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Violent tard beats teacher's aide because she wouldn't let him play his Switch

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270-pound violent hulkatard with autistic alphabet soup acronym disorders gave this woman five broken ribs, a major concussion and caused her to lose her hearing in one ear, among other problems that she says will affect her for the rest of her life. According to another article on this incident, he has autism, ADHD, Oppositional Defiant Disorder, Intermittent Explosive Disorder, Mood Dysregulation Disorder, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, and anxiety. And he has the emotional maturity of a 4-year-old.

Because he didn't like not being allowed to game in school.

Of course it's the school's fault - not for preventing this freak from severely injuring an aide, but for not providing him with the tools he needed to express himself properly.

But the good news is the fucker was charged with aggravated battery and was deemed competent to stand trial, so hopefully his violent retarded ass will go to jail where unlike school, the people he fucks with will not hesitate to hit him back.

Maybe I'm a piece of shit, but I don't think a person who is this much of a fucking hair trigger paired with being the size of a linebacker and being on a cornucopia of anti-psychotic medications should be allowed in a normal school setting. It's like throwing a powder keg into a forest fire. Since the parents apparently couldn't keep him in a group home because their insurance sucked, prison might be the best place for him. His parents are elderly and he's already severely assaulted an authority figure. If he can't be in a group home and he can't be in school or at home, he needs to be put in a cage before he hurts someone else or kills them. Because it WILL happen.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/student-accused-viciously-beating-aide-155948035.html

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The Florida high-school student with autism accused of violently attacking a teacher's aide over a Nintendo game has filed a stunning lawsuit against the school district, accusing it of failing to make interventions to address his bad behavior even though he was said to be a "ticking time bomb."

Brendan Depa, 18, has filed a lawsuit against Flagler County Public Schools, accusing the district of failing to meet his needs in the lead-up to the shocking February 21 incident that was caught on video and went viral.

Depa was 17 when he allegedly attacked teacher's aide Joan Naydich at Matanzas High School in Palm Coast. Surveillance video released by the Flagler County Sheriff's Office allegedly shows the 6-foot-6, 270-pound student running up to the teacher's aide, pushing her to the ground, and then continuing to punch and kick her.

Naydich told FOX 35 Orlando she had suffered five broken ribs, a severe concussion, loss of hearing in one of her ears and other issues as a result of the beating.

The incident was sparked after Depa was refused permission to use a Nintendo Switch console.

The complaint alleges that the district failed to address Depa's disabilities through a proper behavioral plan on multiple occasions, ultimately leading to the attack.

"The district should be held to account for its failures which have forever changed the trajectory of this young man’s life," a portion of the lawsuit reads. (I have a feeling his life trajectory would have been the same if he beat this woman or not: most likely jail)

It says that he has a history of trauma and mental health issues, along with several disabilities that impact him in school settings.

"[Depa] is smart, but he has been diagnosed with an autism spectrum disorder and has communication deficits that were not properly addressed. His explosive nature was also ignored and his need for social and pragmatic language interventions were not sufficiently addressed," the lawsuit reads.

The complaint alleges that the school ignored Depa’s need for social and "pragmatic language interventions" and should have provided him with direct instructions on how to problem-solve and express himself. (Ten bucks says this violent psycho is mainstreamed.)

For instance, he spat at a student and verbally threatened another by saying that the student should die. He also said he should have shot a student. The lawsuit argues that the school had not properly dealt with those incidents.

"Had these issues been addressed in real-time, [Depa] would not have harmed the paraprofessional and would not have been arrested and facing significant time incarcerated," the complaint reads.

The suit alleges that a teacher’s aide and Depa exchanged words and that the student was then reprimanded in front of his peers, eventually being punished by being denied the Nintendo though other students were allowed theirs. (Uhhhh, maybe things are different now than when I was in school, but since when is the whole class allowed to bring in their game consoles? That sounds like a good way to get your shit stolen.)

The school, staff and district knew that the Nintendo, and its use on the school campus was a "trigger for escalating behaviors," prompting Depa to spit on Naydich, according to the filing.

When Naydic stormed out of the classroom to report him for assault, Depa followed her and launched his vicious attack.

The teen has filed a request for a due process hearing under the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act. It asks for a determination that Flagler County Public Schools’ actions before and after February 2023 led to the violent incident.

A spokesperson for Flagler Schools tells Fox 35 Orlando that the district is not commenting on the complaint.

Depa, who is being charged as an adult, pleaded no contest late last year to a first-degree felony aggravated battery on an elected official or education employee charge that could be punishable by up to 30 years in prison. His sentencing is scheduled for May 1, Fox 35 reports.

Naydich has denied taking the Nintendo Switch away from Depa and that he was actually angry because another staff member would not allow him to play it.

As well as physical injuries, Naydich says she has faced financial and emotional hurdles since the attack.

"Unfortunately, a lot of my injuries that are not visible I'm going to have for the rest of my life," Naydich previously told FOX 35 Orlando, referring to slowed speech, issues with patience and "difficulty with what she considers routine cognitive functions."

"Everybody that knows me or knew me [before the attack] knows that I'm a totally different person now. My whole life was just turned upside down."

Naydich was granted a permanent injunction for protection against repeated violence against Depa in March 2023.

Court documents obtained by Fox News Digital show that Depa has had three prior misdemeanor battery charges, in March 2019, April 2019 and June 2019. All the misdemeanor charges stem from the 13th Judicial Circuit, which is located in Hillsborough County.

For those charges, court records show that Depa completed a program within the Department of Juvenile Justice.



Here's another story on the incident: https://flaglerlive.com/brendan-depa-my-son-story/

Some highlights from his IEP (Individual Education Program):

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When a directive is not explained to Brendan, he can become argumentative with teachers and refuse to comply. If he begins to escalate he can become verbally and physically aggressive towards his peers and staff. Brendan does not do well with competition, and losing a game can make Brendan extremely upset and can lead to severe aggression. Once Brendan has escalated it can be very difficult to bring him back to base level behavior.

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Echo said that he plays games at home from 5-7 and 8-10. Removing a game is definitely a trigger; if Brendan is playing a game and the house needs to take it away, they will call the crisis team before they ask for the game, because there will be an incident requiring a restraint. [The ESE administrator] said that this information would definitely be useful to know so that MHS was aware of that problem.

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His behavioral plan had some strategies in place that were meant to prevent negative behaviors. Here are three of them:

- Use humor with Brendan and build a positive rapport. Avoid negative/corrective statements even after behaviors targeted for reduction have occurred.

- Do not talk about his behaviors in front of him.

- Avoid correcting, reprimanding, or redirecting Brendan in the presence of peers.
I'd like to know how he got his diagnosis of post traumatic stress disorder. Usually people get that when they've been exposed to potentially deadly threats, either as the primary victim or as a witness. It sounds more like he inflicts trauma on others.

I don't believe half the fucking diagnoses this kid has been labeled with. He's a violent little POS and he needs to be locked up away from society. Drugs don't fix this. Treating him with kid gloves won't fix this. Bars will.
I thought maybe the brat might have had PTSD from growing up in the foster system, but it says his foster parents took him in in infancy. So if he has PTSD, it had to have been from the way his foster family treated him. Otherwise, no, you have to have been through actual TRAUMA to have PTSD. Or do they want us to believe that since this hulkatard is so triggered by like five thousand different things that not getting his own way is considered traumatic?

Going by article number two, Tardo is triggered by, among presumably other things, flies, stickers, used bandages, the sun not being out, and removal of his electronics. The game one is especially huge - apparently if a game needs to be taken away from him, a whole crisis team has to be summoned because otherwise the shit will hit the fan and he will get violent and require restraint.

The second article also says he was home-schooled basically because everything at daycare triggered his sensitive ass and he did better in smaller environments. So then why did they send him to normal high school? It's not like he's ever going to be sane enough to go to college (which he said he wanted to do, LOL) and he'll never hold down a job when his response to being told "no" is to beat someone to a pulp. Let me guess, Moo and Duh wanted a break from his violent bullshit and figured they'd let him be someone else's problem for 8 hours a day.

It's also real nice the tard's parents are keeping the aide in their prayers, but prayers don't pay medical bills. I hope she sues the fuck out of them because their retarded violent man-baby caused her irreverseible damage. If anyone should have PTSD in this situation, it's the aide.

Also I did not see the caption - the elderly lady in the photo with the tard is his grandmother, not his mother. That's what I get for hitting page down and not scrolling.
Hulkatard got five years for the assault with 15 years probation. Moo sat on her ass in the courtroom and begged for him to not get charged so she could just bring him home without consequence.

Shockingly, people are not sympathizing with the awtard and are saying his sentence isn't enough.

Of course, the awtard's lawyer tried to blame the victim for not being more in tune with her tard's triggers and suggesting she brought the abuse on herself. Gotta pass that buck!

The link also contains a video of the beating and photos of the aide's injuries. I can't wait to find out how he does in prison if he tries to pummel an inmate or a guard for not having his 5,000 triggers committed to memory. Someone's gonna teach him a hard lesson and he's gonna learn real quick that nobody gives a fuck about your triggers in jail. eating popcorn

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-13717889/moment-hulking-schoolboy-adoptive-mom-tears-judge-beat-teacher-nintendo-switch-outrage.html

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This is the moment the adoptive mother of a 6ft 6in hulking schoolboy breaks town in tears as she is asking the judge for leniency after her son beat up a teacher who took his Nintendo Switch.

Leanne Depa, who adopted Brendan when he was five months old, started crying as she told the judge during her autistic son's sentencing hearing: 'I beg you to let him come home with me.'

Brendan Depa, who was 17 at the time, brutally tackled teacher's aide Joan Naydich, 59, in February 2023 and unleashed dozens of punches to her body and head, leaving her seriously bruised and unconscious.

Depa, who is 6ft 6ins and 270 pounds, has become a legal adult since the brutal attack he perpetrated at Matanzas High School in Palm Coast, Florida, a moderately sized town near Daytona Beach.

He could have faced a prison sentence of 30 years, but will only spend five years behind the bars of a Florida state prison, followed by 15 years of probation. Depa's sentence has caused outrage online, as people call it 'pathetic' and 'not enough'.

Leanne Depa (pictured), who adopted Brendan when he was five months old, started crying as she told the judge during her autistic son's sentencing hearing: 'I beg you to let him come home with me'

Depa's sentence has caused outrage online, as people call it 'pathetic' and 'not enough'

Joan Naydich, 59, the victim of Depa's brutal attack testified against him on May 1, 2024. She has always advocated for him to be locked up for the maximum amount of time, which would have been 30 years

Depa had pleaded no contest to the aggravated battery charges against him in October 2023 and was originally due to be sentenced in May 2024, but the judge delayed the hearing so he could hear from more witnesses. Depa was finally sentenced on Tuesday.

His victim, teacher Naydich, had urged the court to lock up her teenage attacker for the maximum sentence of 30 years.

But the decision from Judge Terence Perkins to give Depa 25 years less than that could have do with the exculpatory testimony that came from his mother and arguments from his defense team.

Leanne Depa told the court: 'Brendan, he has had a hard life,' adding how her son had 'felt abandoned' by her after she sent him to live in a residential treatment facility in North Carolina for a year when he was 14.

The occupational therapist also said: 'He struggles with autism and behavioural issues, but [...] I was able to manage Brandon, because I knew Brandon and I knew his triggers and I knew his needs and his strengths.'

At the residential treatment facility, Depa head-butted staff, punched a doctor and threw a chair, according to Assistant State Attorney Melissa Clark.

After the facility, Depa was sent to a group home - where he had to be restrained at one point -, before returning to live with his mother and go to the public school in Palm Coast in 2021.

She said she had warned the school about her son's laundry list of triggers. According to her, 'electronics' was his biggest trigger.


'I had told the school that being hungry was a trigger, that noise was a trigger, that being told no was a trigger, that being corrected in front of other people was a trigger, and electronics was a huge trigger,' she said on the stand. (So not being allowed to have his own way all the time is a trigger?)

Lawyers representing him filed a separate lawsuit against the school district for negligence, wherein they described Depa as 'a ticking time bomb.'

Leann Depa, Brendan Depa's adoptive mother, was seen in court Tuesday reacting with tears to her son's five year sentence

On the day of the attack, Naydich requested another teacher take away Depa's gaming console, a Nintendo Switch.

When Depa found out, he allegedly called her a b**ch and a w**re and spat at her as she left the classroom.

That's when a school surveillance camera captured him following her out and ramming into her, sending her tumbling to the ground.

Naydich was completely limp after she was knocked to the floor, but a rage-filled Depa didn't quit, punching her in the head and back 15 times.

Her injuries included five broken ribs, a concussion and a loss of hearing. Pictures released after the beatdown show gashes on the aide's cheek, bruising around the eyes, one blood shot eye, a dent in her nose and a tear at the back of her ear.

Naydich, a mother of two, told the court: 'Brendan Depa's actions that day has caused me to lose a job that I had for almost 19 years, lose my financial security, lose my health insurance.'

She's also filed a permanent injunction against Depa preventing him from ever coming within 500 feet of her home or place of work.

Naydich said the worst injuries are internal and that the attack deeply affected her cognitive functions.

'Unfortunately, a lot of my injuries that are not visible I'm going to have for the rest of my life,' she said.

Naydich, who was sitting in the gallery at Depa's sentencing, told the court in the hearing in May: 'There are consequences in life to bad actions, bad choices. He made that choice that day to come after me.' (GOOD! These fuckers and their handlers need to learn that just because they're autistic doesn't mean they will never have to face the consequences of their behavior.)

Depa's attorneys tried to turn it around on her, claiming that Naydich failed to address the autistic boy's unique needs and wasn't properly trained to handle him.

Kurt Teifke, one of Depa's lawyers, reportedly referred back to prior testimony that suggested the assault was a manifestation of his disability.

'It's not his fault,' Teifke said.


Judge Perkins didn't buy it, citing the brutality captured in the video and adding that Depa's attack on Naydich was not an isolated incident.

'It captures the senseless, extreme violence in a very troubling way,' Perkins said, commenting on the video.

In his sentencing, Perkins also cited testimony from a state witness, a psychologist, who said Depa knew what he did was wrong, and that Depa did not express remorse at any point.

Depa's mother pleaded with the judge to let her son serve house arrest, telling him: 'I think he needs help, and I think he needs treatment.'

But Depa was sentenced to five years in state prison as well as 15 years of supervised probation.

On X, users voiced their frustrations over Depa's sentence, with one saying that it 'should be at least 10', while another said Depa battering his teacher was 'attempted murder'

Judge Perkins also ordered that the Florida Department of Corrections conduct a full mental health evaluation of Depa and develop a treatment plan for his disabilities, the Daytona Beach News-Journal reported.

After her son was sent to prison, Leanne Depa told reporters he is being punished for being black, for being large and for being disabled.

While his mother had hoped for her son not serving any prison time, the public is outraged at him not being incarcerated for more than five years.

On X, users voiced their frustrations over Depa's sentence, with one saying that it 'should be at least 10', while another said Depa battering his teacher was 'attempted murder'.

'That was a brutal beating. He got off easy with just five years but I bet with a temper like he has he will end up violating that parole and be sent back to prison,' a third person said.
IMO, this is a severe misuse of the term "trigger." People with PTSD have triggers. This asshole just has a laundry list of things that piss him off AND that he knows he can get away with lashing out over. Yet another case of an "uncontrollable" outburst that just happened to be against someone smaller and weaker, which just further convinces me that he knows exactly what he's doing and was sure that Mommy would protect him from consequences. I don't think he'll pick any fights in prison because he'll know he's at risk for getting flattened. But if the inmates decide to get some justice for that teacher that the judicial system didn't, I won't lose any sleep over it. The guy's an abusive bully, plain and simple, and deserves what he gets.
People have been misusing the word "trigger" for a long time now. If something mildly annoys or inconveniences someone or it doesn't line up neatly with their personal beliefs, they will say they have been triggered. The word has no meaning anymore because people use it all the time to describe the very normal human experience of dealing with things they don't like.

But I don't doubt that as autistic as this animal might be, he's not so dumb that he didn't single her out because he knew he could take her. If the aide was a man or a larger woman, he probably would have thought twice. But since the aide was more petite or maybe just average-sized, he knew he could absolutely floor her.

I kind of hope he does pick a fight in jail just so someone whoops his ass. This is a kid who is long overdue for a spanking that his mommy clearly never gave him. See how he likes being the victim for a change.

I want to know why the school allowed the fucker to enroll in the first place when there's no possible way he wouldn't be "triggered" just from the daily grind of a normal school day. If the school fucked up, it was for that reason. He should not have been allowed in school because his temper paired with his mental health and size make him dangerous to staff and students.
So true. Getting told no isn't a trigger. It's life.

I'm diagnosed with PTSD and get triggered with anyone who looks or sounds like my attacker. Even hearing his first name makes me feel extremely anxious. Recently I was watching a true crime thing and the killer reminded me of him. They both have the same blank, empty, psychopath eyes. I suffered a flashback that night that sent me out of bed and unable to sleep for the rest of the night.

If I see anyone on the street that resembles or sounds like him, my heart starts racing and I can't breathe. It's not bad if I'm somewhere on my own, but it happened at work once and all I could do was quietly have a meltdown after the person was gone and nobody was there to see me.

The overuse of trauma and trigger really pisses me off to no end. Not everything is a trigger. Not everything is that fucking traumatizing. That kind of stupid talk is what invalidates people who truly suffer with this disorder.
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mumofsixbirds
The overuse of trauma and trigger really pisses me off to no end. Not everything is a trigger. Not everything is that fucking traumatizing. That kind of stupid talk is what invalidates people who truly suffer with this disorder.

Right there with you on that opinion. Huge difference between "triggering my PTSD" and "something I don't like." Huge difference between "I had a negative experience" and "trauma that gave me PTSD," too.

I know I'm not this kid's psychiatrist. Did something indeed happen to him that made having his Switch taken away become an actual fucking trigger? Probably not, but I can't say that for sure. What I can say as an outsider looking in is that it sure seems like if taking away his electronics so he can benefit from class results in him fucking disabling someone, he should not be in school.

Five years. Five fucking years, and he permanently disabled that woman. Absolutely disgusting.
Yup, ITA. I'm no shrink either, but unless someone took his switch away once and beat him half to death with it, I doubt it was a PTSD trigger. It was a massive meltdown because he didn't get his way.

Five years is an abomination. He'll just get out of there and be a meaner, angrier tard with bigger problems. I don't really care what anyone's mental health status or issues are. If someone isn't capable of controlling their violent rage, they have no place among others.

Next time, he'll kill someone.
it's amazing how many mentals and tards can control their behaviour if their little assholes are whipped when they act out.

two cents ¢¢

CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

No one is more arrogant towards women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious (insecure..my word) about his virility. Simone de Beauvoir

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children. The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.
And the funny thing is parents are probably even less likely to beat their kids' asses for misbehaving if they have autism. Autism and its many branches and all the bullshit acronym diseases that often accompany it do NOT mean a child should not be disciplined at all. Just because they're an awtard doesn't mean they don't deserve to be spanked when they're bad. Maybe if someone spanked this violent little asshole when he acted up as a kid, he wouldn't think beating someone to a pulp over a game console was an acceptable response.

Well guess what? Now the law is gonna spank him. And he's going to have EPIC meltdowns in jail when he gets "triggered" from not getting his own way 24/7. Can you imagine him going apeshit on a guard because he doesn't want to go to bed when the lights go out? Or punching someone in the face because he can't have a separate fork for everything on his lunch tray? He definitely won't be getting out early on good behavior.
It's all about the bucks. That's why violent, disruptive tards like this one are being placed in regular classrooms. The school gets more federal and state money for each student enrolled. This was in turn a bribe to school systems to accept federal laws requiring these people to be in school, when years back they would not have been allowed to attend.
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it's amazing how many mentals and tards can control their behaviour if their little assholes are whipped when they act out.

Or when they're faced with bigger, stronger people who aren't constrained against kicking their asses. It reminds me of an argument I heard once about wife beaters. They were addressing the fact that a lot of women will defend their abusers, saying things like "I shouldn't have made him mad." Their response was, "Does he ever get mad at anyone else? His boss? Being pulled over by a cop? Does he punch them? No? Then he can control his temper when he wants to. He just doesn't want to with you."
There was a book about that. Something like "Why Does he Act That Way". It was written by a man who led groups of male abusers. The conclusion he came to was-- he does it because he knows he can. As in, the first time the woman "forgave" his abuse and let him cry on her shoulder, he took one more step toward violence. And so on. And I could relate.
doesn't even have to be physical. but the little girls that back down and won't prosecute only make it worse for those who want to get out.

two cents ¢¢

CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

No one is more arrogant towards women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious (insecure..my word) about his virility. Simone de Beauvoir

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children. The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.
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reeniebessagain
There was a book about that. Something like "Why Does he Act That Way". It was written by a man who led groups of male abusers. The conclusion he came to was-- he does it because he knows he can. As in, the first time the woman "forgave" his abuse and let him cry on her shoulder, he took one more step toward violence. And so on. And I could relate.

I read that book and it was instrumental in helping me leave my shitty marriage. "Why does he do that" by Lundy Bancroft. I got it as a free e-book and it really opened my eyes about the reality of my situation.

No wonder people are leaving the teaching profession. It's not even just the awtards who are violent. Kids in general have become crazy due to lack of discipline and they're not going to do well when they're adults. When I was a kid in the stone age (the 70s) I was bullied a lot too but I never saw the little fuckers go after a teacher. There was still some fear there. Now, the parents just back up their brats and let them get away with murder.

To all the teachers here, I just want to commend you for your work. I would never be able to to deal with it. You guys are better than me. If I had just one little bastard mouth me off, they'd get launched out a classroom window.
I will never, ever have any job to do with brats again. twice was enough

two cents ¢¢

CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

No one is more arrogant towards women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious (insecure..my word) about his virility. Simone de Beauvoir

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children. The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.
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mumofsixbirds
No wonder people are leaving the teaching profession. It's not even just the awtards who are violent. Kids in general have become crazy due to lack of discipline and they're not going to do well when they're adults. When I was a kid in the stone age (the 70s) I was bullied a lot too but I never saw the little fuckers go after a teacher. There was still some fear there. Now, the parents just back up their brats and let them get away with murder.

The brats in school now are probably the worst generation of kids ever. So many more of them are diagnosed with autism - whether they actually have it or are just medicated into being bearable because Mommy insisted is another story. More of them are violent and aggressive. They have no social skills because they are babysat by tablets and phones from a very early age. They are subjected to gentle/non-existent parenting and so they never hear the word "no" or face consequences for bad behavior. They come from homes with no structure, boundaries, expectations or rules and when they go to school, they are put into rooms where they have to deal with all those things all at once and they can't cope.

Their parents allow them to react in aggressive ways when they don't get their own way at home and since the brats have no fear of authority, they act out violently toward teachers too. Forever ago, when a kid was a bastard in school, they'd get punished in school and then go home and get punished by their parents too. Now when a kid gets in trouble at school, Mommy stomps in and screams at the teacher for daring to discipline her widdle angel. I've seen a complete 180 in regard to all this shit even since I was a grade schooler not terribly long ago (early 90s).

It's not the kids, it's the fucking parents who are responsible. It's the parents who don't do their jobs and turn their kids into violent monsters, and then have the audacity to defend their bad behavior. Because if they don't, they might have to admit they did a shitty job of raising those kids and that's why they behave so badly. When teachers have a problem with these students, it's much easier to just blame the teachers and call them incompetent than expect parents to, you know, PARENT.

Teachers are leaving the profession now more than ever before because these fucking kids are too awful to deal with. And because people are not shy about sharing things online, they can warn others how bad things are to prevent people from pursuing education as a career. Parents are gonna be shit out of luck when absolutely no one wants to teach and they have to home-school their little shit stains. They get so excited for school to start so they can see their kids less often - just wait until they don't get that escape anymore because teachers are tired of dealing with violent brats with zero support from parents or administrators.

I've seen more than one story about former teachers who left education to go work at Costco or Walmart or some other big box store and they say they not only get treated better, but are paid more. That is so fucked up.

And my English teacher my senior year begged me to go into teaching because she thought I wrote well and could do it. I had more than one person tell me all throughout my twenties that I "need" to teach because "it's a gravy job that pays a ton and you get summers off." I have never been so glad to have not listened to people.
Aaaaaaaanannndddd now we have the teacher in Corsicana who was partially blinded in one eye by some little shit who threw a hanger at her. ISTG I don't know how she didn't punch the living daylights out of the little fucker, consequences be damned - that would have been my knee-jerk reaction to BEING BLINDED IN ONE EYE.
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Cambion
And my English teacher my senior year begged me to go into teaching because she thought I wrote well and could do it. I had more than one person tell me all throughout my twenties that I "need" to teach because "it's a gravy job that pays a ton and you get summers off." I have never been so glad to have not listened to people.

I had a professor who told me she could see me teaching. I said I had no interest in it and pretty much hated kids, and she agreed and said, "Oh, nothing lower than college!" bouncing smileys
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kittehpeoples
I had a professor who told me she could see me teaching. I said I had no interest in it and pretty much hated kids, and she agreed and said, "Oh, nothing lower than college!"

Oh for sure, if someone held a gun to my head and told me I HAD to teach, I would do so at college level just to be able to mostly avoid intrusive helicopter parents. But holy crap I could not teach. I can't talk in front of people, I tend to ramble when I talk, I have a quiet voice and nobody would hear me in the back, I'd probably give everyone an A just to avoid hurting any feelings, I have zero capabilities of exercising authority and nobody would listen to me, and I'd probably teach stupid shit like, "LOL here's how to Photoshop your sister's head onto the body of a cow and here are print shops that can print cards in time for Christmas so everyone can see your work!" I'd probably be everyone's favorite teacher, but for the worst reasons.

Plus I hate working with people and I hate working with kids, Teaching is just a big fat NOPE across the board for me, and anyone who thinks I could do it is fucked in the head.
I couldn't do it either. There are a lot of videos on YouTube that talk about the crisis of teachers leaving their profession because they can't deal with these monstrous brats anymore. They get verbally and physically abused on a regular basis. I don't know how there's little to no protection for teachers who have to deal with this.

I talked to a teacher once who had PTSD because he was stabbed by a student. His whole life had gone to shit afterwards and I felt so bad for him. I don't remember how old the kid was, but I'm sure he was old enough to understand it's wrong to stab someone.

Pretty soon nobody will want to teach and then where will parents get their free babysitters?
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I don't know how there's little to no protection for teachers who have to deal with this.

Because that would probably cost money and cause an uproar among the breeders whose brats verbally and physically assault the staff on a regular basis. It's not like detention, suspension and expulsion do anything anymore - kids see it as a free vacation and the parents don't punish them for their behavior at home, choosing instead to blame the teachers and say they did something to trigger the violent brat.

Administration is much more likely to kowtow to the lazy worthless parents of these little felons than protect the staff. Imagine if police got involved every single time a student assaulted a teacher. There would be a big scene at the school, the media would get a hold of it and parents would be screaming about how the cops scarred their little darlings for life just by being there, and the parents of the perpetrators would complain about how the reaction of calling the police is "too extreme" and it's the school's fault for not de-escalating the situation or just letting the brat in question rampage freely until they run out of steam. Like they do at home. It would disrupt the whole school day for the entire building and parents would complain about their brats' educations being interrupted.

Teachers are just supposed to sit there and take the abuse because protecting them from their own students is probably not in the best interests of the students. And administrators would probably rather just let their educators get abused than deal with parents storming in and screaming about their brats being "mistreated." It's the education equivalent of "the customer is always right" - just let parents and brats have their own way and fuck the teachers.

It's gonna be mighty interesting to see the future unfold when there are zero teachers to deal with these fucking kids and the parents have to scramble to find accommodations for them.
might be unapproved but I agree with crazy. at the very least they should be sterilized so they can't breed up more defectives. they can boff what little brain they have but won't pass it on

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No one is more arrogant towards women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious (insecure..my word) about his virility. Simone de Beauvoir

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children. The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.
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