Sounds like the forced birther is projecting to me. Claiming up and down they tried to get the author to pursue other options when they did nothing of the sort. I think the author is correct and her "friend" regrets her choice to breed - maybe the friend wouldn't have aborted, but I bet she wished she would havd given the kid away.
Sounds like the friend also didn't seem to give a shit that the author could have very easily had a life-threatening pregnancy since she got pregnant with an IUD and those have a far higher chance of being ectopic. But that's okay because ectopic pregnancies are totally transplantable, according to some politicians who I'm sure all have gynecology degrees.
This crazy fuck just wants to score brownie points with the forced birther crowd because what if someone finds out they knew their friend got an abortion and didn't react "appropriately" to it? So now the forced birther has to lie to everyone and say they tried to convince the author to not terminate to save their own image at the author's expense.
If the forced birther nut outs the author by name, I hope she can manage to sue the bitch because not only is that slander and defamation (which someone mentions in the comments in the link), but it's releasing someone's medical information publicly and giving a name could put the author in danger if other forced birthers decide to find her and "teach her a lesson." But the author is also Canadian, so I don't know what laws would be applicable.
I also saw something recently where a bunch of female celebrities discussed their abortions publicly in light of the Supreme Court's decision, and many wanted to keep the fetuses, but recognized that it wasn't a good time to produce brats (and also plenty who just plain didn't want to be parents, or didn't want to be parents yet). I wonder how many people are going to be attacking them, either online or physically in person.
Methinks it's a good time to not disclose any past abortions, lest people latch onto them and use them to turn you into a social criminal. Other forced birthers are not content to just sit behind a screen and bitch either - I know plenty of them would be happy to find women who have aborted and cause them harm in person to punish them for being "baby killers."