Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 09, 2020 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,959 |
Dealing with Duhs who inhale all the food, and Moos discuss having to scarf it immediately just to have some or buying things/flavors they know their man-babies don't like to ensure it doesn't get horfed. Plenty of people suggesting Duh has an eating disorder. Yeah no, last I checked, being a selfish fucking pig isn't an eating disorder. Some even suggest hiding food or putting locks on the cupboards/pantry. An adult should not have to literally keep food under lock and key to prevent another adult from eating it.
This sounds like shit little kids and college students do. Where to they find these men? Like do they filter dating site results by the ones marked "asshole" or something? I know there are decent and half-decent men out there, so where the fuck do these morons find all these selfish pricks?
https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/ka3r66/i_guess_no_one_else_wanted_any/
Yeah good luck with your little plan, Moo. You quit buying or preparing your bipedal garbage disposal food and he's just going to scarf your shit instead, most likely with much complaining because you buy things he hates, but he "had to" eat it because he was "starving." I don't know why they think anything will change these bad habits. Maybe they should send their men to obedience schools to learn manners or something. Have Cesar Milan come over and pinch their ears when they act up.
This sounds like shit little kids and college students do. Where to they find these men? Like do they filter dating site results by the ones marked "asshole" or something? I know there are decent and half-decent men out there, so where the fuck do these morons find all these selfish pricks?
https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/ka3r66/i_guess_no_one_else_wanted_any/
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Last week, he ate an entire box of Oreos. I wanted some and couldn’t find them so I asked and that’s when he told me he and toddler ate them all. I know my toddler didn’t eat more than 6. I didn’t even have one. I confronted him, he said a half assed sorry.
3 days ago, I found out he ate all the grapes I bought for toddler. Today, I found out he ate (nearly) an entire box of corndogs. I made 5 out of the box when I bought them last week, 2 for me, 2 for him and one for toddler. Today, I went to make toddler one and they’re all gone. There were 11 left.
I confronted him and pretty much went off. He basically acted like I wasn’t even talking. Didnt apologize or say he’d replace it. I asked “If there are 11 corndogs and you eat 3, there are 8 left. The next time you go to make corndogs, you see there’s still 8 left. You eat 3 more and there’s 5 left. You see where I’m going? Why would you think it’s okay to eat every single one knowing nobody else has eaten any?” He didn’t respond.
This happens all the time and I’m sick of it. Everyday, I find something else has been eaten completely.
No regard to anyone else. No consideration. Not even a simple “hey, who did you buy this for/will this be okay?”
If I want some of what I buy, I’ll have to eat it immediately so that I can at least enjoy a bit of it before it gets inhaled. Even if I’m not hungry. I grew up with 3 brothers and food used to disappear all the time. Food I bought for or made for myself would get eaten by someone else. It’s incredibly selfish and now I’m living with this man who does the same thing.
The food I buy for toddler (like frozen blueberry waffles, breakfast burritos, French toast bites, yogurt), my husband doesn’t like so he won’t eat. But if he liked those things, he’d eat them all despite them being for toddler.
I do the grocery shopping, so I told him I’m done buying him food. He can go to the store and buy his own. I also told him I’m done cooking for him, that he needs to cook for himself and clean up after himself, that I will throw away anything that is not where it belongs, that toddler is the only one allowed to be messy. Then I sent him a text with all those things, dated it, and wrote my name.
I will become a monstrous bitch. I’m fucking sick of this asshole.
Yeah good luck with your little plan, Moo. You quit buying or preparing your bipedal garbage disposal food and he's just going to scarf your shit instead, most likely with much complaining because you buy things he hates, but he "had to" eat it because he was "starving." I don't know why they think anything will change these bad habits. Maybe they should send their men to obedience schools to learn manners or something. Have Cesar Milan come over and pinch their ears when they act up.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 09, 2020 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,708 |
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I also love how the preferred suggestion on that sub for dealing with uninvolved Duhs is to ditch the kids with them for an entire day while Moo goes out and does stuff. It's supposed to teach them a lesson about how much work Moo does dealing with their brats in the hopes of forcing them to do more of their share of the brat minding. On paper that sounds great, but I think all it's going to do is show them how much brat care truly sucks balls and they'll go out of their way to avoid it even more.
This is so naive. I can see a brand new moo thinking this.
The few times womben do this it never works out as they want (just like their marriages and brats). The duh sits around and zones the brats out, doesn't do any housework and may manage to feed the brats whatever he can find (hand them a box of cereal or chips or if he is feeling particularly ambitious-order a pizza). He likely passes out. Moo comes home, the house is in disarray, the kids are covered with food, if there is a dog it is likely going nuts and the duh is passed out. The duhs who do this have one standard: feed the brats anything edible at least once a day. If she wakes him up to make sure he learned his lesson it isn't going to register to him.
Moos deserve days where they can ditch the kids with the duhs for the day. They shouldn't have to be up to their eyeballs in frustration before they ditch for a day because the misery should be shared by both responsible parties in the first place. Moos and duhs both need time away from the brats. The issue is when moos expect to come home to a miracle or for the duhs to have an epiphany.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 10, 2020 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,959 |
Just a wall of text from Moos who hate their kids. As you can see, what we're missing out on is a life of endless screaming, crying and arguing, both in terms of giving and receiving and punctuated with very brief moments of allegedly worthwhile joy. If I wanted to spend entire days screaming at people, I'd become a drill sergeant so then at least I'd get paid for it.
Some gems in this shitshow include a Moo who screamed so hard at her kids that she injured her jaw, and another who angrily clenched her teeth so hard that she broke a tooth. I don't care what any of them say, I know none of these little wankstains and their occasional cuddles are worth all that anger and stress.I have never for one second bought it when Moos go on and on about how much they hate their kids and themselves and their lives and would never have kids in retrospect... but oh they just lurrrrrrve their baybees. BULLSHIT.
Searching for jealousy.exe...
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https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/k9vqau/i_hate_my_child/
Some gems in this shitshow include a Moo who screamed so hard at her kids that she injured her jaw, and another who angrily clenched her teeth so hard that she broke a tooth. I don't care what any of them say, I know none of these little wankstains and their occasional cuddles are worth all that anger and stress.I have never for one second bought it when Moos go on and on about how much they hate their kids and themselves and their lives and would never have kids in retrospect... but oh they just lurrrrrrve their baybees. BULLSHIT.
Searching for jealousy.exe...
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https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/k9vqau/i_hate_my_child/
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 10, 2020 | Registered: 19 years ago Posts: 9,195 |
The one who posted about the bingeing Dad has another post on Reddit about Thanksgiving Day. She is married to a royal turd.
Doesn't it make you wonder how/why they got together and GOT MARRIED and HAD A KID. I am SUPER curious how old these people are. These women sound like they married overgrown frat boys, or perhaps men who went right from a kiss-kid-ass fambily that kept these "men" in a perpetual state of infancy with Mommy picking up after the man, getting food, smoothing out all of life's problems so these "men" don't ever have to GROW UP and be a functioning member of a household.
I'm starting to think all these fools on Reddit shouldn't have got married until they were at least 30 because it appears none of them gets any training in how to be an adult in their families of origin.
And check this one out:
This person has two kids with two baby daddies--how does this even happen?
Doesn't it make you wonder how/why they got together and GOT MARRIED and HAD A KID. I am SUPER curious how old these people are. These women sound like they married overgrown frat boys, or perhaps men who went right from a kiss-kid-ass fambily that kept these "men" in a perpetual state of infancy with Mommy picking up after the man, getting food, smoothing out all of life's problems so these "men" don't ever have to GROW UP and be a functioning member of a household.
I'm starting to think all these fools on Reddit shouldn't have got married until they were at least 30 because it appears none of them gets any training in how to be an adult in their families of origin.
And check this one out:
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I keep saying it. When I’m changing double nappies and my toddler is shouting POOP YUCKTCH MUMMYYYYY and the newborn is screaming. I keep saying it and I’ll say it again. I don’t even fucking LIKE kids man. I was solidly child free and suddenly I’ve got two turds following me around. You can’t reason with them they’re literally the devil incarnate.
This person has two kids with two baby daddies--how does this even happen?
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 10, 2020 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,708 |
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https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/k9vqau/i_hate_my_child/
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Original moo
I'm so overwhelmed. I really hate her at the moment. She threw all her lunch on the floor. I hate my life
Take brat outside for every meal. Tell brat if it insists on acting like an animal it will be treated like one. If brat throws food on the ground tell brat the meal is done. Go inside. Continue until this nonsense stops. Problem solved.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 10, 2020 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,959 |
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This is so naive. I can see a brand new moo thinking this.
The few times womben do this it never works out as they want (just like their marriages and brats). The duh sits around and zones the brats out, doesn't do any housework and may manage to feed the brats whatever he can find (hand them a box of cereal or chips or if he is feeling particularly ambitious-order a pizza). He likely passes out. Moo comes home, the house is in disarray, the kids are covered with food, if there is a dog it is likely going nuts and the duh is passed out. The duhs who do this have one standard: feed the brats anything edible at least once a day. If she wakes him up to make sure he learned his lesson it isn't going to register to him.
Moos deserve days where they can ditch the kids with the duhs for the day. They shouldn't have to be up to their eyeballs in frustration before they ditch for a day because the misery should be shared by both responsible parties in the first place. Moos and duhs both need time away from the brats. The issue is when moos expect to come home to a miracle or for the duhs to have an epiphany.
Yep, and then they throw huge shitfits and act completely shocked and offended that their useless spouses continue to not be parents even in Moo's absence. Not saying the Moos don't need breaks because they do, but foisting brats onto unwilling men will not magically make them responsible - Duhs will happily stay sat on their asses dinking around with their phones of video games while the kids destroy the entire house.
Then the Moos whine about how leaving all domestic duties to the man of the house all day results in chores that don't get done as well as several additional chores from shit getting fucked up that wouldn't normally, kids who are hyper as fuck from Duh letting them gorge on soda and snacks all day and night with zero discipline or structure, any and all routines the brats were following (bedtime, bath, toilet, reading, homework, etc.) are completely fucked and Moo will need a week or two to retrain them, stuff will be broken or messy, the brats will be filthy and probably injured, and there will be massive tantrums when Moo comes back home and attempts to regain control after it was romper room all fucking day.
So there is usually hell to pay for sticking Duh with brat duty because most of these men are infants themselves.
I love the ones who say they never wanted kids, but wound up with them. Like this screaming brat just manifested out of thin air one day in their home.
There are plenty of ways to prevent parenthood and the only reason any woman has a litter of bastards following her around is because she chose it. Birth control, abstinence, abortion and adoption are all viable options, so if you go home with a living breathing child in your arms, it is because you wanted to bring it home.
A lot of these asshole men are likely momma's boys - they were only children or the only male children in the family and Mommy doted on them like fucking royalty, so now that they're married, they think this person with a vagina who lives with them will now take over mommy's duties of smooching their asses, waiting on them hand and foot and not allowing them to lift a finger for any reason.
If these men are so completely uninterested in domestic life, why do they even get married and breed? A lot of the men these Moos describe are complete assholes who clearly have no interest in being husbands or fathers, so why do either of them get involved romantically in the first place? If they want a woman to dote on them like little princes, why don't they stay home with their own mommies?
I can only assume their mothers won't allow them to live at home forever or they can't get their own mums to blow/fuck them, so they have to go put and find a new set of tits to deal with them and there are plenty of women with no self-esteem or self-respect out there who will marry any man that so much as gives them a glance.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 10, 2020 | Registered: 3 years ago Posts: 201 |
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Original moo
I'm so overwhelmed. I really hate her at the moment. She threw all her lunch on the floor. I hate my life
Take brat outside for every meal. Tell brat if it insists on acting like an animal it will be treated like one. If brat throws food on the ground tell brat the meal is done. Go inside. Continue until this nonsense stops. Problem solved.
Or let the little shit eat off the floor.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 11, 2020 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,959 |
Moo comes out and says she doesn't like her little awtard brat at all that apparently does not respond to tard pills (assuming it even takes them because getting meds into tards is damn near impossible), regrets ever having it, wishes she could make her disappear or wished she would have aborted.
Can't say I blame her, I wouldn't want the little cunt in my life either because the kid's an unholy terror. But if she is truly still so against being a parent at this point, why can adoption not legitimately be considered? What favors will it do for the kid to be raised by someone who doesn't want her and hates her guts? Or will an agency not accept a tard?
Of course she's getting ALL the udder rubs and "oh you poor thing" left and right. Funny how mommies can shout from the rooftops how much they hate their kids and they get nothing but sympathy, but if the father of those kids did the same shit, they'd get drawn and quartered by angry Moos who feel the exact same way. So why is a mother's hatred of her own brat justified and acceptable, but a man who hates his kids is a monster?
Also, the $64,000 question: is the brat legitimately an awtard, or is it just another case of parenting so inept that the child's awful behavior is mistaken for a mental disorder? Given both the Moo's and Duh's mutual disinterest in being parents, I'd wager the kid is in need of nothing more than a good ass beating.
https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/kb0rvp/the_regret_just_keeps_getting_worse_and_worsei/
Can't say I blame her, I wouldn't want the little cunt in my life either because the kid's an unholy terror. But if she is truly still so against being a parent at this point, why can adoption not legitimately be considered? What favors will it do for the kid to be raised by someone who doesn't want her and hates her guts? Or will an agency not accept a tard?
Of course she's getting ALL the udder rubs and "oh you poor thing" left and right. Funny how mommies can shout from the rooftops how much they hate their kids and they get nothing but sympathy, but if the father of those kids did the same shit, they'd get drawn and quartered by angry Moos who feel the exact same way. So why is a mother's hatred of her own brat justified and acceptable, but a man who hates his kids is a monster?
Also, the $64,000 question: is the brat legitimately an awtard, or is it just another case of parenting so inept that the child's awful behavior is mistaken for a mental disorder? Given both the Moo's and Duh's mutual disinterest in being parents, I'd wager the kid is in need of nothing more than a good ass beating.
https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/kb0rvp/the_regret_just_keeps_getting_worse_and_worsei/
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It didn't take me long to regret having a baby. Like many, I really underestimated the magnitude of what I was getting into, and didn't realise I would lose all my freedom and my identity to the rest of the world would basically become "[daughter]'s mom". I also didn't realise that my partner wasn't as committed as he promised he would be when it came to being an equal parent. I soon realised he expected me to carry the majority of the mental load of parenthood, and it was horrible. I was the one expected to make the majority of the sacrifices.
To make it worse, my daughter was a colic baby who screamed the house down whenever she was awake. I slept so little during her first 2 years that there were moments I was scared I would die from sleep deprivation, and no one ever wanted to babysit her because she was such a screamer. She was also a difficult toddler. it felt like everyone around me was having magical Kodak moments while I was trapped in a proverbial prison. A lot of people confessed to me that it is normal to regret the baby at first, and assured me that it would get better. It was always "don't worry, she will soon sleep through the night, you'll be able to leave her with the grandparents".
Well.
My child is now 6, has severe ADHD and is a fucking nightmare child. I have that kid. I have the 6 year old who still bites, the 6 year old who ignores you when you tell her not to do something, the 6 year old fucking obsessed with attention, the obnoxious 6 year old. I love her in that way I am biologically programmed to love her because she came out of my vagina, but I don't like her at all. I would go as far to say that i genuinely can't stand her and if there was some way that I could snap my fingers and make her not exist, I'd do it. I don't like her and my regret about ever having her just grows by the day. She has ripped my marriage to pieces, because raising her has been so stressful. We are spending so much money taking her to specialists to try and get a solution because she doesn't respond to medication and there is always a big out of pocket fee. I had to ruin my career because she got kicked out of two day care centres because she was so difficult, and the school she is in right now doesn't want her back. She's been asked to leave numerous extra curricular activities because she can't fucking follow directions and refrain from biting other kids and being a little shit.
There is no reward in parenting her at all, just suffering and misery. I can't do any of the nice things I always wanted to do with my child. All the things I envisioned doing with a child can't be done without her ruining them with her behaviour. i can't take her anywhere because she still has meltdowns like a toddler and I am embarrassed being "that mom who can't control her child". I find it hard to make mom friends because everyone judges me because my kid is such a little shit. No one can bring themelves to force their kid to play with my little shit of a kid.
A few weeks ago, I got a facebook memories showing how happy we were at her gender reveal. My husband and I haven't been happy since she was born. I truly regret having her. If I had any idea it would be like this, I would have aborted the pregnancy. I don't like her at all. I wish I could control+z her out of existence. I don't want her anymore, but I'm stuck with her. I made my bed and I have to lie in it and it's hell. I'm living in hell. At least when she was a baby, no one thought I was a crap mom because it was acceptable. Now I'm just the useless mom who can't control her brat. I resent her so much. Shit sucks.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 11, 2020 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,959 |
How's about another? Moo is whining about how she can't handle her asshole 4-year-old who refuses to listen to a word she moos, so of course she's also got a toadler and is pregnant too because aren't they always pregnant again when they can't even raise the first mistake properly?
Moo, ya got two hands and unless they're broken, USE THEM. The kid wants to be a shit, give him five across the mouth. He'll cry and scream, but I bet he quits misbehaving. Why are these women so scared to use discipline? She doesn't even have to hit him in public - beat his ass good and hard when he's a shit at home and when he knows what consequences he'll face for his behavior, all you have to do is tell him "just wait until we get home" to strike enough fear into his little ass to make him knock it off.
https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/kax113/are_4_year_olds_supposed_to_be_so_fucking_hard/
Moo, ya got two hands and unless they're broken, USE THEM. The kid wants to be a shit, give him five across the mouth. He'll cry and scream, but I bet he quits misbehaving. Why are these women so scared to use discipline? She doesn't even have to hit him in public - beat his ass good and hard when he's a shit at home and when he knows what consequences he'll face for his behavior, all you have to do is tell him "just wait until we get home" to strike enough fear into his little ass to make him knock it off.
https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/kax113/are_4_year_olds_supposed_to_be_so_fucking_hard/
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My 4 year old son is being an asshole. He listens to NOTHING I say ever, he just does what he wants and acts surprised when he gets in trouble. I take him out for christmas shopping and this little shit touches everything in the fucking store after I repeatedly tell him to stop, he runs in front of people with big heavy trolleys full of stuff and he doesn't care. Literally no spatial awareness. He pulled my skirt up in front of all these people and they all saw my white pasty asscheeks. Of course I lost my patience and got flustered but that gets me looked at and people start whispering and giving me dirty looks. Like seriously? Fuck off.
He has acted this way for months. He doesn't listen until I'm yelling and then its just a cycle of bad feelings. How am I supposed to teach him or help him make good decisions if he 1. Doesn't listen when I try to talk to him or 2. Doesn't fucking care? I'm 33 weeks pregnant, have an 18 month old as well and then this little hellion is running around like a crack head. Is it me? It feels like it. Nothing I do works. I'd have better luck headbutting a wall than trying to tell him why he can't do something or why he's in trouble. What am I supposed to do?
Just needed to get it out.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 12, 2020 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 12,431 |
Yet another winner of a duh, and a moo who seems to have no discernment whatsoever when it comes to picking a partner: moo is away at work for 9 hours and gets back to find duh never changed the baby's diaper because he was too busy playing video games. Even though she got voted not the asshole for getting angry at duh, plenty of people criticized her choices and said if she ever leaves the baby alone with him again, she's also guilty of child abuse.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 13, 2020 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,959 |
Don't they make diapers now that can be worn for 12 straight hours? Maybe Moo ought to invest in those because she sure can't rely on Duh to put the loaf in a clean shitrag. Or maybe she ought to teach the older kid to do it because, again, numero uno in Daddy's life is obviously video games. And of course Duh's Moo is taking his side, saying Moo gave him too much to handle. Moo married a momma's boy, he's never gonna change.
And if this proud papa bear couldn't be arsed to change his brat, you know he didn't feed it either. So the kid went nine hours without food or drink marinating in its own filth. Poor kid was probably crying out of hunger and discomfort from a loaded diaper (and possibly pain from diaper rash) and he just carried on happily ignoring her. Honestly, how do these women NOT notice this behavior prior to marriage and breeding? I can only assume the guy is hung like a horse or eats pussy like a champ for her to keep him around this long.
Yeah he didn't "forget" them, honeybunch - he intentionally ignored them in favor of video games. He gives no fucks about his brats or his wife, but what baffles me is why he got defensive when Moo said she would get someone else to deal with the kids and he refused. If he wasn't planning on doing shit, why'd he turn down help? My guess is because it was the Moo's mother who she was asking for help - if it was his mommy, he would have no issue at all neglecting his kids in front of her because she's clearly in her bouncing baby boy's corner, but Moo-in-law might give him hell for it.
And if this proud papa bear couldn't be arsed to change his brat, you know he didn't feed it either. So the kid went nine hours without food or drink marinating in its own filth. Poor kid was probably crying out of hunger and discomfort from a loaded diaper (and possibly pain from diaper rash) and he just carried on happily ignoring her. Honestly, how do these women NOT notice this behavior prior to marriage and breeding? I can only assume the guy is hung like a horse or eats pussy like a champ for her to keep him around this long.
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AITA Moo
I was livid kept yelling at him for being neglectful and reckless and literally forgetting about his own kids over a game.
Yeah he didn't "forget" them, honeybunch - he intentionally ignored them in favor of video games. He gives no fucks about his brats or his wife, but what baffles me is why he got defensive when Moo said she would get someone else to deal with the kids and he refused. If he wasn't planning on doing shit, why'd he turn down help? My guess is because it was the Moo's mother who she was asking for help - if it was his mommy, he would have no issue at all neglecting his kids in front of her because she's clearly in her bouncing baby boy's corner, but Moo-in-law might give him hell for it.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 13, 2020 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,708 |
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Dealing with Duhs who inhale all the food, and Moos discuss having to scarf it immediately just to have some or buying things/flavors they know their man-babies don't like to ensure it doesn't get horfed. Plenty of people suggesting Duh has an eating disorder. Yeah no, last I checked, being a selfish fucking pig isn't an eating disorder. Some even suggest hiding food or putting locks on the cupboards/pantry. An adult should not have to literally keep food under lock and key to prevent another adult from eating it.
He may have serious issues with impulse control. I had an ex who couldn't fathom that I had ingredients in my kitchen for later use. To him, everything was to be consumed right away. His eyes popped out of his head the first time he saw my kitchen (I have no pantry so I have pantry items on an exposed shelving unit). He assumed everything was consumed each week. At the time, I canned and had a year's supply of some canned goods. I think it would be a total PIA to have to buy every single item I need each time I shop. It isn't as if you can buy 1/2 cup a flour anyways. He said if he had the food I did he would consume it all immediately.
If I were her I'd take out an insurance policy on him. He is her husband and his life expectancy with his habits is questionable.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 14, 2020 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,708 |
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Don't they make diapers now that can be worn for 12 straight hours? Maybe Moo ought to invest in those because she sure can't rely on Duh to put the loaf in a clean shitrag. Or maybe she ought to teach the older kid to do it because, again, numero uno in Daddy's life is obviously video games. And of course Duh's Moo is taking his side, saying Moo gave him too much to handle. Moo married a momma's boy, he's never gonna change.
If moo accepted this reality prior to marriage she wouldn't be in this situation.
Momma's boys can do no wrong in their moo's eyes.
Moo is going to figure this out the long and painful way. Duh will run back to momma long before he will take responsibility for his brats.
If duh can't bother himself to check/change his baybee's diaper every three hours than he needs to leave. Twelve hours without a diaper change is neglect. Moo needs to separate before she is also accused of neglect.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 15, 2020 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,959 |
Moo is butthurt that her husband refuses to have more kids after the first (and only) one is a horrid pisspot and Duh will only get on board with making another brat if there is a guarantee that it won't be another little shit like the first one. Obviously there is no way to make that kind of a promise, so he says no while Moo wants 1-2 more.
Duh better keep his cock out of his heifer if he really doesn't want another potential demonspawn because I'm sure Moo will justify having another brat more and more and will oops him when she inevitably succumbs to baby rabies. Place your bets, place your bets! Other Moos chime in saying that their second brats were much easier than their first ones, tossing fuel on the pro-babby fire.
Why the fuck would you want another child when your first one turned out fucking horrible and you resent them for it? Why take that risk? Lightning can strike twice in the same place, dumbass. Mark my words, she'll get herself up the duff soon enough because she'll want to try for a normal child in order to achieve her dream family and shove the asshole brat behind the couch.
https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/kdfkex/my_husband_refuses_to_have_a_second_kid_because/
Duh better keep his cock out of his heifer if he really doesn't want another potential demonspawn because I'm sure Moo will justify having another brat more and more and will oops him when she inevitably succumbs to baby rabies. Place your bets, place your bets! Other Moos chime in saying that their second brats were much easier than their first ones, tossing fuel on the pro-babby fire.
Why the fuck would you want another child when your first one turned out fucking horrible and you resent them for it? Why take that risk? Lightning can strike twice in the same place, dumbass. Mark my words, she'll get herself up the duff soon enough because she'll want to try for a normal child in order to achieve her dream family and shove the asshole brat behind the couch.
https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/kdfkex/my_husband_refuses_to_have_a_second_kid_because/
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I'm heartbroken. On top of this - I'm having some extreme resentment towards my daughter, and I hate myself for it.
My daughter has pretty much been extremely difficult from birth. Colic from day 1. I'm talking non-stop crying. Ear piercing shrieks. Day in an day out. Now that she's a toddler - she is still a demon. She is "that kid". She talks back, has so many tantrums, gets kicked out of daycare..... all that stuff. My husband has some pretty bad sensory issues with noise.... so yeah.
She's not diagnosed with anything..... the doctors always seem to agree - she just has an extremely difficult personality, and that's just how she is. "Strong willed" gets used a lot. I hate that term.
Well, my husband and I always planned on have 2 or 3 kids. We've discussed kid number two a few times and my husband flat out will not have another kid. He said if we could guarantee an easy child, he would be down. But if we had another kid like our daughter..... our marriage would not survive. Today I pushed him on it and he broke down in tears and said how sad he is that we can't have the family we pictured but there's just no way he could risk two difficult kids. .
After this talk, I know he is for real and is never going to change his mind.
It's really hard for me not to resent our daughter. My husband was SO PSYCHED to have a kid. He would not shut up about all the daddy-daughter stuff they were gonna do. That got shut down so quickly. We can't really even take her anywhere public without some meltdown. The whole experience has really turned my husband off of kids. Don't get me wrong - he is a great father, but this is not how we pictured it.
I am sad =(
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 15, 2020 | Registered: 3 years ago Posts: 201 |
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 15, 2020 | Registered: 19 years ago Posts: 9,195 |
ITA toraneko. If the doctors are telling them there's nothing wrong, someone in that family needs to grow a spine and not let this brat run the house. Sounds like these parunts have an authority problem and they both need to crack down on the brat. Usually in these situations, the Duds want to lay down the law, but the Moos won't let them.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 15, 2020 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,959 |
I agree, usually with enough shopping, you can find any doctor willing to diagnose a godawful brat with some variant ofr autism. So the fact that multiple providers will not do that is very telling that the brat's "illness" lies at home. Of course there are other Moos chiming in about how doctors are dumb and don't know anything about childhood disabilities and that the author's brat may actually have a condition after all. Because clearly a mommy with all of Google at her disposal knows more than some asshole in a coat who went to school for ten years. 
And of course the Duh has alleged "noise sensory issues." But if they think he has a legitimate mental disorder, why would they go and make a kid with the knowledge that their offspring could have the same disorder? And what kind of fucktard would go and make horribly noisy creatures when they have issues with loud noises? Do these people have no brain cells at all? That's like being afraid of snakes, going out and buying a snake anyway and expecting it to somehow not be scary.
Funny how Moo doesn't mention how she disciplines her child when these frequent tantrums arise. Probably because she doesn't discipline her at all and has completely washed her hands of trying to parent her own brat. That shit isn't gonna get better, precious. It takes a lot for a kid to get thrown out of daycare. This kid is only two (maybe three?) and it already knows it rules the roost.
And of course the Duh has alleged "noise sensory issues." But if they think he has a legitimate mental disorder, why would they go and make a kid with the knowledge that their offspring could have the same disorder? And what kind of fucktard would go and make horribly noisy creatures when they have issues with loud noises? Do these people have no brain cells at all? That's like being afraid of snakes, going out and buying a snake anyway and expecting it to somehow not be scary.
Funny how Moo doesn't mention how she disciplines her child when these frequent tantrums arise. Probably because she doesn't discipline her at all and has completely washed her hands of trying to parent her own brat. That shit isn't gonna get better, precious. It takes a lot for a kid to get thrown out of daycare. This kid is only two (maybe three?) and it already knows it rules the roost.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 16, 2020 | Registered: 3 years ago Posts: 201 |
Exactly. I fucking hate noise and odors and there's no way in hell I'd have a filthy brat living in my house.
I saw this sort of thing with my sister's brats. She's never been very assertive and the brats absolutely steamrolled her. She used to say that spanking and discipline had no effect, but I always wondered how much of it she actually did. They are badly in need of a trip to the wood shed. I think it's stunting the boy's development because at 9 or 10 (or however old he is) he still acts like a baby.
I also just remembered something from my own childhood when my sister was a baby. She was about 1 or so screaming in her high chair, don't remember about what, but was trying to get her way I guess because my mother tended to her long enough to discover that she didn't actually need anything but wouldn't shut up. In stark contrast to modern moos, my mother's response was to let her scream. I specifically remember her telling me "she'll lose her voice before long" and went about setting down our meal and eating. I think it wasn't long after she said it that my sister began to realize she wasn't going to win and quieted down. Maybe she didn't want to eat her food since it was mealtime.
I saw this sort of thing with my sister's brats. She's never been very assertive and the brats absolutely steamrolled her. She used to say that spanking and discipline had no effect, but I always wondered how much of it she actually did. They are badly in need of a trip to the wood shed. I think it's stunting the boy's development because at 9 or 10 (or however old he is) he still acts like a baby.
I also just remembered something from my own childhood when my sister was a baby. She was about 1 or so screaming in her high chair, don't remember about what, but was trying to get her way I guess because my mother tended to her long enough to discover that she didn't actually need anything but wouldn't shut up. In stark contrast to modern moos, my mother's response was to let her scream. I specifically remember her telling me "she'll lose her voice before long" and went about setting down our meal and eating. I think it wasn't long after she said it that my sister began to realize she wasn't going to win and quieted down. Maybe she didn't want to eat her food since it was mealtime.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 17, 2020 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 1,977 |
toraneko, I believe that’s what modern moos call the “cry it out” method. In modern moo fashion, they’ve decided it’s OMG child abuse.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 17, 2020 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,959 |
Yep, a majority of Moos now refuse to let their brats cry it out and will come running every single time their brats make noise with their face holes. I think it's some kind of bullshit belief that if Moos don't respond to every cry, their loaves will develop abandonment issues because they can't trust that their handlers will be there for them. Funny, past generations let their brats cry it out and I don't think there were rampant abandonment issues among the resulting children.
This, of course, conditions even very young brats to realize that they can get attention if they cry and scream, which means they will not only cry and scream more often, but will cry and scream the moment they're set back down. This is why you see so many Moos who claim they "can't" put their kids down and must always hold or nurse them, even at night. Then they wonder why the brats are chronic barnacles as they get older.
There is no harm in letting a brat cry. Obviously if there's an actual cause like injury or a wet diaper or hunger, then yes, definitely deal with that. But if the little fucker is just screaming because it feels like it? Lock it in its room and let it cry. Once they brat figures out that Mommy won't drop everything and tend to them every time they make a sound, they'll learn to shut the fuck up and cry when there's an actual issue. And even if the kid is hungry or wet, it won't die if it gets ignored for a little bit. Imagine what kind of fucking pussified retard you have to be to have your whole life revolve around the racket a child makes.
This, of course, conditions even very young brats to realize that they can get attention if they cry and scream, which means they will not only cry and scream more often, but will cry and scream the moment they're set back down. This is why you see so many Moos who claim they "can't" put their kids down and must always hold or nurse them, even at night. Then they wonder why the brats are chronic barnacles as they get older.
There is no harm in letting a brat cry. Obviously if there's an actual cause like injury or a wet diaper or hunger, then yes, definitely deal with that. But if the little fucker is just screaming because it feels like it? Lock it in its room and let it cry. Once they brat figures out that Mommy won't drop everything and tend to them every time they make a sound, they'll learn to shut the fuck up and cry when there's an actual issue. And even if the kid is hungry or wet, it won't die if it gets ignored for a little bit. Imagine what kind of fucking pussified retard you have to be to have your whole life revolve around the racket a child makes.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 18, 2020 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,959 |
Moo is bawwwing because she hates seeing how useful and helpful her husband is while he works (from home) while he's a useless sack domestically. She is jealous that his job gets the "better" husband when the family "deserves" the better husband.
Maybe because unlike his family, he likes his job and co-workers and he gets paid for his efforts? Maybe Moo shouldn't have married someone who cares more about their job than their family. Maybe she could, you know, bring this up to him using the hole in her face that makes noises? Or could it be because he gives all his efforts at work to support what I can only assume is a SAHM, he's got no fucks left to give at the end of the day? Or that some people just suck at domestic duties? I don't know the guy, so maybe he is just a lazy dick after all.
Another Moo in the comments chimes in about how her husband can't remember to scrub a toilet, but can meticulously plan out a whole D&D session, which from what I understand, requires quite a bit of planning. Yeah most people don't look forward to chores and so they don't prioritize them or put tremendous effort into doing them.
https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/ke6f9f/seeing_my_husband_work_from_home_makes_me_so_angry/
Maybe because unlike his family, he likes his job and co-workers and he gets paid for his efforts? Maybe Moo shouldn't have married someone who cares more about their job than their family. Maybe she could, you know, bring this up to him using the hole in her face that makes noises? Or could it be because he gives all his efforts at work to support what I can only assume is a SAHM, he's got no fucks left to give at the end of the day? Or that some people just suck at domestic duties? I don't know the guy, so maybe he is just a lazy dick after all.
Another Moo in the comments chimes in about how her husband can't remember to scrub a toilet, but can meticulously plan out a whole D&D session, which from what I understand, requires quite a bit of planning. Yeah most people don't look forward to chores and so they don't prioritize them or put tremendous effort into doing them.
https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/ke6f9f/seeing_my_husband_work_from_home_makes_me_so_angry/
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It's a weird title but hear me out. Seeing him be a stand up guy, communicating effectively, picking up slack from the people he works with, working HARD for little pay and just being an all around good guy makes me so angry because why can't his family ever get that guy? It's like he's a totally different person and I hate it. I'm jealous and petty. I want the side of him other people are getting. I hate to see that he's capable of so much and giving so little at home.
And I also hate him working from home because we were excited about it as he could be more involved (his exact words). He hardly leaves his computer to pee. The other day toddler was right next to him on the floor with paper and glue and I announced I was going to make lunch. Not once in the 15 minutes I was gone has he glanced in toddlers direction because she managed to glue a lot of her toys to the paper. Guess who had to clean all that before eating her lunch as we didn't want the glue to harden up? Yeah. So great that you're involved. Loving it.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 18, 2020 | Registered: 3 years ago Posts: 201 |
I saw that one. It reminded me of the post from a few weeks ago by an ex-military moo complaining about her useless husband. She described how the men in basic training had no trouble cleaning when there is enough motivation, although she didn't say whether those same men became incompetent at home.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 18, 2020 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,959 |
I guess Moos don't realize that payoff for effort has to be considered. What's the payoff for keeping things tidy in the army? Not getting punished by getting forced to run tons of extra laps or like scrubbing the entire barracks with a toothbrush. Payoff for good effort at work? Money, possibly raises. Payoff for good effort regarding fun things? Continued fun.
What's the payoff for good effort at home? Kids who are still horrible brats? A wife who nags a little less? Doubtful because a lot of those women will find something else to bitch about. The Duhs probably already tune their Moo-wives out anyway and/or figure they're the victims and she's the mean bitch, so there's no sense trying at home when the payoff isn't worthwhile.
It sucks, but I can see why they'd prioritize the things that have the best payoffs.
What's the payoff for good effort at home? Kids who are still horrible brats? A wife who nags a little less? Doubtful because a lot of those women will find something else to bitch about. The Duhs probably already tune their Moo-wives out anyway and/or figure they're the victims and she's the mean bitch, so there's no sense trying at home when the payoff isn't worthwhile.
It sucks, but I can see why they'd prioritize the things that have the best payoffs.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 18, 2020 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,959 |
Holy crap, the whole herd is foaming at the mouth about how much sympathy men get for their "struggles" during childbirth and subsequent fatherhood.
Nobody's saying Moos don't have a shitty time anyway and sure they went through more compared to the men, but that doesn't mean they have the fucking monopoly on suffering. Because yes, crapping out a brat and recovering from it is no easy task and I don't think anyone would ever argue that, but sitting in a chair for 12+ hours (because he didn't want to miss the calf dropping), not eating and being so tired that it impaired their driving are all legitimate complaints too.
https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/ke1lly/all_hail_my_childs_father/
Nobody's saying Moos don't have a shitty time anyway and sure they went through more compared to the men, but that doesn't mean they have the fucking monopoly on suffering. Because yes, crapping out a brat and recovering from it is no easy task and I don't think anyone would ever argue that, but sitting in a chair for 12+ hours (because he didn't want to miss the calf dropping), not eating and being so tired that it impaired their driving are all legitimate complaints too.
https://old.reddit.com/r/breakingmom/comments/ke1lly/all_hail_my_childs_father/
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Cause all he has to do is tell everyone the story of how he didn’t sleep overnight for 12hrs when I went into labor (from 12am, went to hospital at 3 am gave birth at 12pm) and suddenly he’s a hero and worshipped.
“Yeah, I didn’t even have a bed! I just sat in the chair next to her overnight. I got so hungry in the morning and had to hurry my ass up to Jack in the Box for some breakfast, I was so scared I’d miss the birth if I left! And I was so tired I was afraid I’d crash the car!”
Cue everyone calling him amazing, strong, it must have been so hard and saying HE went though so much that night.
But everyone forgets I, the mom, ALSO didn’t get to sleep those 12 hours plus the two days in the hospital after that cause I was up 24/7 with the baby, while also going though the pain of labor and childbirth, getting stitches afterwards, and fucking starving not being allowed to eat while my husband got to eat Jack in the Box.
Lmao but nope, HE was the strong one.
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Re: Breakingmom Tales: Or A Collection of Stupidity & Dumb Choices December 18, 2020 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,708 |
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Moo is bawwwing because she hates seeing how useful and helpful her husband is while he works (from home) while he's a useless sack domestically. She is jealous that his job gets the "better" husband when the family "deserves" the better husband.
Moo should have vetted her relationship before committing to marriage with this man. I'd guess it has been this way for awhile.
This is one thing you learn if you date much: where you rank in the pecking order of your significant other. Don't date the one who treats their friends as a higher priority than you (reasonably speaking, expect to be on a somewhat even field with the friends) and don't date the one who will do anything for work and nothing for you. If you're told it is because his/her friends have been around longer, watch out. It is staying the way it is and either accept it or move on.
Especially avoid the one who ranks you after friends and work, that is one doomed relationship.
The significant other who can't put his/her phone down when he/she is with you? The significant other who cancels your plans on a regular basis for friends or to work.. Red flags....You're number last, get out.
If it radically changes once married (as it did for me) best to annul it, immediately. It will never improve.
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