Just in time for Moother's Day: Women share their reasons for reproductive regret May 03, 2022 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,944 |
Re: Just in time for Moother's Day: Women share their reasons for reproductive regret May 03, 2022 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,702 |
Re: Just in time for Moother's Day: Women share their reasons for reproductive regret May 03, 2022 | Registered: 18 years ago Posts: 9,944 |
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freya
I'm wondering if the only reason some people like their kids is because their kids have their DNA and look just like them-which they love if for no other reason than narcissism. They certainly can't pick the personalities of their brats and even two great people could end up with a brat they despise-which they regret. I'd guess that if their brats act exactly as they hoped when they were fantasizing about having them then they would like them just fine. But not every moment can be a hallmark card one.
Re: Just in time for Moother's Day: Women share their reasons for reproductive regret May 04, 2022 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 3,839 |
Re: Just in time for Moother's Day: Women share their reasons for reproductive regret May 05, 2022 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,702 |
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Cambion
I still feel like the whole "I regret having a kid, but I love them" is just something parents feel like they have to say, like a disclaimer, so people don't think ill of them. I can't think of any other thing in this world that you can both love and regret.