Duh is tired of being used as a wallet by lazy SAHW September 13, 2024 | Registered: 2 years ago Posts: 68 |
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wallet duh
AITA for trying to make my wife get a job?
I 34m and my wife 34f have been having difficulties when it comes to her not wanting to work. I have been working a job that was supposed to just be a temporary gig to get us on our feet. I work 70 hours a week in a construction job I’m up at 3 am and I usually don’t get home from work till after 7 PM When I get home, I usually shower eat and go straight to bed I average 5 hours of sleep every night, I have been doing this for 6 years. For the last few months, I have been suffering from extreme fatigue, anxiety, and I always seem to be sick, Over the last six years that I have been working this job, my wife has been unemployed she takes care of the house and watches my child 11 years old (from previous relationship) 3 days every other week. With the economy being the way it is and everything been so expensive. I have began trying to encourage her to get to go back to work. She is a photographer, and use to make very good money working for herself, (she still does a couple shoots a year to stay in practice but nothing substantial) she says she wants to be a stay at home wife instead. But I have told her idk how much longer I can keep this up, because it’s starting to feel like it’s killing me. She mostly ignores me when I start talking about it. I recently came to her with a list of non-negotiables I needed in my life. Which included a job that allows at least 7 hours of sleep each night. No more than 10 hour work days except on occasion, and a schedule that allows me to have a maintainable healthy workout schedule, and ample time to spend with my child while in our care. This made her very mad because that would mean she would have to work part time as well to help pay bills to which she believes she shouldn’t have to do.
She says taking care of the home/animals is just as much work as I do and that should be enough and that I am ungrateful for everything she does. AITA?
* I should have been more clear when I said she took care of the animals, we have 2 medium sized dogs
Update*** talking with my wife and she tells me life would be a lot easier if she would just leave me.
Re: Duh is tired of being used as a wallet by lazy SAHW September 18, 2024 | Registered: 7 months ago Posts: 18 |
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Re: Duh is tired of being used as a wallet by lazy SAHW September 22, 2024 | Registered: 14 years ago Posts: 8,026 |
Re: Duh is tired of being used as a wallet by lazy SAHW September 22, 2024 | Registered: 7 months ago Posts: 18 |
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twocents
people still believe the bullshit about the happy famblee myth. the guy is burnt out. however, if he dumps her ass, chances are the cunt will be made to work. maybe she could rent her twat out. sounds as if that is the only working part of her body.
Re: Duh is tired of being used as a wallet by lazy SAHW September 23, 2024 | Registered: 9 years ago Posts: 3,803 |
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redrat33
Shit like this is why I laugh when I see men (especially passport bros) bitch about how they want a tradwife that just stays at home cooking cleaning and fucking and doesn't work because its "too manly".
They better be careful what they wish for. Cuz they may get their wish and get a lazy leech for a wife that mooches off of them while they work themselves to death
Re: Duh is tired of being used as a wallet by lazy SAHW September 23, 2024 | Registered: 15 years ago Posts: 3,972 |
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Re: Duh is tired of being used as a wallet by lazy SAHW October 01, 2024 | Registered: 14 years ago Posts: 8,026 |
Re: Duh is tired of being used as a wallet by lazy SAHW October 01, 2024 | Registered: 14 years ago Posts: 2,730 |
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antisprog
Men who rave about wanting a Tradwife better becareful what they wish for or they could end up in a situation like this ; treated as a wallet and worked near to death by a lazy widfe.
Re: Duh is tired of being used as a wallet by lazy SAHW October 04, 2024 | Registered: 14 years ago Posts: 8,026 |
Re: Duh is tired of being used as a wallet by lazy SAHW October 04, 2024 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 3,658 |
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mumofsixbirds
I agree that both people are to blame. If the guy wants this kind of wife, he gets what he gets. If the woman wants to be that kind of wife, then I guess she gets what she gets.
Re: Duh is tired of being used as a wallet by lazy SAHW October 13, 2024 | Registered: 12 years ago Posts: 21 |