and then finding out the hard way:

https://old.reddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1f7lju8/my_husband_turned_into_a_psychopath_for_a_split/

Someone posted that their spouse is a firearms instructor and pointed a gun at her belly at six month along the way.
Also almost every abuse story on TwoX mentions "My kids.." It never ends with these women breeding with Mr. Fantasy Man and then the abuse starts and she is totally stuck. If you mention for them too really assess someone before having kids with them and how that can really reduce this kinda stuff you will be banned.

I also wonder if they are just desparate for a child and any man witll and he will love it when it gets here, until he doesn't

"He works in law enforcement" is the first red flag. She still married and bred with him.

Yup, the law enforcement thing is scary. I'm sure a lot of people get into the profession with good intentions and do great, but there's a percentage who think they're above the very same laws they're supposed to enforce.

It's pretty stupid for someone to just assume someone is a good person just because they're a police officer. They are just people and some of them are deeply flawed human beings who shouldn't be in that profession.

Good luck with her getting any help from the police. Ugh.

I was wondering if someone saw this one the other day.

Whenever I see these, I always copy them if I can because the OP almost ALWAYS removes the post, as this one did. She will probably go on, business as usual because she's likely pretty trapped.

children aren't called balls and chains for nothing.

two cents ¢¢

CERTIFIED HOSEHEAD!!!

No one is more arrogant towards women, more aggressive or scornful, than the man who is anxious (insecure..my word) about his virility. Simone de Beauvoir

people (especially women) do not give ONE DAMN about what they inflict on children and I defy anyone to prove me wrong

Dysfunctional relationships almost always have a child. The more dysfunctional, the more children. The selfish wants of adults outweigh the needs of the child.

Some mistakes cannot be fixed, but some mistakes can be 'fixed'.

People who say they sleep like a baby usually don't have one. Leo J. Burke

Adoption agencies have strict criteria (usually). Breeders, whose combined IQ's would barely hit triple digits, have none.

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children aren't called balls and chains for nothing.

Amen to that!

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Passive Aggressive
Master Of Anti-brat
Excuses!

Another big bonus to being CF. No tying yourself to a toxic, abusive man because of the kids. I left my marriage and it was a little easier (although difficult due to finances before I managed to rectify that) but I can see where some women would be completely hamstrung trying to get out when they have them.

I'm not anti-marriage, but I never want to get hitched again. I love being the Queen of my Castle and being in charge of my own life. The good and the bad. If I make a mistake, it's only me who will suffer. If I do well, I don't have to share in the spoils.

The only ones who I have to worry about besides myself are the critters and they are very forgiving of my mistakes. I just give them treats and it's all good.