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twocents
So my fiancé and I are both in our early 30’s. Both of us very childfree. I’ve never wanted kids and just generally don’t like them. I’ve never changed a diaper, I don’t hold babies, and I don’t have friends who have kids.
We bought a house a couple years ago, are saving for getting married, and are putting over $2k a month towards our student loans. We have good jobs and like to travel and spoil our two dogs rotten.
My brother (5 years younger) knocked up his girlfriend and the baby was born a few months ago. Baby was taken by CPS and basically everyone in the immediate family got notices that someone needs to step up and take the kid in, or the kid would be put into foster system and adopted.
My mother, father, grandparents all decide to call me up today and tell me they had a family meeting and all decided my fiancé and I are the most logical choice for the child because “you are educated, own a home, and are the perfect age to be parents!”
They proceeded to get so mad, call me selfish, say “your nephew will be adopted out of this family and it will be all your fault!”
Uh no, it’s my brothers fault for knocking up his gf and all of you peoples fault for enabling him!
So, anyway, I’m now apparently the hugest asshole in the world and they all hate me because I won’t adopt my brothers kid.
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My mother, father, grandparents all decide to call me up today and tell me they had a family meeting and all decided my fiancé and I are the most logical choice for the child because“you are educated, own a home, and are the perfect age to be parents!”we asked you to adopt the nephew and you didn't say yes! How dare you refuse our wishes! Why did you buy a house with more than one bedroom unless you plan to have kids? You have your act together, we are all jealous and want to derail your lives so you can be as miserable as we are. You can sense how miserable we are based on the fact that we decided to have a meeting and dictate your entire future even though you are both adults and call you selfish if you wouldn't cave to our bullying!
They proceeded to get so mad, call me selfish, say “your nephew will be adopted out of this family and it will be all your fault!”
Re: They HAVE to adopt nephew.. August 24, 2020 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,708 |
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Peace
If moo and her family was such garbage that CPS had to take the infant, then it's the sperm donor's responsibility to step up and take care of the child he made. It's not the responsibility of the CF family members to provide for a fuck up not of their making.
Re: They HAVE to adopt nephew.. August 24, 2020 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 5,622 |
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Peace
If moo and her family was such garbage that CPS had to take the infant, then it's the sperm donor's responsibility to step up and take care of the child he made. It's not the responsibility of the CF family members to provide for a fuck up not of their making.
In fucked up famblees it is never the fucked up person's fault. They will always blame the responsible ones who aren't willing to help out the fucked up person(s).
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They proceeded to get so mad, call me selfish, say “your nephew will be adopted out of this family and it will be all your fault!”
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Re: They HAVE to adopt nephew.. August 27, 2020 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 2,701 |
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kman
Several comments there raised the question, where's the brother who made the baby? Why isn't the family holding him responsible for his loaf? The girlfriend's family is all into drugs and have had other children removed, the OP said, but she was silent about those questions surrounding her brother.
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Cambion
It's been brought up already, but if these people want this kid to stay with his family that badly, why is nobody volunteering to take him in? They must not want him to stay that badly.
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