Any more examples of baby rabid selfishness and insanity? April 23, 2021 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 3,842 |
Re: Any more examples of baby rabid selfishness and insanity? April 23, 2021 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 2,363 |
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selfish monster
Do you have a genetic disorder? Do you want children? These are the only two questions you need to answer. They do not need to connect.
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selfish monster
And why does disability or any health concerns mean “less than”?
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wtf
My future kids will probably be disabled. I hope they are.
Re: Any more examples of baby rabid selfishness and insanity? April 23, 2021 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 3,842 |
Re: Any more examples of baby rabid selfishness and insanity? April 23, 2021 | Registered: 19 years ago Posts: 9,197 |
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WHAT A FUCKING CUNT. I guarantee you she isn't in as much pain as she lets on, because if she were, she wouldn't wish it on anyone she loved.
Re: Any more examples of baby rabid selfishness and insanity? April 23, 2021 | Registered: 11 years ago Posts: 3,576 |
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https://www.healthline.com/health/yes-my-kids-will-probably-be-disabled?utm_medium=social&utm_source=facebook&utm_campaign=social-sharebar-referred-desktop&fbclid=IwAR33z5mJuaEQCqoC4csr3egn5A2V6Px3iq-PAdb0cJsrtannVd__ca06yWE#3
Re: Any more examples of baby rabid selfishness and insanity? April 23, 2021 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,965 |
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Here’s what goes into the decision to have kids when you have a genetic disorder.
Do you have a genetic disorder? Do you want children? These are the only two questions you need to answer. They do not need to connect.
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My question is: why does disability negate all of these goals? And why does disability or any health concerns mean “less than”?
Re: Any more examples of baby rabid selfishness and insanity? April 23, 2021 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,708 |
Re: Any more examples of baby rabid selfishness and insanity? April 23, 2021 | Registered: 19 years ago Posts: 9,197 |
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Also, how the fuck do they expect to be disabled and care for a disabled child at the same time? Young, healthy, able-bodied people can't handle being parents a majority of the time.
Re: Any more examples of baby rabid selfishness and insanity? April 23, 2021 | Registered: 10 years ago Posts: 2,363 |
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bell_flower
What a coincidence. I have the condition this woman does, although there are 9 variations of it.
Re: Any more examples of baby rabid selfishness and insanity? April 24, 2021 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 3,842 |
Re: Any more examples of baby rabid selfishness and insanity? April 24, 2021 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,708 |
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bell_flower
She's going to be whining about taking care of her kid. Her fiance obviously has no sense either. I could sort of understand if he's going to be the primary caretaker, but there's zero mention of that, probably because Miss Disability thinks it's all going to be sunshine and rainbows.
The kid is going to remember mommy being in pain and it's going to feel guilty. ETA: And when it's old enough to understand Mommy willingly passed on her disability, it's going to be understandably resentful!
Re: Any more examples of baby rabid selfishness and insanity? April 24, 2021 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,708 |
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bell_flower
I am better now due to addressing many root causes but the bottom line is, I've had years and months where I was in pain and barely functioning. I dragged myself to work and barely had the energy for much else. I cannot imagine dealing with a kid in the midst of all that and I'm so glad I did not. It would not have been fair to me OR the kid.
Re: Any more examples of baby rabid selfishness and insanity? April 24, 2021 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 3,978 |
Re: Any more examples of baby rabid selfishness and insanity? April 25, 2021 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,965 |
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paragon schnitzophonic
This is what happens when people can't see past their own egos. She's more concerned about defying the "can't" and "you really shouldn't" than about what it would mean for her hypothetical children.
Re: Any more examples of baby rabid selfishness and insanity? April 25, 2021 | Registered: 13 years ago Posts: 3,003 |
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paragon schnitzophonic
This is what happens when people can't see past their own egos. She's more concerned about defying the "can't" and "you really shouldn't" than about what it would mean for her hypothetical children. There was already much said on if the children are born disabled, but what if at least one of the children is abled? That child would be the caregiver for both its mother and any disabled siblings while also being emotionally neglected.
Childrearing is rough enough even when you're emotionally, psychologically, and financially suited for having children, especially the first year. Now add in disability. A baby does not give a shit that you're in horrible pain, can't move, are too depressed to get out of bed. It's hungry and demands to be fed now. She's probably expecting that The Village™ forms itself around her and cocoons her from the realities of childrearing. Somebody else will do it, she thinks. I foresee a lot of future thinkpieces about how abandoned she feels because nobody jumped to be her free night nurse, nanny, maid, etc. and how was she supposed to know how hard it all is.
And how about the fact that pregnancy/childbirth fucks up able-bodied women? Things detach and rupture in a normal woman; what the fuck does she think would happen as an EDS patient?