I was a criminal.
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"They literally took my babies. My future babies," she said.
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"Devastating. I mean ... I was shocked, I was crying for days, I could barely eat," Teuscher said. "I felt embarrassed almost. Here I thought I was doing this thing I thought was in the best interest of my daughter ... And then it just came back on me in just such a harsh way that made me feel like I did something terrible, like I was a criminal."
Oh shut the fuck up, Moo. The 23&Me testing was fine to do and would have given you some information, but your efforts to learn more needed to stop there. Instead, you chose to violate your contract with the sperm bank by trying to contact your anonymous donor and his family. You did do something terrible and your attempts to contact this man could seriously fuck with his life. If he wanted to be contacted about children conceived with his sperm, he wouldn't have donated - he would have had kids with women he knew.
No it wouldn't. She can buy other sperm or she can get knocked up the old-fashioned way. The promise of more children that will be full biological siblings to her current one is ended for her, but hey, she proved she couldn't be trusted to not bug the donor of her first child, so the bank wasn't giving her the chance to do it again. They did not "literally take my future babies" - she violated her contract and they simply took back what was theirs because she can't be trusted to not contact the donor's relatives again.
My guess is having a kid is much more expensive than she thought and now she wants her sperm donor to pony up. Considering how much a lawsuit could cost her, she'd be smart to knock this shit off now and understand that she's not getting a cent out of the donor.
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I was gonna post this story also. I would never do these ancestry tests in a million years. I don't want to find "missing' people by accident. I dont need a long lost sister because maybe my dad impregnated someone and the girl never told him. I dont need to find out me and a serial killer have the same DNA.