He dated her for 6 mos. before admitting he has brats February 25, 2021 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,712 |
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So it happens. He literally knocks me dumb as he takes my hand and looks deep into my eyes and tells me there’s something he’s been keeping from me. I’m thinking he’s about to let me know he’s so far in debt that he’ll be working until he’s 90. Nope. He’s got kids.
This motherfucker had THREE KIDS. And not only that he has SOLE CUSTODY! I’m literally stunned speechless as I listen to him explain to me that the condo we’re currently sitting in is in fact not his house but his single brother’s who agreed to let him use it for our dates so his parents can watch his kids at his house since their apartment isn’t kid proofed.
I remain speechless as he explains he didn’t tell me earlier because he was afraid I would stop speaking to him, and that he can’t bear to lose me because I’m the most amazing woman he’s ever met. He tells me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and I’ll be such an amazing mother to his kids because I’m so smart and level headed and not a drama queen at all. This bastard then goes on to say that instead of me retiring early I should sell my house and help him pay off his mortgage and debt and then we can save to put all three of his kids through college and once they graduate they can get good jobs and send us to Europe on vacation.
I just sat there staring at this fucker as he looks at me with such an excited expression on his face. Like he already had the next few decades of our lives planed out and fully expecting me to be jumping with joy that he’s sprung his little brood of mini me’s on me like it is some fantastic surprise. Planned in a way that was the EXACT OPPOSITE OF MY CHILD FREE LIFE PLAN I HAD BEEN UP FRONT WITH HIM ABOUT FROM DAY ONE!
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The only people who are willing to date single parents are other single parents
I was under the impression that single parents don't want to date single parents, either.
Re: He dated her for 6 mos. before admitting he has brats February 27, 2021 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,973 |
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The only people who are willing to date single parents are other single parents
I was under the impression that single parents don't want to date single parents, either.
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The only people who are willing to date single parents are other single parents
I was under the impression that single parents don't want to date single parents, either.
You're right and I stand corrected. Single parents usually like to go after CFers because they want someone who can fully devote their time, effort and money to their child. When a breeder dates another breeder, they have to pretend to care about the other person's kids and also deal with the added burden of more kids in the house, as well as child support payments and ex drama. Breeders want potential mates to accept their baggage, but they won't accept someone else's baggage.