Accidentally dug this up while googling: A redditor recalled having an autard for a roommate .

The autard was a shitty roommate and was unbelieable: he had zero life skills
whatsoever, he didn't pay rent, had no job, never showered and constantly stalked women. One point he even stole frozen hamburger patties and putt it in the microwave (no plate, no nothing) and cooking this thing for like 10 minutes and leaving the microwave a horrid greasy mess. The other roommates eventually have enough of him and kick him out. The autaurd has a breakdown and ends up offing himself as a result. It seems his breeders never taught him life skills or how to act semi-human and then just tossed him out onto the world as soon as he was an adult.

The post is quite interesting and provides a cautionary tale of what becomes of autaurd whose parents coddle them and don't teach them life skills because " he's awwwwtistic. the world should adapt to him." . The fate of autards thrust into the world is not pretty.

The post in question: https://www.reddit.com/r/AMA/comments/5yfanj/comment/deqrsqf/

Quote
redditor
in college I lived in a four bedroom apartment with two close friends, and the university assigned us a fourth roommate.

He seemed a little strange, but we try to deal with it. We start to hear stories about this guy from other friends. Turns out he has been kicked out of almost every university apartment for one reason or another. People despised this guy.

A couple weeks go by and this guy was unbelievable. Ate all of our food, had no job, no money, couldn't pay for electricity, never showered, socially unbearable, asked us for rides to stalk this girl in high school, and the list goes on. I remember him taking one of my frozen hamburger patties and putting it in the microwave (no plate, no nothing) and cooking this thing for like 10 minutes and leaving the microwave a horrid greasy mess. Nobody can stand being in the same room as him.

My roommates were more timid about the situation than I, but I finally complain to the apartments that we can't have this guy live with us, and they agree to remove him.

All the roommates got together and I had to be the guy who told him that he needs to find another place to live.

He starts crying and telling us that he has Aspergers Syndrome and other social disorders and that he has been kicked out of every university housing unit in the city. I genuinely felt sorry for him, but at the same time, we couldn't support him and take care of him. We were 20 year old college students that could barely get by on our own.

We hold our ground and tell him he needs to find a living situation that can better provide for his needs.

That conversation was on a Tuesday. On Friday, the police call us to inform us that a school bus full of kids drove past the river and saw his body hanging by his neck from a railroad bridge.

I feel sorry for the guy. His dumbass parents probably just ignored him and expected the world to realize he is an aspie and just for everyone to adjust. They tossed him out in the world like that and the kid found out the hard way.
Probably thought he would learn by trial and error.

The kid probably realized there was no place for him out there, couldn't figure out a way to improve and did himself in.

This is pretty sad.

His parents probably couldn't wait to chuck him out into the world without taking the time and effort to prepare him for what it's really like out there. It just sounds like he was not equipped at all to be on his own and nobody really gave a crap. They just wanted him out of their hair.

I feel bad for the guy who posted this too. Him and the other roommates must feel pretty bad about this. I know I would, even though it's not their fault at all. Something like this would stay with me for the rest of my life though.

This is what happens when awtard handlers just give in to their tard's whims and teach them absolutely nothing about being decent human beings or life skills. You can't just baby a tard their whole life and then kick them out at 18 and expect them to know WTF they're doing. If they're not going to teach their tard child how to act around others in an independent setting, then they need to not unleash their messed-up spawn on the world and keep it at home and take care of it themselves.

I'm sorry the little freak killed himself, but it sounds like his parents did an absolutely shit job of raising him if he was such a troublesome roommate with a well-known bad reputation whose only response to being thrown out due to his own horrible behavior was suicide. That is not the fault of the sane roommates, and they can't blame it completely on his mental health because plenty of people with autism can function just fine without being complete dickholes. I don't care if the guy was a tard, that doesn't give him the right to mooch off his other roommates and eat their food when they're barely getting by themselves.

Maybe he should have been put with other tards in student housing instead of sticking him with normal people. I'm assuming he didn't have a job either because Mommy and Daddy said he was too speshul for one, or he was so intolerable in a workplace that he would get fired from every job he had.

Cruel as it may sound, it doesn't sound like the world suffered a major loss due to this awtard hanging himself. I sure as hell wouldn't feel sorry for someone who was so broke that they couldn't afford their own transportation to stalk a minor, and honestly, shame on the roommates for helping him do that shit too.

Quote
Cambion
This is what happens when awtard handlers just give in to their tard's whims and teach them absolutely nothing about being decent human beings or life skills. You can't just baby a tard their whole life and then kick them out at 18 and expect them to know WTF they're doing. If they're not going to teach their tard child how to act around others in an independent setting, then they need to not unleash their messed-up spawn on the world and keep it at home and take care of it themselves.

I'm sorry the little freak killed himself, but it sounds like his parents did an absolutely shit job of raising him if he was such a troublesome roommate with a well-known bad reputation whose only response to being thrown out due to his own horrible behavior was suicide. That is not the fault of the sane roommates, and they can't blame it completely on his mental health because plenty of people with autism can function just fine without being complete dickholes. I don't care if the guy was a tard, that doesn't give him the right to mooch off his other roommates and eat their food when they're barely getting by themselves.

Maybe he should have been put with other tards in student housing instead of sticking him with normal people. I'm assuming he didn't have a job either because Mommy and Daddy said he was too speshul for one, or he was so intolerable in a workplace that he would get fired from every job he had.

.

I'd say the shitty neglectful parents are the real villains here. I also get the vibe that the autard was a Goldenpenis that was coddled at home and apparently never did any chores because mommy always clean up after him (" my boy is too precious to do chores. He's awwwtistic. Besides cleaning is wimminz work"). Seriously what is it with moo's and coddling autard,

He also probably didn't have a job because mommy probably encouraged him not to get one because "You don't need one, focus on your schooling. Schooling is more important". I have actually seen parents who thought like that

Some zygotes are so fried they can't learn.

+++++++++++++

Passive Aggressive
Master Of Anti-brat
Excuses!

Quote
craftyzits
Some zygotes are so fried they can't learn.

He made it to college. He could have learned to take a shower. His parents failed him, hard.

I remember college and a lot of students don't really know how to take care of themselves because their parents are worthless and never taught them any life skills. This isn't necessarily limited to autistic people either - you can find plenty of sane students in any given college who don't know how to wash dishes, do laundry, go grocery shopping, budget their money, shower without reminders, take out the trash, or cook basic meals.

I know my maternal unit never taught me any of that crap. I got lucky in that I managed to more or less figure things out on my own - save for bathing, that is. I actually like taking baths and my hair gets so gross that I have to wash it daily anyway.

Quote
antisprog
He also probably didn't have a job because mommy probably encouraged him not to get one because "You don't need one, focus on your schooling. Schooling is more important". I have actually seen parents who thought like that

Yup, that was my parents too. My mother felt that absolutely nothing else mattered except for grades, so she would send me money to live off while in school. Which was fine with me because I didn't want to go to school in the first place. Though I'm not sure I would have been able to handle full-time school and a job anyway - it would have had to be one or the other, most likely.

sad but hopefully awtard took himself out before he bred with some equally moronic mental girl

two cents ¢¢

CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

No one is more arrogant towards women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious (insecure..my word) about his virility. Simone de Beauvoir

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children. The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.

Here's something missing from this story:

How was Tardley doing in his classes? Was he even attending classes? Was he receiving special treatment to stay enrolled?

Finding answers to those questions might be fascinating.

Funny that he couldn't be bothered to function well with others, but he was able to hang himself.

My first thought after reading that was "good riddance". He lived like a pig, was a sexual predator in the making, and went out of his way to be a burden. I'm sure he had other issues, but I HATE that shit. I can't imagine coming home to a trashed room and a horrible stench because ONE asshole doesn't feel like pulling his weight.

again he wasn't taught. or maybe some misogyny that he had to have some woman to take care of his butt. he was defective enough though that he was a turnoff to any female ..

two cents ¢¢

CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

No one is more arrogant towards women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious (insecure..my word) about his virility. Simone de Beauvoir

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children. The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.