This is how it starts. Women acting like they have no brains September 22, 2020 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 3,842 |
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My best friend, a stay-at-home mom, warned me that Tom is not cut out to be a stay-at-home dad and that his willingness to live off money he could have saved and invested should worry me. Is my friend right? I think if our genders were reversed no one would think twice about our plans.
Re: This is how it starts. Women acting like they have no brains September 22, 2020 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 2,364 |
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bell_flower
I sense this is not the case
Re: This is how it starts. Women acting like they have no brains September 22, 2020 | Registered: 19 years ago Posts: 9,199 |
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Tom's never had to cook or clean or be handy around the house, but child care won't be an issue since he'll be home and have time to learn at least some of that other stuff
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My best friend, a stay-at-home mom, warned me that Tom is not cut out to be a stay-at-home dad and that his willingness to live off money he could have saved and invested should worry me. Is my friend right?
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Re: This is how it starts. Women acting like they have no brains October 01, 2020 | Registered: 19 years ago Posts: 9,199 |
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Surprised he didn't tell her how he always wanted to live in the future and ask HER to join him on this footloose and fancy free journey, instead of her wanna breed plans and she gets to work their life away. He probably tells her he loves kids and has tons of fun w/ his nephews playing catch.
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These dads didnt do housework, probably made bologna sandwiches for lunch and just played w/ the kids. They didnt do anything that a traditional housewife or SAHM would do, just play and keep the kids alive. They are still not working and some of the kids are driving now. So, if this working girl in the article thinks breeding w/ a carefree guy is gonna be carefree, she has another thing coming. As in, coming home to a sinkful of dishes, and doing homework, and picking up toys and vaccuuming becz stay at home daddy is Mr FunGuy,not Mr Meany who actually gets stuff done.
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Re: This is how it starts. Women acting like they have no brains October 05, 2020 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,712 |
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bell_flower
I can visualize any number of scenarios:
He likes getting poontang on the reg, so he mumbles a few things about liking kids every now and then. She sounds like one of those broads who is on perpetual Uterine-Occupant-Fantasy overdrive, so she probably wants to talk about it a lot. If he acts somewhat interested, he will still get the poontang and all is well for now.
He thinks he may "have to" do this if he wants to be married to any woman. If he's found one that is willing to do all the heavy lifting, he suspects his life won't really change all that much.
He really does want kid(s), but believes he can have them without his life changing all that much. Or he has unrealistic views of what raising a kid is like, and thinks he can still play around and do the minimum after he has a kid.
Re: This is how it starts. Women acting like they have no brains October 05, 2020 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,712 |
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bell_flower
I know a lot SAHMoos and Duds who are like this too. Wouldn't it drive you nuts to be busting your hump at work and coming home to these ladies and gents of leisure? I know it would annoy me to no end. I know some SAHMoos (and Duds) who never cook, rarely clean, and use convenience food or takeout. There is no pride or discipline for themselves or their brats. They have messy, chaotic houses where nobody is in charge, nobody is on a schedule, the kids are hellions and the parent is a hot mess.
I get that everyone has bad days but if one's sole job is to be a homemaker and raise brats, and their houses are continually chaotic and messy and their kids are brats, someone should be getting a failing grade. If you were at work and performed like this, you'd be fired.